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~Money Shot~

Allowance from POT/SD date this week!

£4000 ($5350) in cold hard cash.

Hustle baby 💕👏🏻

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Even for my followers who are not sugar babies, don’t settle for a broke fuck boy who is getting more out of the relationship than you. If you can’t come over his place, ride in his car, go out with him, or spend anytime with him that don’t involve sex, then cut him loose. If he’s crashing with you, spends your money, just wants to “chill”, and is literally only good for is dick, then cut him loose. You can’t expect these men to treat you right if you don’t demand it.

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“I could fuck people in real life for free” then by all means GO DO THAT. No one is stopping you. You chose to seek out sex workers’ services but you want to complain that we require payment for said services? You don’t have to go on cam sites. You don’t have to watch porn. You don’t have to go to strip clubs or contact escorts or interact with sex workers in any way, at all, ever. And we really don’t want to interact with you if you’re not paying so why don’t you get back to that sea of pussy you’re supposedly drowning in and leave us the fuck alone so we can make our money?

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NYC treating me well so far!

Hustle on, y'all 🤑

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💸Money Asahd, reblog for bands 💲💸

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It's been a loooong time! I don't know where to start other than not much has happened.. I've been a bit lazy with pots and sugaring in general. I've spent the last couple of months just looking forward to seeing Piers haha I was in NYC in May, then he came in June and July. I won't see him for a while now and I was feeling sad about it. What made it worse was that he didn't even message me after he went back to NYC and I just felt like I was left at the very back of his mind. I know I shouldn't worry but I just really want some attention haha I did get a new SD. I shall name him Cuba. He's alright, not really the type I imagined SDs are although he is married. He's my first married SD but I won't take any bs from him. Our pot date was a disaster tbh haha we talked for about 3hrs, didn't offer me lunch or a gift. But he did later on call me up again and we went to a hotel and that sealed the deal. He's not *not* generous but he is a tiny bit inconsiderate when it comes to the finance side of things. He's giving good allowance per meet and I'm starting to trust him a little but stupid things like not offering an uber or food get to me.. It was a struggle to draw my lines with him at first. I was getting frustrated with him trying to bargain with me and told him to just walk away because I didn't feel respected nor did he show consideration. He flipped backwards and forwards with himself and I basically watched until he made a decision. He gets me now. I was very ready to walk away and he crawled right back. It made me realise that a little work at the beginning can get you further later. Intuition plays into this so much, at least for me. There are some men that will be difficult and I won't blink twice before blocking him, but some I get a feeling to stick it out for a minute longer and usually it works for me. We went from 500 to 1k in one meeting and 6 messages between us. He's been trying to make it out that with the increase he won't see me as often because he has to be careful to not get caught. Makes no sense to me, all I hear is excuses - he proved this when he transferred me allowance and put "sb" as reference (dumbass lmao). Anyway, I don't remember what I said but I hope I didn't make him feel like idgaf even though, issa truth 😹 Saw Berkeley today. It's been so long! He's really my best dick appointment - he's a gentleman, the sex is great, and he throws me out in under an hour 😹😹 maybe he's used to seeing escorts so he has a great sense of time haha I won't lie, his allowance is the lowest of them all but I feel the best with him. He compliments me so much, takes care of my ride there and back and gives me zero fuss - he texts maximum one week in advance to ask if I'm free x day at z time. He's absolutely like a client and I don't mind 😄 Well, that's all for now. I don't really have any wisdoms to share other than if you do your filtering right, you'll have fuss free arrangements. Be ready to walk away, men who seek SBs are likely to have a complex and 'winning you (over)' after a rejection will be satisfying to them. Also, it shows there's no desperation they can exploit - a good man will admire a strong woman, but a bad one will demonise her. Men's egos are so fragile..

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The real question is: What can you do for me that I can't do for myself?

I can fuck myself. I can drive myself. I can pay for shit by myself. I can do anything I want all by myself. So do not come to me, men, like you are gods given gift on this earth. I can have a child without you, there are a shit ton of sweet babies needing adoption. I can feel love and be in love without you. So when you send me the message “well what can you offer me?” The opportunity to please me. That’s what I can offer you.

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I love your attitude!! What do you say when a POT asks you why you chooses to be a sugar baby?

“Because I want my bills paid!”

Lol just kidding. I stroke their egos a little and say that men my age are unsure of themselves, immature, and don’t know how to treat and care for a lady. That older men are more successful, chivalrous, experienced, and can take care of my needs in every aspect. Say that you notice that you had more successful relationships with older men that know what they want and understands what a real mutually beneficial relationship is.

