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is it ok if i just ignore lltbp or am i a cunt and i should die be honest

do whatever you want forever

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can I be a lesbian if the only guy I'm attracted to is Gerard way

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gerard way and frank iero made me trans

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sometimes this fandom (and other bandoms, especially fall out boy) feels like such a prison. everybody's always arguing and it feels like you're stepping thru a field of landmines, if you say one thing wrong everyone blows up at you. i personally haven't had issues but i see it around me

but i'm scared to leave the fandom because it's been here for me thru some really hard shit, i have a lot of friends i really really love here. and i'm scared i feel so empty without this fandom, it's taken up so much of my time. it's just some people make it all really suck and i hate it

i love mcr, i love my little niche of the mcr fandom. i love the music and the fanworks and theories and the people but i just feel so unsettled sometimes because we're always fighting. i wish it wasn't so toxic

(sidenote i am the anon who was talking about how i think some people ruined illi mcmillin for others, how it became toxic etc on july 18th if that gives u some insight into what i'm talking about)

tl;dr the fandom is lowkey toxic and always angry and it makes me sad

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About Mikey being together with a 19 year old in his 30’s.

It’s not a good thing that it happened but I don’t know why people feel the need to hold it over him.

They were both adults and both of them were struggling with drugs. I don’t think anything about their relationship was good or healthy but with Mikey recovering and being ten years sober, why do we need to hold it against him?

Me personally, I see the whole thing as something stupid he did once, learned from it, and never did again. He got sober and never got into a relationship like that again.

Up at this point with him getting better and growing to be a better person, I don’t see the point in harassing him about it or going as far to say he is a pedophile for dating a 19 year old.

It’s also stupid that fans are still blaming him for MCR splitting up when it’s practically common knowledge at this point that Gerard admitted to the band being the reason he relapsed and he wanted his daughter to have a father in her life.

Actually, why are we still caring about why the band split up when they are back together now??? Some of you really just want to complain and start drama for no reason.

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i used to hate rpf and then i read asotm and suddenly i was okayish with it idk why that is

i still skip over smut scenes tho

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i think the reason why people kept saying that uhv made them religious for a while is because the fic puts religion in a completely different viewpoint than what traditional catholics say

regardless i still think its really fucking funny that the gay smut bandom priest fic converted people

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ppl need to stop telling other ppl how to make their art. Who tf r u to complain that they’re making their characters too skinny. Go draw ur own shit however u want brah..

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mikey fumbled so hard with alicia..she was such a baddie

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I like scrolling through this blog but I can’t follow bc then I get the dumbest fuckingn takes on my dash💔💔

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I think would like to give Ray Toro a crocheted dinosaur someday.

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ppl hate lynz 4 the dumbest most fabricated reasons ever. Like u guys do know that every claim u make abt her came from a blog called lynzuglyliar and can easily be disproven ? That’s the trustworthy source ur getting ur info from.. I get not liking her 4 being connected to msi but some of the other reasons ppl give r just untrue. Fact check ur shit guys actually look into stuff b4 spouting ur nonsense.

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In defense of that tswift anon: I don’t think they were comparing the eras tour to the long live tour in its levels of theatricality, I think they were using theatrical as a reference to how the eras tour was filmed and released in theaters, like with Beyoncé’s Renaissance. Ngl would have been cool, especially for the folks who can’t afford tickets

That makes much more sense, thank you.

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POST MY POEM WHY DO U NEVER POST MY ASKS THEYRE FUNNY AS FUCKKKKKKKK

Okay I’m my defense my inbox is god awful and stupid and I hate it and sometimes it just eats asks without me even being able to answer them, if your ask hasn’t gone through and you think this may have happened to it feel free to resend, I’m just an old man who can’t use technology 😭😭

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My chem confessions what is YOUR mcr hot take the ppl need to know

Idk how hot these are but here we go

- I do not care for rpf. I don’t have a specific reason for it, it just doesn’t do anything to my mind compared to fictional characters, which is why I see the albums through the lense of fiction and through fictional characters rather than the members themselves

- branching off that it also really annoys me when people refer to what are meant to be characters as the members names. Ik it’s because a lot of people just might not know specific characters may have names but it still irks me and I force myself to do it when engaging in most content (unless I’m among people who know) in this fandom. I do not want to call the leader of the black parade “Gerard” because canonically his name is death, but I fear I must because most people don’t know what the fuck I’m talking about otherwise.

