Irritating is a childish reaction; so much that you miss the cause of the next person's reason for their reaction and are unable to sympathise with them because of how they chose to express their emotions. And that was untidily. Approach is everything under any circumstance. Just because you are aggressive with your expression of emotions, doesn't mean you got your point across...or were heard.
It only takes a special kind of person to drop their level of understanding to the height of your lack of emotional control.