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I am burdened with glorious purpose.

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Perfection

Tom Hiddleston by Austin Hargrave during TIFF 2015

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I want to say I completely agree with these posts. NOBODY has the right to tell someone else what to think or feel.

If you’re a fan of Tom Hiddleston, you’re part of the fandom.

NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE ELSE TELLS YOU OR TRIES TO TELL YOU.

This morning I saw this:

This is an anon hate message that @wthhanon4u received. It is disgusting, is it not? Heezy is an intelligent, well-spoken woman who’s funny as hell and has said her piece exactly the way she wanted to all summer long. You may not like it or agree with it, and that’s fine, BUT SHE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO SPEAK HER MIND ON HER OWN BLOG. WE ALL HAVE THAT RIGHT. EACH AND EVERY ONE OF US. NO ONE IS FORCING YOU TO FOLLOW SOMEONE OR CLICK A LINK OR TYPE AN URL AND READ THEIR BLOG. 

You want to reblog something you don’t agree with and comment? Have at it. You want to block someone? Have at that, too. But as I’ve said before, IT IS BEYOND FUCKED UP to not like someone’s thoughts or opinions and go drop hate in their fucking inbox. Grow some fucking balls to attach your name to your hate, you gaping passive-aggressive asshole.

Now on to the contents of the anon hate…calling someone who minds their own damn business and doesn’t stick their nose where it doesn’t belong a THUG? Really? Um, little grey face, you might want to take a look in the mirror.

Crawling back to OUR fandom? Real fans from fake ones? This ‘fandom’ is for anyone who enjoys Tom Hiddleston, be it his work, his face or his cock. We don’t get to define what a ‘real’ fan or a ‘fake’ one is. WE DO NOT GET TO TELL EACH OTHER HOW TO BE A FAN.

Once more for the people in the back:

WE DO NOT GET TO TELL EACH OTHER HOW TO BE A FAN.

As for it being related to who Tom is dating…dude, if someone doesn’t dig the chick he’s with and wants to talk about her/it…NOT YOUR BUSINESS. Totally possible to not enjoy Tom’s chick and still enjoy Tom. Nothing wrong with that, either.

BECAUSE WE ALL GET TO BE A FAN HOWEVER WE WANT. If you don’t like the way someone does it, it doesn’t make you a BETTER fan than they are. WE ARE ALL JUST…FANS. This is not a fucking competition.

Didn’t things get fucked up enough over the past three months? Don’t you think it’s time to knock this shit the fuck OFF? STOP WITH THE ANON HATE.

LET EVERYONE ELSE ENJOY TOM HOWEVER THEY WISH, M’KAY?

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Strange Attraction - Prologue (on Wattpad) http://my.w.tt/UiNb/EHtm7aXuzw He is not my type, he's a pretty boy actor. A roll in the hay is one thing, but a relationship, with someone who dated a whiney little Teen Idol. No Thanks! I modeled the Female OC after my favorite female Rock star, Amy Lee. I'm only using her likeness. She is so gorgeous.

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Susan Sarandon isn’t taking your shit....good for her!

hello police i’ve just witnessed a fucking murder

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This is truth

She is already trying to save face by throwing Tom under the bus, saying it's all because of him. OMG. I was all for the support of their relationship, but any sight of her will be removed from my blog. He didn't use her, she used him and is now blaming him. God, I feel so bad for Tom, and just look at what the media and haters are going to say now. I'm still here for ya Tom and will never leave.

Some of the haters will be bad (saying he deserves it). Some will do a 180, especially if Taylor gets nasty. I think Swifties are in for a nasty surprise if they try to take him down in any way. Because there’s nothing worse than a wronged Hiddlestoner.

Now, if you’ll excuse me, there are some blogs I have to unfollow…

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Ohhhhhh yes

I can’t recall where I found this.

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Ummmm,,,,,where did I leave my inhaler?

Saddle up y'all. Time for a ride.

Photos not mine. They are the property of the photographers/magazines etc. Created on my iPad mini using Over, Photoshop Fix, PS Express and TitleFx. Fan edit only.

Inspired by a conversation between @beaglebitch and @the-haven-of-fiction so you know who to blame.

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We are forever grateful for the laughs, Sir...

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This man makes fans so happy.

ples_meri_4305 Has there even been a happier selfie? I think not. #Loki #Thor#Selfie #TomHiddleston

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Headed to Twitter now! I love Leslie!

Someone hacked Leslie Jones' website

They released private photos and information. People really hate successful black women, oh my god. Like last time, I’ll be using #LoveforLeslieJ to drum up a bit of positivity.

I’m so disgusted.

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This made me laugh!

This is the first thing I thought when I saw these photos. I mean, they may be norse gods, but they’re still siblings. …sorta.

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Yes! We need to print this up and hand out little reminder cards. Perfect!

Repeat after me Swifties & Hiddlestoners:

MY FAVE IS NOT PERFECT. MY FAVE IS PROBLEMATIC. I DO NOT HAVE TO SUPPORT THEIR EVERY DECISION TO BE A FAN. MY FAVE IS NOT PERFECT. MY FAVE IS PROBLEMATIC. I DO NOT HAVE TO SUPPORT THEIR EVERY DECISION TO BE A FAN. MY FAVE IS NOT PERFECT. MY FAVE IS PROBLEMATIC. I DO NOT HAVE TO SUPPORT THEIR EVERY DECISION TO BE A FAN. MY FAVE IS NOT PERFECT. MY FAVE IS PROBLEMATIC. I DO NOT HAVE TO SUPPORT THEIR EVERY DECISION TO BE A FAN. MY FAVE IS NOT PERFECT. MY FAVE IS PROBLEMATIC. I DO NOT HAVE TO SUPPORT THEIR EVERY DECISION TO BE A FAN. MY FAVE IS NOT PERFECT. MY FAVE IS PROBLEMATIC. I DO NOT HAVE TO SUPPORT THEIR EVERY DECISION TO BE A FAN.