- I don’t think Frerard or any “ship” that people have with the members really happened behind the scenes. I don’t think there were genuine romantic relationships there IF I were to speculate, but I don’t usually do that.

EDIT: forgot to mention that I don’t care if people write about or speculate on MCR ships though. Play with your touys I’ll be over here. Watching I guess.

- another nitpick because I’m a nerd but it’s also really annoying when people use the fact that Helena is BASED ON Gerard’s feelings around losing his grandmother to police how others perceive the woman in the music video and how people refer to the demolition woman. No, the woman in the music video is not meant to represent the way brothers grandmother, she’s just some woman. They’re not the same. Helena at the end of the day still exists in the context of three cheers even if it has an underlying personal meaning to the way brothers.

- you guys overlook Ray a lot and it makes me really angry lmao. God forbid the Latino community gets anything but “I want to suck his tits” and “Princess fro fro” from this god forsaken fandom.

- you guys also ignore the Girl a lot too. She’s literally the main character of an entire comic, and I understand that a lot of you haven’t read it, but still. She’s just as— if not more— important as the other killjoys.

- I do not care for Illi McMillin. I’ve tried, I just can’t. I can’t care about them.

- bullets is their best album sound wise but concept wise the black parade takes the cake, even before long live. I feel as though it’s much more thought out with its symbolism and story than the other albums.

- I want people who don’t understand the music industry to stop saying stuff about the music industry. Especially after the whole Ticketmaster fiasco and the process for the band to break up. Most of yall are kids so I assume that you don’t get it but in this current climate, tickets start out expensive (and fluctuate based on demand) to battle off scalpers, but since Ticketmaster sucks they send in bots to artificially inflate the prices. They eventually go down as time passes and the show comes closer. It happens with every band. It is on the faults of mostly Ticketmaster and resellers and I think the people who were entirely blaming the band were just being dramatic lmao. Be patient. Don’t impulse buy shit and you won’t lose that much money.

- MCR is emo and the debate around it is annoying. MCR isn’t pop-punk entirely, I fear their only true pop-punk albums is danger days.

- I don’t think that any of the albums are connected, unless it’s MAYBE bullets and three cheers because I’ve seen enough evidence in favor of it. Let’s please not MCU these albums.

- while I do love my MCR mutuals on TikTok I cannot stand the community there.

- you guys complain about fan content too much.

- while some of the songs off the deluxe version of three cheers sounded good, further listening has soured it to me. It sounds too clean and if MCR does come out with more music I don’t want it to be mixed the same way. I want it to be mixed like foundations of decay. That was perfect.

That’s all I can think of lolz

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do you guys know about brank weiro

Idk 💔 I’m scared 💔

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i've seen lots of people talking about how mikey fans are openly ignoring that he dated a 19/20-year-old girl when he was already in his thirties and married to alicia simmons, thus breaking the band apart, i think. now, this is only my perspective, okay?

I GOT INTO MCR ABOUT TWO YEARS AGO, AND I DON'T KNOW A LOT OF WHATEVER THESE MEN WERE ON. I'M SORRY IF I'M BEING AN IGNORANT FETUS.

it does make me uncomfortable that he did that. like, what the fuck man, you're married and thirty-something, what's hot about a girl in her twenties at that point in your life?? i'm glad that he's now settled down and all, but yeah you can't ignore what your idols have done just because you like them. they're still people, they fuck up and do questionable things, some more than others.

i won't defend this stuff with "oh, it was a product of his time" "she was of a legal age" (what i've seen people do with all the pete wentz and jeanae white allegations from 2005). i respect mikey as a musician and he's a big inspiration for me to learn to play an instrument, but i won't blindly drool all over him and ignore the pieces of information that would knock him down an hypothetical pedestal. as i said, i'm still learning stuff about this band, i'm sorry if i don't know many things.

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