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it’s still very much a wip at this point but new blog link is here

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it’s still very much a wip at this point but new blog link is here

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it’s still very much a wip at this point but new blog link is here

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it’s still very much a wip at this point but new blog link is here

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it’s still very much a wip at this point but new blog link is here

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it’s still very much a wip at this point but new blog link is here

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it’s still very much a wip at this point but new blog link is here

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i’m remaking this blog and archiving this one for no real reason other than i’m making new tags and i just don’t wanna deal w/ retagging anything on this blog bc it’s more work than i'm willing to do

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☠ worm...

☠ What does someone have to do for an instant unfollow from you? 

uhh break my rules repeatedly or just generally give off a vibe that makes me feel highly uncomfortable. i think those are like the only two things that have ever driven me to unfollow anybody for a reason besides inactivity

sometimes tho i don’t even actually unfollow. i get too scared to bc my anxiety likes to remind me that some people have follower trackers and they can find out exactly who unfollowed them and when it happened and just. aaah no thank u. so i usually just use xkit to blacklist urls and that way i can avoid seeing their posts w/o unfollowing and potentially making them feel bad which would in turn make me feel bad or w/o the fear of them confronting me over why i unfollowed

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the salty af munday meme

Because, like it or not, we're not all balls of sunshine all the time. We can be pure salt when we want to be.

☠ What does someone have to do for an instant unfollow from you?

♥ What's the WORST thing that has happened to you rp wise?

♦ What was a mildly annoying thing that has happened to you rp wise?

♢ Has anyone ever tried to steal your blog? Your headcanons? Icons? All that jazz

♚ How many people don't like you?

⚜ How many people do you not like?

✮ Have you managed to stay away from drama?

☄ Have you ever been in the middle of drama?

☯ Have you ever tried to bring peace to a situation?

☼ How long do you stay mad?

☀ What's your rp pet peeve?

☁ Have you ever forgiven a partner when you shouldn't have?

☂ Have you ever been forgiven when you knew you shouldn't have been?

☢ What fads/trends are you so over?

☣ Have you ever rp'd with someone you knew for a fact was abusive but tried to give them a chance/to make up your own opinion on the roleplayer? Did they change or did you understand what people were talking about?

♨ Have you ever made a public call out post?

❀ What has made you completely lose your chill?

✿ What do you think about public call out posts?

✂ A fandom that you feel isn't open and accepting?

✉ A fandom that you feel is open and accepting?

✦ Thoughts on duplicates following you?

✧ Do you agree with reblog karma or is it forced interaction?

❥ Has someone ever ruined an FC or character for you?

❦ Has someone been jealous of you?

❧ Have you ever been jealous of anyone?

✖ How has Tumblr RP changed since you started?

♒ Thoughts on the fandom you're currently rping in?

❣ How salty are you feeling right now?

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Here we stand, take my hand. God, I’m distressed – how I love you.

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it's like 2 or 3 am where all the east coast kids are everybody should go to sLEEP

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oc aesthetic ; emily mccarty

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darkswoon:

         ❛  please  accept  me  for  all  my  flaws,  like  i  have  done  for  you. ❜

      Insecurity washes over her for a split second at the mention of flaws. She’s well aware that she has plenty to keep down. ( oh, but she’s such a kind and charitable girl !  with perfect grades !  and tons of friends acquaintances !  she definitely isn’t facing crippling loneliness and feelings of isolation being among her peers ! ) The feeling that this other girl, Molly, has already figured her out without even trying isn’t a nice one to have.

      ❝ Sure thing ! ❞ she responds, crossing her arms and shifting her weight from one foot to the other.  ❝ But can I ask what flaws you’re referring to ?  ❞

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telling a partner something about your character in passing and them remembering it??? using it in a thread??? a blessing and a gift 

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transphobia in the rpc

hey you know what i’m tired of? casual transphobia in the rpc. i’m tired of cisbends, r!63, and outright trans fetishism being ignored or brushed under the rug. im tired of actors n fcs who are actively transphobic being used. im tired of cis men playing trans women and cis women playing trans men in acting roles too, but there’s not much i can do about that.

what i can do is say that if you are cis and you write or interact with people who rp genderbends, cisswaps, or ‘rule 63′ blogs you are actively contributing to transphobia in the rpc. if you support or interact with disgusting blogs like @thefalsefemales who are not only transphobic & transmisogynistic but lesbophobic as well, you are actively upholding transphobia in the rpc. 

cis people need to do better. you need to stop and listen to trans voices. 

here’s some other stuff besides outright r63/genderbend/cisswap stuff that is transphobic:

using cis men as fcs for trans women, or using cis women as fcs for trans men

having a trans verse or alternate universe but having your main verse for your muse be cisgender

actively discouraging trans people from writing their muses as trans 

writing trans muses specifically for fetishized porn 

not listening to trans people when we tell you things are transphobic, or citing your one (1) trans friend who agrees with you as an excuse for your behavior or your verses

writing cis male or cis female instead of cis man or cis woman in your bio for your muse. it’s fine that theyre cis but male/female generally reeks of transphobia unless in certain contexts

writing ‘transman’ and ‘transwoman’ as one word. they arent nouns, trans is an adjective. write ‘trans man’ or ‘trans woman’

using transphobic and transmisogynistic actors as fcs such as matt bomer, lena dunham, eddie redmayne, etc. 

other trans people are free to add on or discuss. cis people can reblog and are encouraged to but please do not add any commentary.

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SEND “⚡️” AND A QUESTION AND MY MUSE WILL BE FORCED TO ANSWER HONESTLY