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Exorsexism and Gender Modality

Stop calling me trans. It's perfectly valid if trans best describes who you are, but I'm not trans, I never was, and will never be. I am an isogender, gender-expansive, omni person. tired of playing the exorsexist "either or" game trying to convince my OWN community to acknowledge, respect, and accept my existence. I’m shocked, but not surprised, by the hypocrisy of those among us who erase and marginalize gender-expansive people who live at the intersections of compounded systemic oppression. News flash: you don’t achieve gender-variant liberation by dividing and gatekeeping varsex and gender-expansive people into hierarchies just for existing.

What you get is becoming an easier target for the far-right extremists who ultimately want to erase you—right alongside us.

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Exorsexism and Gender Modality

Stop calling me trans. It's perfectly valid if trans best describes who you are, but I'm not trans, I never was, and will never be. I am an isogender, gender-expansive, omni person. tired of playing the exorsexist "either or" game trying to convince my OWN community to acknowledge, respect, and accept my existence. I’m shocked, but not surprised, by the hypocrisy of those among us who erase and marginalize gender-expansive people who live at the intersections of compounded systemic oppression. News flash: you don’t achieve gender-variant liberation by dividing and gatekeeping varsex and gender-expansive people into hierarchies just for existing.

What you get is becoming an easier target for the far-right extremists who ultimately want to erase you—right alongside us.

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If you voted, please take the time to read about Nader’s story.

Nader @abdalsalam2000 is only seventeen and has been displaced more than ten times because of the genocide in Gaza. During the ceasefire, him and his family were finally allowed to return home, but found their home destroyed by bombs. Since the ceasefire ended, they’ve been forced to flee again, and are living in fear from the bombs all day and night. Just yesterday, Nader told me that he and his brother narrowly escaped death from bombs that were dropped on them. The reality in Gaza is that this can happen at any time. They are living with fear and trauma most of us can never understand.

Nader is fundraising for his family of eight to survive the war and hopefully evacuate. The cost of food and necessities is extremely high, and the destruction of the healthcare system means medical care is difficult to access. Nader’s father has suffered from cancer since before the genocide started, and if he doesn’t get the treatment he needs his illness will continue to get worse. They also have a little girl with them, Nader’s niece Iman, who is only one year old and has lived with war her whole life. Please give them a chance and donate to help save their lives 🇵🇸❤️

€16,789 raised out of 50,000, will you help them get to 17,000 today? ❤️🇵🇸

@90-ghost @tamamita @rhubarbspring @heritageposts @dirhwangdaseul @neechees @butchniqabi @socalgal @finalgirlabigailhobbs @newporters @pikslasrce @vampiricvenus @danlous @loumandivorce @jackiedaytona @deepspaceboytoy @autisticmudkip @nashvillethotchicken @femmefitz @pitbolshevik @sawasawako @iregularlyevadetaxes @omegaversereloaded @hotvampireadjacent @boobieteriat @mens-rights-activia @ot3

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How do you define sex identity? Is it used interchangeably with sex?

Bottomsex: when your sex (identity) is “bottom”.

Versex: when your sex (identity) is “vers”.

Topsex: when your sex (identity) is “top”.

These fall under the varsex umbrella but not the altersex umbrella (although it’s ok to experience it that way). Versex is so me but I coined the others as well. Flags coming… sometime…

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trans people hate it when cis people ask about their genitals so WHY do so many perisex trans people ask intersex people about their genitals? is it only inappropriate when it happens to you? is it only invasive when it happens to you? do you think we don't feel disturbed and sexualized by your question?

I have had so many perisex trans people ask me explicitly "what are your genitals like?" how is that okay?? it happens equally with both cis and trans perisex people!

sexual harassment isn't okay when it's trans people but is okay when it's intersex people?

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Linguistic Anarchy

[PT: Linguistic Anarchy /end PT]

Linguistic Anarchy is a subset of descriptivism (the idea that following linguistic rules is not always strictly necessary, read more about it on the wikipedia page) that emphasizes the bending or ignoring of linguistic rules to create more inclusive and accommodating language for queer people (especially neopronoun users) and preserving and recording language in an effort to oppose colonization.

[ID: A flag with three equal horizontal stripes. In descending order, the stripes are faded orange, faded yellow, and faded blue. The lower half of the flag is covered by a black triangle. In the center of the flag, there is a black circle with a white outline. In the middle of the symbol is a birdlike creature. End ID.]

