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Good morning ☀️

The golden hour light gives pictures a really nice vibe.

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Mickey Mouse beds at the Disneyland Hotel 😍

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First time at Disneyland Paris 😍

Ready for day 1 of 4 😇 Crinklz + Booster + @onesiesdownunder

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You wear a lot of cloth back. Do you prefer them over plastic?

Generally I like both, they both have their advantages. I prefer the feel of plastic backed, but cloth backed is better for my skin and it doesn't get so itchy under there when I workout or when it's warm outside.

When I started wearing Ultimas I went through multiple packs of plastic and cloth backed until I could decide which one I want to continue to wear. I think the perfect combination were Tena Slip Maxi Original, they're plastic backed, but the wings are cotton, so you get the best of both worlds. But yeah, because the leak guards of the plastic Ultimas sometimes cutted in my thighs I ultimately decided for cloth backed. But they're one of the best cloth backed out there, they don't really get loose and they also don't get damp on the outside.

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How do you pack when traveling? How many diapers do you bring? What’s the longest trip you have packed diapers for?

Most of the time I bring diapers for the whole trip. I usually need 3-4 Tena Ultima per day, so I have a pretty big suitcase. That works for maximum around 2 weeks. When I went on a trip for longer I just took as many diapers as possible and bought more diapers at my destination. But how well that works really depends on the country you're traveling to. Some have an awesome selection in big supermarkets, Portugal for example, but others have barely any usable diaper brand.

Someone should create a diaper guide where you can check where diapers are sold in which country and which brands are available, that would be really helpful. Often it's not easy to find them, because stores not always list all their products on their websites. Also it depends on the country where they're sold, some countries sell diapers in supermarkets, others don't sell any incontinence products at all in supermarkets and diapers are pharmacy-only products.

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Poofy 😇

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Are you incontinent and if so, how serious is your incontinence? How many diapers do you go through on a typical day? Great blog, thank you

Besides bedwetting, no. I usually wear Tena Slip Ultimas and use 3-4 a day. When I‘m not drinking too much and I don‘t have any appointments it‘s mostly 3, but sometimes when I go somewhere, where changing is complicated, I want to start dry. 😇

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Adding a booster was really mean, right? It‘s just a few hours in the car 😤😩

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How long have you been 24/7? What advice would you give to someone looking to make the plunge? My biggest fear is wearing around friend/family/colleagues.

That's a really good question! I've been 24/7 for over 3 years now I guess. I don't have an exact date as it was a transition, but it should be at least 3 years without cheating.

I would summarize my advice as "be prepared and confident".

Organization/Item advices:

Always have at least 2 diapers and wet wipes for changing with you. Sometimes you'll stay somewhere longer as planned, drink more than you planned and spare diapers will come in handy. A very helpful item for that is a wet bag. You can find them on Amazon and they have two zippers and 2 diapers and a pack of wipes usually fit perfectly in them. You can drop it in your backpack and even if someone gets a glance on the content of your backpack everything will be hidden. It's also useful to store a used diaper if you can't get rid of it discreetly, because it's pretty air tight.

Also a nice item I use often is a tiny backpack. Decathlon sells them, they're very cheap and super handy to carry your wet bag and your purse. You can also drop your power bank or your iPad in there and you have a perfect excuse why you're carrying it around. It's also way more chill then carrying your full size backpack around all day.

Something to wear over your diaper. Look for underwear or onesies that hide your diaper safely. It will help you be way more relaxed around friends/family etc. If you have to worry that something is peeking out all the time it will be very stressful and you'll be constantly checking your waistband, if your t-shirt slipped up etc. which really hurts confidence while wearing. I got these awesome boxershorts from here, which are made for people that wear thicker diapers and they cover them completely. I even go to the gym with them without any problems.

Confidence advices:

You'll eventually have to change your diaper on the go. Start train to change in public restrooms. At the beginning it's probably very hard to do it when other people can hear you, but after doing it for 50 times you stop caring about it.

Addition to point 1: If you can't change your diaper while standing, learn it. It's almost unavoidable and if you leaned it, the results will be at least on par with laying down. Just prepare your diaper, grab the wings with the tapes behind your back, adjust the height, lay against a wall, pull the diaper up between your legs and close the tapes. I like to close the top ones first and then I can adjust the bottom tapes without having to lean on the wall anymore, but maybe the other way works better for you.

Place your bag with your diapers strategically: If you're visiting friends or family it might seem very hard to take your diapers to the toilet without it being noticed. I found that it often helps if you place your bag in the hallway. It's usually not weird to leave it there if you don't need it and when you head to the toilet you can just grab it and take it with you.

Have a good story. Think about how you want to explain it to others if they'll notice. This will only be for the absolute emergency if someone asks you about it. How do you want to explain it? Imo a white lie about being incontinent is fine, but everyone has to decide for himself. But if you have a story on hand, it will improve the situation greatly, if someone should really ask about it.

I guess that's a good starting point if you try to go 24/7. It takes time to get confident with all the little problems you'll encounter, but this is part of the journey (and hopefully fun) and you'll get better and better and at some point you'll go through TSA with a diaper on and you won't have any concerns.

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How long have you been wearing diapers

When I think about it now, I guess I just had larger breaks but I never really stopped. My parents took away my diapers when they tried to get rid of my bedwetting, maybe when I was around 5. Then I remember taking diapers from my sisters pack when I was in elementary school.

At the age of around 12 I got some Pampers at a grocery store, but they didn't really fit me. Some months later I got more active online and found out about Tena Maxis and the fact, that I might be able to get them at a pharmacy. So I took my bike, drove to the next city and handed the pharmacist a note with "Tena Maxi M" on it, because I was to shy to ask. :D She had to order it, so I had to head back there the next day and got my first pack of adult diapers.

When I turned 15 I ordered my first pack of Tena Maxis online. From 16 to 18 I often bought a pack of Molicares at a medical supply store near my school in a bigger city and took it home in my backpack as ordering big boxes regularly was too suspicious while living with my parents.

Now I'm ordering online and it's luckily not a hassle to get diapers anymore. :)

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New Pants! Just try not to leak in these ones, ok little one?

Only babies wet their pants 😝

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New pants! 👖

What do you think about some questions? 👉 AmA

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Snow Baby ❄️ ⛄️

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I have a question for you about body hair:

Sometimes I think it might look more cute with diapers to not have leg hair, but I'm not really sure. It also might look weird and I'm not sure if I should try it. Hair removal in the diaper area is a no brainer, but legs is a different thing. I also feel that it makes a difference if you think about it from an AB or DL perspective.

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Ready for the flight home ✈️ 🏠

The changing cabin is great for big babies, too! Lots of space, own trashcan (carrying your wet diaper to the trashcan at the sinks can be embarrassing, especially if you get stuck between people 🫣 Why don‘t have mens restrooms trashcans? 😑)

♥️🔁

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Good mooorning ☀️ from Portugal 🇵🇹

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I have no idea for a caption, but I love the shot.