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Now you hate me, for telling you that you triggered my trauma and to stop that. I wish I could switch off the panic attacks, but I cant and you scare me sometimes (not in purpose). I'm really trying to fight, but it's not enough

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This is my fucking mom and I think Im subconsciously angry with her because she did exactly that. She tried to justify his abuse by saying ''he had a difficult childhood, you need to be more understanding''. When she finally realized (she always knew, she confessed, but she was too afraid of being alone) it, I tried to tell her how she hurt me and she tried to yell at me that ''she got it worse from him''. Then she began to tell me intimate sexual things that he presumably forced her to do by emotional manipulation. I didn't need to know that as a kid. Not to mention he had inappropriate thoughts on me too, but that doesn't matter, my problems never matter. Other times she tries to convince herself that she did the right thing by staying married to him because ''he would hurt me if they weren't married'' when he already did when she wasn't around, which was always because she was very occupied with her mental illness, work or accusing me of hitting her (a thing I never did), she was neurotic when she didn't take her meds, and she refused a lot. At this point, I think both of them are shitty. I tried to be understanding of her mental illness, but being abusive is not justified by a mental illness. I don't know if my mom was always this shitty or got influenced by my father.

This post is made specifically to shame mothers who tried to convince their child that their abusive, cold, distant, aggressive, controlling, violent, you-are-never-good-enough-for-me father actually loves them. This is made to call out every single mom who sat their child down, and told them “Your father isn’t good at showing it, but he loves you.” Or any other complete, utter LIE. 

Because how could you fucking live with yourself after teaching your child to doubt their own senses when they’re being hurt and to call it love? How could you not drown in a pit of shame after telling your child to accept abuse as love! What do you think will happen when they get a spouse who abuses, neglects and hits them? How do you think they’ll feel when they hear your repeated words “they’re bad at showing it but they love you.” How could you take action to make SURE your child keeps living in abuse?! Your children are dead right to think they’re being despised and abused and you went and messed with their fucking sanity. This is unforgivable.

And I fucking know why you did it, you wanted your family to stay together, AT THE EXPENSE OF YOUR CHILD BEING ABUSED! Abusive families should NEVER STAY TOGETHER! Not at expense of any member! And especially not the most vulnerable, most defenseless human in it, who you were supposed to be protecting from abuse, not aiding abuser in brainwashing them! 

I will never forgive any one of you. You’re an adult and you stood there and watched your child be abused and took the abuser’s side. If you loved your child you’d be jumping out of your body to try to make sure they’re away and protected from all and any abuse. You all ain’t shit and you don’t deserve your children. Fuck you. 

And of course the child will latch to any hope that they can somehow earn their father’s love and they’ll be filled with completely false hope and then try harder and work harder to please their abusive dad which is exactly what he wants and then he will go and break their fucking hears over and over again because abusive dads are not capable of loving their children and they never fucking will be. Setting your child for even more pain than what they’ve already endured at the hands of their father is fucking evil. What you should be telling to your children is “That man is complete garbage and nothing he ever said about you is true, his approval isn’t worth shit, he is incapable of love, you go and live free of that bullshit, and never think that you’re not good enough because doesn’t know shit about who you are.”

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Im pretty sure they do it anywhere, at least in the UK. And, sincerely, he deserves it.If you really think every kid out of USA is a soft lovely angel that wont smash Barney’s head with a stick, you are in denial. But go off and spread your political agendas anywhere, I guess.  

remember when we were kids and we used to all sing that demented version of the barney song where it was like “i hate you you hate me let’s go out and kill barney”

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Danny: Hey Beth? Uh yeah we got a problem. I’m trying to sneak into the place you said but I’m dummy thick and the clap of my asscheeks keeps alerting them.

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Instead of friends, put mother

Me when my friends are sad Me: *shares advices, tips, and showers them with compliments*

My friends when I am sad My friends: ok but can we talk about this later? I’m not really in the mood for this

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HEY, GUYS, I HAVE А LOT OF SKETCHES FOR ADVENTURE TIME, AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHH

There are beginning of mermaid AU, ballet AU and sleepover one

I REALLY enjoyed do this stuff. I think it’s kinda funny, a lil’ bit weird (like me and my nickname XD) and pretty cute :3

🤔🤔🤔 Instead of “I kissed a boy” could be another… Many others. For example “Girls just wanna have fun”. Or “Don’t go breaking my heart” from “Chicken little” 😂 Oh, Glob. It’s also “wannabe” (IF YOU WANNA BE MY LOVER….yeah, I guess u know the text)

P. S. I used an online translator, so I’m sorry if anything is wrong

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''...even professional therapists...'' No, nope, NO, NO, Nein, NOO Guess how's not getting therapy then :)

Mothers Who Abuse Their Children and Why Society Accepts it

I’ve seen posts talk about how the idea of motherhood and mothers having a better bond with their children and mothers having a “natural instinct” has hurt fathers and has even caused close interactions btw father and child to be looked down upon and seen a societally unacceptable etc.

