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Your line..."It's just easier to live a double life than be out" is how we all felt before we came out. I promise, living a double life reaps no rewards. However living an open and true life reveals all.
Anecdote-ally, once I became unapologetic about liking guys (in high-school), the rumors stopped. The sniggling stopped. Yes, I lost a couple of friends but a slew of new folks entered my circle. Most of which became my 'found family'. The ones that immediately saw passed the sexual aspect and respected me for my character and boldness and desirability and freedom and intellect and work ethic and sense of humor and timing and my diplomacy and all the other personality traits I (and you) possess.
It's a hard road...but the payoff only comes when you are true to yourself.
Above all... BE YOU, unapologetically.
Hopefully, a nicer you. A more tolerant and loving you. But always...YOU.
I’m living a double life. Straight and bi
So little about me. I’m a medic in the army at least for 1 more year. No one beside like 3 “friends” know that I am bi. 1. Freaked and begged me too change so i told him i did and we dont talk about it. 2. Got scared off and hardly talks to me. 3. I just came out to like a month ago and hasn’t said shit to me about like he wants nothing to do with it. It’s starting to eat away at me. I’m living a double life that I can’t talk to anyone about the side that I need to talk about the most.
I asked my first guy out yesterday. So nervous and happy at the same time, but can’t share that news with anyone. And it’s gonna be hard because this guy is also army but he’s stationed overseas for at least another year. So we won’t see each for a yr plus. But we met under weird circumstances, but we clicked right away and even after he left my base and I deployed, we always talked almost every day. And we just started talking bout dating another guy and boom I asked him out. We set some ground rules with being so far away, like we can both still have sex with other people just have to tell the other before hand. And like normal relationship stuff like texting each day(when work allows) and ya.
Yes I could come out but I can’t in this job right now and well my family is Roman Catholic so not allowed. It’s just easier to live a double life then be out.
Wow this turned into a rant I’m sry to anyone who really reads this. I needed to get it off my chest and if anyone who reads it cares enough to comment or send me a message to talk please feel free too. Too tell me if you went though the same thing how did you handle it all.
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