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hater for hire. if you need someone to hate on anything i'm your guy. i'll hate on anything for next to no reason and i just do it for the love of the game. which i hate

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Saw a Tiktok about sucking straps being the most romantic thing you can do (LOL) because of the fantasy of it and how a lot of "queer" sex is built in fantasy and like... yeah, that's your problem, that it's built in fantasy for YOU. For many others, our sex life is not built through fantasy, it's the result of the pleasure in our actual bodies and the interactions with the actual bodies of the people we sleep with! It couldn't be more real and grounded and not fantastical!

But you cannot handle the objective reality that you're someone with a vagina fucking another person with a vagina and that you haven't gotten over the heteronormative mental hang ups that you have about what sex is supposed to be, that you think sex is only possible if there's a penis involved and that everything else is not "real" hence fantasising and calling straps cocks and sucking on them. But that fantasy does nothing but alienate you and your partner from your bodies and really limits the view of what sex can be. Because you cannot start by just looking at your body and figuring out the ways in which you can feel pleasure and your partner can feel pleasure, and then add more things on top. You start by building a heteronormative fantasy on top of it and distance yourself from what's actually going on and that's not only incredibly lesbophobic, or a weird way to look at sex, but it is also pathetic.

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For real though, if a trans woman tells you not to call her “dude” and your response is to talk about how you call everyone it instead of apologizing and moving on, you’re an ass

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I hate how kindness, unlike in books or films, do not yield anything when it comes to men.

My friend’s brother is the typical loner-gamer, and he seemed rather depressed to me, and I thought it must be not easy for him—he never had a girlfriend, spends most of his time alone, and the only socialization activity he has is video games.

So, I figured we could be nice to him. On his birthday, we got him a Lego set, which he seemed to like. We would often visit him with his favorite snacks, ask how he was doing, and overall make him feel cared for.

We did that for nearly a year, and that man not only has been ungrateful (at first we thought he just needs time to show emotions), he laughed how annoying we are with his game friends and mocked we keep bothering him with our “nonsense”. He also gifted us nothing back on our birthdays, and we tried to be understanding that perhaps he is shy.

Looking back, it’s sad how naive we were—he didn't need love or attention to be uplifted and encouraged, he was “lonely” because he was an asshole.

Why did we think his heart would soften, his negative thoughts would leave him, and he would begin to trust people more once we showed him continuous love and care? That's a grown-ass man, 30 years of age—his life, as miserable as it seems, is HIS active choice.

Don't believe in male loneliness epidemic propaganda. These men probably have people who care about them deeply—mothers, sisters, whoever—it’s them who do not give a single fuck about them.

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Why do you assume trans women would behave any differently? If anything they’re more likely to be ones harassing you

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"Why is mom lore horrifying and dad lore chill."

Why aren't you recognizing every women goes through a horrible experience based on their sex. Why can't you realize women are oppressed. Why couldn't you understand the closest women(your mom) you are in contact with is every women's experience even if the scale differs⁉️

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Stamps printed in Oman dedicated to cats

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Girly Self-Care Tips for Girls

Work out every day. Work out often and make sure you get at least some level of movement each day. Get ripped.

Quit wearing makeup, and ESPECIALLY quit wearing full coverage makeup. It's terrible for your skin.

Don't shave your bush. All it does is increase risk of vaginal infections and give you razor burn + ingrown hairs.

Eat healthier and eat more iron. In the United States, 40% of women are iron deficient.

Fix your sleep schedule.

Take your vitamins.

Learn about your own anatomy.

Learn to self-advocate. It's hard to do, but it will help you massively if you can accomplish it.

Stop dating men. Go 4B.

Stop having sex with men. They are disease vectors.

Ditch coffee, drink green tea. Green tea improves cognitive function and heart health.

You don't need any fancy skincare products. Unless you have an actual skin condition, the only thing you need to put on your face is sunscreen, face-safe soap, and water.

Go outside more. Spend time in nature, or just stand outside in your garden or driveway.

Don't get cosmetic surgery or fillers. By doing so you're just putting yourself in danger for the sake of beauty standards.

Learn everything you can possibly learn.

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The rise of anti-intellectualism has been crazy to witness especially bc people aren’t putting the pieces together. Like more and more I’m seeing average every day people saying things like an education and even literacy are not necessary to earn a living. Meanwhile those in power are absolutely sending their children to the best schools and ensuring that they will receive accredited degrees. The people who hold economic, legal and social power are educated; why would you want to lock yourself out of being able to participate in those spaces? If knowledge was so useless, why do those in power not want you have it while they hoard it for themselves and their children?

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The amount of women getting Botox is so.. sinister. Like we’re just admitting that as a society we don’t think it’s attractive for women to be able to have facial expressions. To express emotion. To raise their eyebrows or wrinkle their noses or grin so big it changes their whole face. We don’t want that in women. Everyone knows why. It’s too human.

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Watching my friends slowly stop using they/them pronouns and stop binding and stop having eating disorders and start just accepting themselves and their bodies……. Nature is healing

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modern gynecology was built upon the experimentation and torture of enslaved black women. i can't help but make connections with that fact and what's happening to adriana smith right now