But what I haven’t seen is a post that talks about how societies idealized view of relationships between mothers and their children is directly related to society’s acceptance of mothers abusing their children.

Our society activity accepts abuse from mothers and this needs to end.

The idea that if your mother hits you it’s discipline but if your father hits you it’s abuse is wrong. Both interactions are instances of abuse.

I have grown up with a mother who has chased me through the house, punched me many times, kicked me, hurt to me to the point where I’ve been physically ill for weeks. I am a victim of many years physical, emotional and mental abuse.

I suffer from night terrors of my abuse, triggers, touch repulsions, borderline personality disorder, panic disorder, chronic major depressive disorder (my depressive episodes are more frequent than depressive orders typically are for mdd) as a result of how she has abused me throughout my childhood and into my adulthood.

But people, many people even professional therapists have all insisted that as her child I owe her love and affection. Even people who have witnessed her abusing me insist that it is my job to love her because she decided to give birth to me. And decided to raise me.

This mindset has kept many children from being able to seek the help that they need. This mindset keeps children who are dealing with situations they should never have to think about victims to their mother’s abuse. It puts childrens lives in danger. It puts their mental health in danger.

Friends, family, social workers, psychologists, therapists, have all insisted to me throughout my childhood. That I was responsible for my mother, a grown adult, attacking me. That it was still my job as the person she gave birth to, to love her. Because of how society idealizes motherhood.

This cycle needs to end. Immediately. We don’t need put another generation of children through this. We can end this to help children as well as adults who are victims of their mother’s abuse rather than teaching them that it’s acceptable.

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To the ones that claim that abuse can only be physical, that you are ''only too sensitive and you need thicker skin'' if someone brutally messed with your reality and emotions and laughs at your trauma... Cordially, f*ck off :) Brain reacts to emotional pain the same way than physical in a cognitive way.

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I think it was because it was some sort of reference to adventure time and that attracted some active and important members of the community. Also, original work here it's very difficult to get noticed because people prefers fandoms, to rely on something (characters) they love and trust, even if your own material is very good. It doesn't mean your work is bad, it means the algorithm and public give advantage to the fanart or fandom contend. Please, avoid depending your self-esteem so much on online approval. I recommend you to gain some fans using fandom art and then introducing your original work.

Twins, don’t you mean lady rainicorn? You did say princess bubble gum witch means your talking about adventure time.

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Eehh... I still think Marshall is a jerk, he's nothing like Marceline. But okay.

having a crush on these two is not just bisexual culture, it’s common sense

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Suffering and pleasure, actually. Emotions, in other words.

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Assigning gendered pronouns to a body, good. Just a reminder that ''it'' still exists. Also, they are pretty common if a lot of people have them. It has nothing to do with being preventable or not, it just means that people are ignorant or not careful. Or very unlucky, because certain foods can fuck your ph or be allergic to them with leave bacteria in the anus that can transfer to the vagina since they are pretty near to each other. Another great advantage of being a woman. But yeah, that's the definition of ''common'': a thing that's very spread, regardless of causes or prevention.

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Excepting the first one, which is more of a social stigma and gender roles... How the fuck you know those are straight and not bi/pan? I'm pretty sure any straight girl would kiss another woman, but bi women can do that. Or liking threesomes (arousing males), that doesn't make them less bi, same with gay people liking menages a trois. Maybe those are bi/pan people having fun in a flirting way, without noticing it ththemselves (compulsory heterosexuality) or not wanting to label themselves.

the reason straight men will dress up in drag for lip sync battles and comedy sketches is because it’s a joke to them

the reason straight male athletes will behave homoerotically with each other is because being gay is a joke to them

the reason straight girls will call each other girlfriends and kiss each other for the amusement of men is because being gay is a joke to them

just throwing that out there

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Having your parents fighting constantly to the point they scream and throw objects at the ground is not war? To the point when you hear a sudden loud and aggressive noise you get panic attacks?

You know you question having PTSD every time someone says, "but you weren't in war" "that happened to me"

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I think they were a troll or something, that can't be true

An... An actual human being just tried to convince me that Boku no pico was a good anime that I should watch... That's the closest I've ever come to murder... I stg

This is so horrible I am so sorry…… i had an abuser who made me watch it…. it’s not fun

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To the ones saying " but men have arms to masturbate": Women 👏don't👏 need 👏penetration👏 to 👏achieve 👏orgasm, they 👏have hands👏 too -sincerely, a woman. Stop the double standars

It is socially acceptable for a woman to own a vibrator, but it is considered weird for a man to own a pocket pussy.

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When you find a woman objetifier se* obsessed pe//do supporter (''if the minor liked it and doesn't have pstd it wasn't reallt abuse) on Quora...