The illustration in the center is a wug, which you can read about here.

Linguistic anarchy supports:

neopronouns, nounself pronouns, and emojipronouns

decolonization

degendering of language as needed

typing quirks with translation provided for accessibility

being accommodating and patient with people of neurodivergencies that make spelling and/or language difficult (i.e. dyslexia)

being accommodating and patient of those with OCD or similar who may feel the need to correct grammar or spelling

reclaiming slurs

normalization of Ebonics and similar

learning languages for communication or educational purposes (cultural appreciation)

Linguistic anarchy does NOT support:

spreading misinformation or disinformation about preexisting linguistic rules or concepts (i.e. folk etymologies)

getting rid of languages

misusing slurs or other offensive, marginalizing, and/or culturally appropriative language

prescriptivism

capitalism and associated concepts

bigotry

tagging @radiomogai (idk if this completely fits sorry)

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Amiamour

(pt: Amiamour /end pt)

Amiamour: partnering amically; being amorously amical; desiring friendships and amical relationships partneringly/partneredly; an amical partner!

etymology; ami(cal), amour!

for anon!

tagging; @radiomogai!

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new genders: agenbyvir and agenbyfem

agenbyvir: a gender that is simultaneously agender, nonbinary, and demiboy, not fluid

alternate name: agenbymasc but i like agenbyvir more

colors are inspired by the agender, nonbinary, and demiboy flags, -vir means man (from Latin)

agenbyfem: a gender that is simultaneously agender, nonbinary, and demigirl, not fluid

colors are inspired by the agender, nonbinary, and demigirl flags,

-fem means female

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Chameleoqueerplatonic Pride Flag

Chameleoqueerplatonic: is a queerplatonic orientation wherein someone wishes to either perform queerplatonic acts (placioqueerplatonic) or receive queerplatonic acts (iamvanoqueerplatonic) based on the gender of the partner. For example, desiring to perform queerplatonic acts on men (placioma-), but not receive them, and desiring to receive queerplatonic acts from women (iamvanowo-), but not perform them.

Alt. names: chamaleoqueerplatonic, chamaleoquasiplatonic, chameleoquasiplatonic, camaleoqueerplatonic, camaleoquasiplatonic, chameleoquirkyplatonic, chameleoqplatonic, chameleoqp, chameleoqpl.

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❤️‍🩹 my take on a PMDD (premenstrual dysphoric disorder) flag 🧠

clipart .png credit

i had been waiting from months to a year to see someone design a flag for PMDD since i'm not very confident in my own ability, so i decided to go ahead and bite the bullet with an attempt. this is currently planned to just be a draft and may be subject to change with new updated versions in the future.

TW FOR MEDICAL TRAUMA/ABUSE: although this topic is not very widely discussed, or at least doesn't seem to be commonly present, online among the disabled community, my personal experiences with PMDD have made acknowledging its existence as well as its consequences quite necessary to me. as of the time of writing this, i am 19 years old, and when i was 15 exactly this time of year (as well as the first similar incident a couple months prior), i had an intense hyper-emotional episode the week before my period that was so bad i ended up getting institutionalized at a psych ward against my will and have never been the same since. for years now, i've been on a birth control pill that suppresses my cyclical hormones and prevents my period from occurring most of the time.

before getting into the stripes' meanings, there are two factors to explain behind my thought process:

dark teal is considered to be the awareness color for this disorder, although i went with a light aqua color because i think it looks better with the pink, and it's in the same family so i believe it still works.

pink is meant not to represent femininity necessarily since uterus-owners can come in many different gender expressions, but rather fit with the vibe of internal organs, especially since pink is closely related to red which is how warm blood appears (and is a key element of uterine cycles).

as for the stripe meanings, here is my proposal for each single word:

awareness ─ suffering from premenstrual dysphoric disorder is a very real thing that happens to müllerian individuals everywhere. according to the cleaveland clinic, which i am an active visiting patient of, about 10% of people with our reproductive body types who are at least of minimum pubescent age may be affected by it. although it does not tend to be a risk toward physical health, it is often a deadly threat to our mental state and well-being, which can lead to suicidal ideation.

strength ─ i consider this to be an invisible disability, with most of the symptoms taking place within our internal worlds and fighting a constant battle with negative thoughts + emotions. in addition to this, physical symptoms also arise and can cause severe discomfort before menstruation even begins. all of this happens within the confines of our own homes, and we tend to suffer through it alone. people who do not have PMDD probably fail to realize how strong we have to be in order to get through this difficult time repeatedly & endlessly, despite their well-intended efforts.