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People act like its something wrong with wanting luxury. I dont want to live an average life never have and thats just me everybody differs, but Im tired of girls being judged for wanting luxury. I want luxurious cars I want to live in a mansion and I want to be able to buy my ass whatever I want and thats not a crime.

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Sugar Mistakes I’ve Made in the Past

Yes I know, it’s hard to believe that I made sugar mistakes before. I was a beginner too in this shit, when I was just 19 years old. I wasn’t aware of the tumblr sugaring community or the tips and tricks in this game. A lot of shit I had to learn on my own, but luckily these mistakes did not cost me big time. Here were my beginner sugar mistakes before I wised up:

I used my real number and email to contact men

I sent extra photos (not nudes) to pic collectors that never contacted me again afterwards.

I wasted my time on SA with men that wanted the “girlfriend experience” for almost $500 a month. 

My profile was very lackluster and my photos had filters.

My lifestyle expectation on SA was “negotiable” and I stated that I was “open-minded” on my profile, that attracted a lot of creeps and time-wasters. 

My initial messages to men were a dry “Hi”. Never gotten responses from the men I really wanted.

Learn from my mistakes and step your game up. This is not easy.

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I am so done. Also something about him is just giving me the weird vibe, that’s why I replied the way I did. But also, who the fuck do you think you are to ask me why I need money? Why you need pussy? Lol

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Your mood can affect your level of motivation, but never let it affect your discipline. Successful people know what they need to do and do it, regardless of how they feel. Don’t miss out on possible opportunities just because you have chosen to be overpowered by temporary feelings.

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^^^ this! I was hella lost when I first started, but I wasn’t hurt from my rookie mistakes, just some lost time. Don’t be afraid to try anything once (going high or low) and use the practice to get better at asking

Hello, I'm a fairly new sugar baby and I am meeting up with a guy in a few days but I have no idea how much to ask for regarding pay per meet. Please help x

Hey babe, congratulations! Hope the date goes super well. When I first started sugaring I was asking for $250/date but now do double that (sometimes more, rarely less). It really just depends on what you’re looking for - taking into account the area you’re sugaring in and the type of guy you’re seeing (whale, splenda potential, etc.) helps too. Because sometimes a guy will just be cheap and sometimes he really won’t have the money to spend - can help to differentiate the two (when possible) so you know when to push and secure dat allowance + when to drop it/him. 

Until you get comfy asserting yourself within the bowl it can feel p awkward to state your number - it totally did for me. So it can help to ~fake it ‘til you make it~ and act like pro, never ever let the POT know you’re new to this or he’ll likely try to take advantage. “My previous daddy and I were very happy with each other and I’m therefore accustomed to $X/meet,” for example. No matter how high or low your desired allowance is there’s always going to be someone who tells you it’s too high and that they’re able to offer, like, a fraction of it. Def don’t listen to them bc they’re basically just looking for a cheap fuck, and better daddies are out there. Xx

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What is something non-sexual that turns you on?

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So Piers and I have been discussing me getting a boob job with some seriousness to it. At first I said it a bit jokingly. It has been something I've always said I'd like, my chest is practically nonexistent and it kinda came about because he likes to talk about and share porn with me (yeah, I know, weird and slightly gross). I don't mind it since I'm quite sexual and he doesn't actually have unrealistic expectations of me/our sex. Anyway, so we joked about it, and it's kinda been coning up more and he said he'd pay half. I said "haha, what am I supposed to do with one big boob?!" Eventually he thought about seriously enough and he's considering paying for it all, but next year. Which is completely fine, I'm not in a rush. He's told me to find out all the costs for it and basically investigates the procedure etc. I haven't really started looking yet and I know that I won't get an accurate quote until I go for a consultation. Still, it's a big decision and I'm not completely sure I want to go for it to be honest. It's like one of those things you say passively but you don't know if you mean it when push comes to shove. I always said I'd probably get it done after kids, coz that's better, right? And idk.. If I have any complications in the future, can I afford to fix things?? Piers is obviously hot on me having them done, I mentioned it to my ex SD before and he was half half, he supported it if I wanted it. Berkeley, my longest running SD is 1000% against it, calling them ugly, horrible, unnatural lol. *sigh* idkkk maybe I should look into it and make my decision with more info. If you guys have doctors or websites you recommend, drop a message, reblog it or reply! Many thanks :)