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i feel like ive made a post like this b4 but like... u dont need dysphoria to be trans bc dysphoria isnt some innate thing ur born w, its a byproduct of transphobia

people are dysphoric bc we're all told theres only 1 correct way to be *insert gender*, that theres only 1 way that can look, & if you do it incorrectly ur punished & ostracized. of course thats gonna create deep shame & self disgust & a disconnect between urself & ur body

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“are you a girl or a boy!” im an attention whore

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I went through ur blog when u reblogged my post and I'm legit gonna cry 😭😭 it's so tiring being angry and feeling alone all the time because of my gender, your blog already makes me feel loved and welcome and happy about myself and I've only been looking at it for a couple minutes

You should feel good about your gender! I'm glad we're able to help you feel less alone.

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I'm so tired of being infantilized for being nonbinary. I'm sick of being called a "smol bean". I'm done with people acting like they have to baby me because I'm nonbinary. I hate how people headcanon nonbinary characters and I hate how non-nonbinary people make theirs. I'm tired of the nonbinary headcanons on robots. I'm sick of people's nonbinary OC who's small and has a baby face and wears oversized sweaters and acts like a child and can't function on their own, especially when they have a binary gendered character who acts like their caretaker. I'm so sick of this shit.

Binary gendered ppl dont clown here

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even spicier take: “non-binary” means a thousand different things to a thousand different people and therefore anyone of any sexuality could theoretically be attracted to a non-binary person in some capacity, so if you’re gay and someone you’re attracted to says, “i’m non-binary,” you don’t actually have to redefine your entire identity, you can just drink a cup of sleepytime tea and go right on being gay and into non-binary people. 

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nonbinary is a complete gender. you can be just nonbinary. you really don’t have to align yourself any more specifically than that

you don’t have to find the perfect just right word for your experience, you don’t have to parse out what named gender you’re closest to on a spectrum, what subset of nonbinary most closely reflects your truth, weigh your masculinity against your femininity against your androgyny to see what the total comes out to, you don’t have to label your gender by its relation or opposition to the gender you were assigned

all those things are great for exploring your gender & if you can find a home in them more power to you

but you don’t have to. you really can just be nonbinary

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honestly I think cis people should stop thinking there are any nonbinary people they can treat as men- or women-lite.

“woman-aligned” doesn’t mean “basically a woman”.

“demiboy” doesn’t mean “basically a guy”.

using he/him pronouns doesn’t equal being basically a man.

being okay with words like girlfriend/wife doesn’t equal being basically a woman.

stop deciding our genders for us. stop thinking nonbinary people are secretly or basically binary. stop acting like our connections to the gender binary or our feminity and masculinity are more important than us being nonbinary.

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I'm sorry for the unrelated post but my boyfriend has cancer, every reblog and share counts. Thank you all.

My boyfriend was just diagnosed with cancer, please help us. You can click the link to get the full story of what happened. Every reblog and donation counts and means the world to us. 

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no offense but nonbinary ppl can have boobs…..nonbinary ppl can have long hair, wear dresses, use makeup, have beards, be tall or short, muscular, thin, or curvy……there is literally no wrong way to be nonbinary 

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being nonbinary is a complex experience that is incredibly personal. you don’t owe anyone the entire story of your relationship with gender to be respected, and you saying you are nonbinary should always be enough

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u can be nb and still call yourself boyfriend/girlfriend or still like being called boy/girl/any gendered term because guess what???? gender is fake and so is language and that’s just how it is on this bitch of an earth

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i think it’s a really good time to remember that you can be nonbinary and not look androgynous, you can be nonbinary and be any weight, you can be nonbinary and dress and present however you want. you are you, and there’s no one else in this world exactly like you, and that’s wonderful.

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this is my best tweet

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on this trans day of visibility i want to give a special shoutout to nonbinary trans people, especially those of you who aren’t sure whether or not you’re allowed to participate because you feel like being nonbinary means you’re “not trans enough” to count. 

you’re still trans. you do count. you have every right to make yourself heard.

happy trans day of visibility, nonbinary trans people. it’s your day, too.

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You shouldn’t be treating nb people like the secret sexy 3rd gender. Nb people don’t look like a mash of male and female, they’re not sexy androgynous twinks

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You don't need to be soft to be non-binary.

You don't need to be young to be non-binary.

You don't need to be androgynous to be non-binary.

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trans positive edits 💙💖 credit if used :)