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This...

Whenever I write I feel like I'm forcing myself and it's not good enough and so I scrap it, what should I do?

When Your Writing Just Isn’t Good Enough

So I’m in the mood for a pep talk here. Maybe because I’ve needed a lot of those myself lately, and it seems like the best way to get back into blogging here again. 

Part of the problem (emphasis on part) is this delusion that a lot of us have that writing is really glamorous. That writing is this thing where we sit in front of our computers with studious expressions, sipping a cup of coffee, and pouring out something brilliant and earth shattering. And the illusion continues on to assume that when we finally shut our laptop for the day, we will sit back with a satisfied smile and pat ourselves on the back for a job well done. Then we wake up and do the whole thing all over again.

This isn’t the reality that I live in, and I don’t think most writers do either. The scenario I described above happens to me maybe once every few months, if that. More often than not, this is how my writing goes:

I take a peek at where I left off during my last session. If I have to think about what to write next for longer than a minute, I minimize and decide to “process” for a few minutes. And then the procrastinating starts. The story continues to pump in the back of my brain while I’m doing other things, but the longer I think, the more I start to doubt. And when I finally pause in my procrastination to take another peek at the story, I look at it differently. I grimace at it, and I tell myself it sucks and I declare that I just can’t face my “suck-age” right now. I tell myself I’m not emotionally strong enough to face that kind of insecurity. And I tell myself that these feelings will pass, and for my own peace of mind, I’ll wait for them to pass and then come back to it. And the feelings usually do pass, and somehow the next time I sit down I’m in a better frame of mind to continue the scene.

Is this a productive or healthy way of approaching my writing? Of course not. But I accept that at this point in my life, this is how I operate, and I’m okay with it. I still strive to do better, and I use the progress of other writers I know to motivate me, but at the end of the day, I have to be happy with how I’m progressing. Because trust me, you will feel insecure enough about what you’re writing without adding more insecurities about how you’re writing it.

The point of this diatribe is to remind you that while writers can make recommendations of how a writer should write, only you know what works best for you. There are countless debates on this concept of “forcing” yourself to write when you don’t want to, but every person is different. If you’re forcing the words, and you’re not having fun, you’re not excited about the outcome, you’re not even excited by any of the ideas, then clearly writing for the sake of writing is not a good brainstorming tool for you.

If nothing you write interests you, then I would suggest taking a step back and spending some time with your ideas in your head only. Think through existing ideas and see if you can find a spark when it’s just you and your thoughts. If nothing seems intriguing, then go ahead and find prompts to think about. Don’t write the prompts - just use them as jumping off points to brainstorm concepts, scenes, characters.

The fact is, you have to be absolutely over-the-moon excited about whatever concept you come up with. You have to be excited to get to know the characters you’ve sketched, and the plot needs to be something you feel compelled to put together. If not, it’s going to be immensely harder to put up with the words not being good enough. Because you will always doubt the words you write; you’ll doubt the way you’re telling the story, and you’ll doubt its validity in literature and pop culture. But if you love it at its core, that’s sometimes enough to put up with all that bullshit and keep going.

I’ve gotten really rambly here, but I think it’s important that you really look at what it is you’re writing and decide if it’s something you’re really excited about. It might be a great idea, but if it’s not an idea you’re enthusiastic about, shelve it and find something else. Keep searching for the “it” project that you’ll be willing to toil over. Because you will toil over it, and you will have to face your suck-age from time to time, but the important thing is that no matter how many days, weeks, or months you’re away from the story, it has to be something that you want to come back to.

The last thing I’ll leave you with is this: There’s a saying out there that writers write, and if you’re not actually writing, then you’re not a writer. Forget that. Forget it all. Writers write, yes, but a writer is also someone who can’t stop themselves from trying. They’ll never stop searching for advice, or new approaches, and they’ll never stop looking for the perfect ideas. Because the best writers are writers that want to do it, and no matter how little progress they’re making, it will always exist in their lives in some way. And that’s what matters.

Now good luck!

-Rebekah

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I want to reblog this twice!

I just want to say to thanks

to all the woke bitches who continue to call Tom out on his bullshit and lies in the most entertaining ways.  What I love about us is that we are just sitting here, being snarky and bitchy and coming up with conspiracies and seeing through what’s being sold to us. We are eye rolling this shit hard because it deserves it.

Those on the other side of the fence paint us like crazy people that they need to protect Tom from- but we know the opposite is true. If I met Tom tomorrow I’d say “HI nice to meet you” and probably “I love Loki” to annoy him heehee but that’s it- I know boundaries. I don’t expect anything from him.

Those other bitches? they’d be like like-“TOM I DEFENDED YOU I BELIEVE YOU I PAINTED THIS PIC OF YOU A TAYLOR YOUR LOVE IS PURE!  CAN I ASK A QUESTION ABOUT SCENE 34 OF HIGH RISE AND WHY YOUR HAIR WAS DIFFERENT? I’VE SEEN IT 134 TIMES!!!  I AM PERSONALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR 23% OF THE BOX OFFICE REVENUE FOR ISTL!! LOVE ME! PRAISE ME!

So keep giving zero fucks for as long as it lasts, ladies!  @kaleidoscope112 @restlesstymes @lemonade-time  @phungkeymonkey @wthanon4u @teachatandsugar @sarabeth72 @ladytron2000 @jackburtonsays @lyingtom @hellandfandoms @madsrocketship @areubeingserved

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These two are adorable. Now, this I ship!

Tom Hiddleston and Elizabeth Debicki attend the Met Gala on May 2, 2016.