diversity ─ this is intended to have multiple meanings, and to include anything i may not have come up with so far. for one thing, there are plenty of different experiences to be had with this disorder, such as varying levels of cramping + sickness or depression + anxiety. on another note, not only do our bodies each work differently (some may also have endometriosis and/or PCOS, which are also intersex conditions, as a double-whammy), but many of us do not conform to societal ideas of gender despite all having these parts in common. there are infinite possibilities to mix & match with presentation & identity, which is not limited by biology.

flesh ─ although many factors are involved in this process, including hormones, PMDD centers around the uterus, which is an internal organ. the flesh represents the physical aspects of this experience, and how we must take great care of our bodies in order to ease how we feel.

pain ─ there is so much physical + mental pain that builds around this disorder, which deserves to be recognized, sympathized with, and treated. the deep pink (to me) somewhat resembles what ibuprofen & benadryl pills look like; painkillers & antihistamines respectively (i'm not sure if anyone else needs the latter, but my skin's condition gets really reactive when i go through my cycle).

anyone is free to reblog/use accordingly, although you may have to be mindful of permission/credit with the uterus imagery from the source!

tagging for reach (it may not fit your gimmick exactly, so feel free to ignore if you're uninterested, or reblog somewhere else!): @idwl @satyrradio @spaghettimakesflags @obnebulant-mogai @caeliangel @intervex @arco-pluris @beyond-mogai-pride-flags @radiomogai @themogaidragon @neopronouns @mad-pride @disabilitypride

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Ghost+Haunted Nichelink: an All-Ages nichelink relationship/relationship dynamic where one person is the "haunted" and the other/s are the "ghosts."

this may include, but is not limited to:

the haunted and ghost being headmates in the same system who're coping with the ghost having integrated and then re-splitting and feeling like their old self "died"

the ghost identifying with virtual ghost tropes, or considering themself a virtual ghost of the haunted

the ghost identifying as a living ghost for any reason

the ghost teasing/being mysterious towards the haunted

the haunted being an introject/kin/etc of a character who's friend or lover tragically passed away in their source, and the ghost being an introject/kin/etc of that friend/lover

teritary or alteraffectis attraction that involves death, nostalgia, or similar themes, such as phantohumaffectis, phasmahauntiyn or spirhabitic

roleplaying or believing in any other common ghost tropes

nichelink coining page

tagging: @rwuffles | @beyond-mogai-pride-flags | @chthonicophanim | @daybreakthing | @horrormogai

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Multitrans(itional)

Main flag 1 (left) || Main flag 2 (middle) || Original flag (right)

The original flag was originally posted May 29th, 2022. The 'original' flag on this post has been slightly altered.

Anyways I decided to make more versions of Multitransitional flags, as I wasn't completely happy with the original. The meanings for the colors in the two flags are as follows: Blue for Transmasculine, Green for Transoutherine and Transaporine, Yellow for Transneutral, Orange for Transxenine, and Pink for Transfeminine. The white on the second flag can also stand for other types of transness these colors don't mention. You can be multitrans with something else other than just these five terms, these meanings were just my thought process while making these flags.

While making them I didn't really have a reason for making the two separate versions, but if want a specific reason to use one of the other for whatever reason, maybe flag one could be used by folks who feel their transness is a combination of two things (such as Transfemasc or Transneumasc), while flag two could be used by folks who feel like there's just multiple things at one (such as being both Transneutral and Transxenine at the same time vs being Transneuxen)

Although that's sorta just a suggestion, anyone who's multitrans can use whatever flag they want.

Also if you don't know what multitransitional means it just means you're more than one type of trans, such as being both transmasculine and transfeminine.

