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Hey, CGs

~ Reminder that breaks are okay.

~ Reminder that you can say no to looking after a tiny one

~ Reminder that you can look after yourself

~ Reminder that you are not in a one way relationship with your regressor

~ Reminder that sometimes, CG space isn't the most friendly or therapeutic

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Just a reminder that you're super valid, and you deserve the world - CG, flip, baby, whatever. Grab a paci, a colouring book, cuddle your baby, and relax. It's all gonna be okay.

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How to help little ones who have abandonment issues ~

When you have to leave for work, school, or any other commitments, tell them how long you will be, and if you'll be around for texting

Acknowledge that they may be incredibly clingy, and that's okay (also it usually results in lots of 'uppies!' and cuddles, so never ever a bad thing)

Never ever leave them on read or for long periods of time without any communication (unless accidental)

Long texts to remind them that you still love them are always ideal

It might feel tedious, and perhaps a slight chore, but it really does and will mean the world to them. Knowing that you are making them happy, is always enough to keep going.

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Sometimes, CG space can be tough. If you feel tired, ill, mentally burnt out, physically tired, or just generally bad, it can take a real toll.

But, as long as you do the best for your little one(s), communicate as much as you can, and keep in mind that you need to look after yourself as much as you need to be a good Bubba, you will always, always be fine.

Stay strong, fellow CGs 💛

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How to help autistic CGs with sniffles

With CGs on the autistic spectrum, sniffles and seasonal allergies can really get to them.

To help, you could ~

Draw them pictures, send them handwritten notes (if LDR) or texts to cheer them up

Give them hugs from both you and your stuffies [maybe even give them a stuffie to hold when sleeping if hugging gets too much!]

Help them make plain food like toast or soup, or big kiddos could even make it themselves!

Cuddles, silly faces, and lots and lots of baby kisses, will be the best medicine

Sometimes them being ill may affect your littlespace, but hang on in there. With a gentle nudge ever so often, and a bit of communication and compassion, they'll get through this.

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How to help autistic littles when they get the sniffles

For some littles on the autistic spectrum, having blocked noses, scratchy throats and being icky can feel like the worst thing on earth.

You could ~

Gently remind them to take meds

Keep a box of tissues nearby for blowing tiny noses

Ask them if they need quiet time, or all the lights off for limited sensory input

Try to coax food into them, and if you can, specifically any safe foods they can cope with

Playdoh, sticker books and colouring will always keep them in bed and happy

They might moan, and whine, and need a lot of attention, but be patient. They'll get through this.

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Is there anything cuter than just a tiny little? Like, teensy tiny? A little one that you can bounce on your knee ever so gently to get them to drift off, a little to bottle feed and watch as they gaze up to you with no words, the meaning behind their look just so apparent in your mind as you shush them to sleep.

Basically, tiny littles are just 🥺

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If you don't ~

Watch cartoons or kids' shows

Use pacis

Colour, or draw

Want bottles or sippies

Do anything else typical of your regression age

you are still a valid regressor!

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If you're -

In a polyam relationship, and more than one of you are regressors, that's valid

In a polyam relationship, and more than one of you are CGs, that's valid

In a polyam relationship, and someone in the relationship isn't a CG, regressor or a flip, that's valid

In a polyam relationship and you have to find a platonic CG or little outside that relationship, that's valid

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Big up to the flips that -

That sometimes just need to be babie for a while, and they can't control it

Always make sure that they're balancing littlespace and CG space with a partner who also flips

That sometimes sacrifices their littlespace to help someone else in littlespace

That sometimes just need to be Bubba for a while, and they can't control it

Flips, you're all cool 😎

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This is a post for the peeps on Tumblr :)

So hi! I never really paid much attention to my following on Tumblr, as I usually used it for formatting for Instagram, but this post is not going anywhere except here!

I just want to say thank you! I really love the community here, and I can't believe I've gained so many followers with basically an unmaintained page!

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Things that are not inherently kink, but are labelled as such ~

Diapers

Wearing animal ears during regression

Collars

Being called/calling your CG "Daddy"

Having rules set by your CG

Your regression is yours to control. Do exactly what you want, as long as you separate age regression and age play, and it is consensual with all parties.

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Little : *makes 🥺 face*

CG : *melt* Oh my tiny one, you want cuddles? Maybe your favourite film? Sippy cup? Stuffie? Blankie? How 'bout some food? Maybe nuggies? Or you want a nap? You wanna cuddle up with Bubba and take a nap?

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Most people my age : daydreaming about having their partner with them, their wedding, becoming successful at their job

Me : daydreaming about living with my little one, coming in the door and being attacked with cuddles as they giggle softly and look up at me with the bigges eyes, lifting them up onto my hip and taking them into the bedroom to get changed, choosing out a diapie and matching onesie for them to wear, helping them get dressed before cuddling up with a plate of dino nuggies balanced precariously on my knee as I feed my tiny one, burrito blanketing them and letting them know they're safe and sound in Mummy's arms.

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CG things for all the different age regressors age ranges :

0 - 2 years

Opening and holding bottles for them

Making silly noises just to make them giggle

Working out what all their cute little babbles and gestures mean

2 - 5 years

Dealing with grumpy little ones when they insist they don't want a nap

Chuckling gently when they say "I can do it! I'm a big kid!"

Putting on a show when they need quiet

5 - 7 years

Letting them get their own food, but watching with a careful eye

Reading them a big kid story before bed

Letting them have fizzy drinks (big kid drinks) every once in a while

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TW : kink mention, kink name mention

Oh, you want to suddenly drop into my little one's DMs and be their dom or Bubba ? Well, let me ask you this first.

Do you know their favourite comfort item? Do you know how to get them into littlespace after a long day of big world stuff? Do you know what to do if they start to panic and worry? Do you know which show they like best when they're teensy tiny? Do you know the exact order in which they have to go to sleep, otherwise they'll kick up a fuss? Do you know what to fill their sippy cup with to make the cutest smile appear on their face?

Just because you decide that you'll turn up in someone's DMs and be their dom or Bubba, does not mean you know their regression. Don't drop into anyone's DMs with intent to sexualise their regression or 'treat them better' than their CG can.

Because trust me. You can't.

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Reminder that ~

- POC littles and CGs are valid

- Masc, fem and androgynous littles and CGs are valid

- Non-straight littles and CGs are valid

- Straight littles and CGs are valid

- Cis littles and CGs are valid

- Trans littles and CGs are valid (no matter if you've went through medical transitions or not!)

- Disabled littles and CGs are valid! ( Both mental and physical!)

- Chronically ill littles and CGs are valid

- Mentally ill littles and CGs are valid

- Minor and adult littles and CGs are valid

- Goth, Emo, Alt etc. littles and CGs are valid

No matter what, you are valid!