Hi, I'm Amanda, Mandy, call me anything you'd like. Bi. Nb. 29. Appalachia. Existential Crisis. Music. Traveling. Writing. Photography. Liberal. Catholic. Equality for All. The 1975. Proud Public Servant. Here for anyone who needs to talk. Don't want your pics without asking first, regardless of gender.
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Why do women think that a consolation prize for not getting picked to be a bridesmaid is being allowed to get ready with the bridesmaid?
Hey come get dressed with a bunch of women who are all dressed alike and in the theme of my wedding so you can be the odd one out
No thanks
#not even “thanks” it's an absolute no thanks#I told her “I definitely do not want to get ready with you and your bridesmaid#fuck weddings#someday I'll have one and you know what? Swear to God no one will be there#it's the 2nd time in 5 months I have been offered this
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"Wow. That dress is so beautiful. Is it cus-, did you have it specially made for you?"
"No, but it's my favorite dress"
"Rightly so, as it should be"
His face and reaction was even better than I could have imagined
#mv#like shut up shut the fuck up#it is my favorite dress#so many significant and memorable things have happened to me in this dress#in many countries - india - mexico - switzerland - greece - france - US (+PR) - probably others#I did not take it to Peru and in hindsight I should have but the dress I wore did it's job#in a crowded area he whispered in my ear how beautiful I was - and his accent!#I'll be back and can wear it then#30 has been good to me so far#I'm going to be replaying his facial expression and comments all day - all week#better than I could have possibly hoped for#I get a really big head when things go my way
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I'm such a horny little mess and I wish someone would take care of that 😩
#and the music I'm listening to isn't helping!#it definitely makes me more horny#iiiiiit's bad bunny in case you're curious
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Anton Chekhov, from The Complete Works of Anton Chekhov; "Platonov,"
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Sad but true, can confirm
fuuuuck i just realized that the future idealized version of myself cant exist without current me being the catalyst for change and doing hard things. has anybody heard about this
#this future me cooks elaborate meals and hosts where we eat for four hours - but the now me has to learn how to cook all these things#the zucchini was amazing
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pre-glastonbury mood
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Does Your County Have More Italian or Irish Ancestry?
#interesting if true#I live in a more Italian ancestry county and just great thank you#it would confirm why many church festivals are centered around Italian food#oh got the whole run down about which fried dough is the best and apparently it's my grandparents' church - also where I was baptized#so uh yes I will go this week but uh yes I am very nervous about this street parking and yes I might park in a free lot 25 minutes away#where to put my car is the hardest thing about going places and it is a strange thing that hinders me#but I've become a very motivated long distance walker#while carrying my son of course!
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drinking water when I have a headache should give instant relief. it should go away. what's even the point of drinking water if it can't do that
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MV on a Saturday? 30 is off to a good start
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2026 or 2027
I just have to get to Santo Antão
#all depends#either year is okay#fly: pittsburgh -> boston -> lisbon -> sao vincente -> then ferry to Santo Antão
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His reaction to the singer/keyboardist of his favorite band looking straight at me multiple times as he went by me waaaaas priceless
#I tease - “do you think he'll recognize me at the next show we go to?”#“yeah probably”#and you know I thought I saw him looking at me but I thought I was being vain#he goes “I went to the restroom and thought ”he's gonna fucking try to talk to her after the show“”#and I'm like - it's the guy from your favorite band - not from *my* favorite band lol#even so I have no thoughts of fucking Matty Healy - kiss him sure - play with his hair if it were there sure - but fucking no
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so much of life is needing to pee. enough already
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Listen, I know chatgpt is not cool, but in a time of need it told me, "You don't owe ease to anyone at your own expense" and that really hit me
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The irony that I arrived in France on the day of Paul's birthday is not lost on me
#that bastard#he is 35 today#but as far as I can keep tabs on that man I think he still lives in Switzerland so#dodged that budget#but which bullet - would I fuck him or be arrested for murder?#paul#he's gonna haunt me forever and I guess I'm okay with that#I can't listen to many songs without thinking of him but I'm not gonna just stop listening#you know if he wasn't such a jerk I wouldn't have wandered around by myself listening to menswear but that's my jam#that's the 1975 3rd best song and you can fight me on that
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