[ID] Three flags with horizontal stripes. The first two flags have nine stripes, the second fourth sixth and eighth stripes are all skinnier than the rest. Main flag 1: The colors from top to bottom are: mid blue, jungle green, fresh green, yellow-green, pastel marigold yellow, sand yellow, persian orange, orange-red, burnt pink. [/End ID] [ID] Main flag 2: The colors from top to bottom are: pastel blue, white, pastel easter green, white, pastel marigold yellow, white, pastel peach orange, white, pastel pink. [/End ID] [ID] Original flag: The colors from top to bottom are: warm pink, pale orange, marigold yellow, white, aquamarine blue, cornflower blue, jasmine purple. This flag has seven stripes, the fourth stripe is slightly skinnier than the others.[/End ID]

[ID] A DNI (do not interact) banner with a very faded galaxy background. On the left of the banner there’s a flag as with a rounded side, the circle inside it showing an image of a cone tornado at the end of a road, the flag being the (General) Neurodivergent flag. The rest of the image is filled with white text that reads: “DNI (Do Not Interact). Against Good Faith Self Identification Or “Contradictory” Identities, Transmed, Sysmed, Group Arospec under Acespec, Anti-Educated Self-Dx, Call Mspec identities “Bispec”, Anti-Alterhuman, Anti-Otherkin, Anti-Chronosian, Against the term Transandromisia (or similar terms), Anti Aldernic, Anti-Altersex, Pro-Contact harmful paras, TransID,  Anti-Anti, Proship, “Consang”, Anti-SFW Agere, Demonize Cluster B disorders, Anti-BLM, Anti-ACAB” [/End ID]

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Pacegender

Meaning: Someone who identifies as transgender in relation to their AGAB. Reasons an individual may identify as Pacegender include but are not limited to identifying as their AGAB in a trans way, relating to transgenderhood in relation to their AGAB, being multigender, being nonbinary, etc. Origin: Made as an alternative to the term circumgender. Coming from the first half of the greek word πάλι (páli) meaning again and the root ce meaning once, twice, thrice and so on. Flag:

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Flags for general relationship stances, alterous relationships, queerplatonic relationships and observing

relationship favorable | relationship indifferent | relationship repulsed

relationship averse | relationship ambivalent | relationship oscillating

Relationship stances are for stances regarding all types of relationships.

alterous relationship favorable | alterous relationship indifferent | alterous relationship repulsed

alterous relationship averse | alterous relationship ambivalent | alterous relationship oscillating

qpr favorable | qpr indifferent | qpr repulsed

qpr averse | qpr ambivalent | qpr oscillating

observing favorable | observing indifferent | observing repulsed

observing averse | observing ambivalent | observing oscillating

Basically a relationship stance regarding observing/looking at people or however one would define a sort of "aesthetic relationship".

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interaction stances

(pt: interaction stances /end pt)

this is a informational post listing different types of interaction stances, made as a personal reference for ourselves.

interaction stances are terms describing one's attitude/feelings towards different types of activities or interactions that come with different relationship types, usually based on the main type of attraction involved. examples: romance abstainer, friendship averse, sex piqued, etc. interaction stances can be used for non-attraction type interactions, such as comfort stances or empathy stances.

types of interaction stances:

abstainer - abstaining from [x] activities/interactions for any reason.

ambivalent - having mixed or complicated feelings towards [x] activities/interactions.

aversed/averted - being okay with [x] activities/interaction conceptually but uncomfortable with personally being involved.

desired - actively desiring [x] activities/interactions.

drained - being repulsed by [x] activities/interaction due to trauma, exhaustion, circumstances, etc.

favorable - being favorable towards or enjoying [x] activities/interactions.

indifferent/neutral - having no strong feelings regarding [x] activities/interactions.

interested - being interested in [x] activities/interactions. can be positive, favorable, indifferent, etc.

oscillating - having one's feelings towards [x] activities/interactions change or fluctuate over time.

piqued - being favorable to [x] activities/interaction due to trauma, exhaustion, circumstances, etc.

repulsed - being repulsed by [x] activities/interactions.

combinations:

indifferable - being favorable & indifferent.

indverse - being averse & indifferent.

inpulsed - being indifferent & repulsed.

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Relationshipstances for emotional, physical and tertiary relationships

emotional relationship

positive | indifferent | repulsed

averse | ambivalent | oscillating

physical relationship

positive | indifferent | repulsed

averse | ambivalent | oscillating

tertiary relationship

positive | indifferent | repulsed

averse | ambivalent | oscillating

Here are my posts to the aemotional flags[link], aphysical flags[link] and atertiary flags[link].

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Social Flags

(note: this was originally coined by coinings-of-aquarius, on a blog which has since been terminated. the archive is here. this post will only contain plaintext.)

Socially Favourable | Socially Indifferent

Socially Repulsed | Socially Averse | Socially Ambivalent

Socially Oscillating | Socially Drained