in the mood to share what iâve been up to :)
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[Drawing of a blue rainy cloud saying âItâs okay to talk about your accomplishments. Youâre a really talented person who does awesome things, and youâre allowed to be proud of that.â in light blue text on a blue background.]
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**For the people asking I bought one HERE with free shipping
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I really canât stress enough how important it is to talk to your friends, family members, and partners regularly about their right to set boundaries, even ones that inconvenience you.
We absolutely live in a hierarchial abuse culture where people can and do impose their will on each other in a million tiny ways. A lot of people just expect it - theyâll make choices according to the assumption that you, too, are invested in controlling them to whatever degree - because unless you consciously make a point not to be, itâs possible that you are.
In a healthy relationship people ask for consent often - âDo you want to do this? Are you comfortable with this? Is there anything you think we should change about this plan?â And then, they clarify that negative answers are totally normal and okay.
Checking in can sound like, âHey, you know I love doing X but if you ever donât want to you know thatâs okay, right?â Itâs paying attention to nonverbal cues that someone is uncomfortable and giving them an out - âYou donât seem excited about this party, I want you to know it totally wonât be a big deal if youâd rather not.â
In a healthy relationship thereâs a huge difference between ânoâ and âyou shouldnât have askedâ. âNoâ is normal and expected and itâs assumed that sometimes it will be the response. Thereâs an intentional effort not to punish each other for not always giving each other what you want.
Normalize ânoâ in all your relationships. Seek it out! Give people extra opportunities to say no! And accept it. Recognise that itâs a good sign when your loved ones feel safe enough to not agree to things they donât want out of fear of your reaction.
Just - check in. I donât care what kind of relationship it is, donât assume people know itâs safe to say no to you unless you remind them and show them regularly. Making space for healthy boundaries is one of the most important things to communicate with the people that you care about.
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outcast of the village
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heyyyyy reminder for other cane users.
don't forget that cane tips need to be replaced.
i've been using my cane for almost two years on a near daily basis and i JUST switched out the tip and
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the new tip versus the old tip. i'm not sure how clear it is but, YEAH, there's like. half a millimeter of tread left on the old tip, if that
the replacement was LITERALLY 2 dollars. i bought two to justify the four dollar shipping but. TWO BUCKS.
i had noticed that i was having slipping issues on linoleum recently, but i did not realize how bad the issue had gotten until the new tips came so. PLEASE check your cane treads and if they're notably worn out PLEASE get yourself a new tip they're SO cheap and the grip i get on the new one is INSANE
please don't forget to replace your cane tips!
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in the mood to share what iâve been up to :)
(sorry if the res is bad, i still canât figure how to upload in a higher quality)
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For all my fellow little treat lovers!
This 8 page zine is available in my shop so you can be ready for whenever you need a quick brownie in a mug ;)
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essence (@iridessence)
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robin elise pieterse
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https://twitter.com/has_kuma
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