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finally came to terms that i am a non-binary, queer, disabled person in a t4t relationship. life is good :)

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the trademarks of homosexuality as displayed by Dan and Phil

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this is how i feel when i vent

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cant go to the living tombstone bc theres no wheelchair spaces left core😻😻

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i <3 my partner

"I ♡ Girldick"

Portland, Maine, USA (8/5/2021)

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Keep scrolling, there's nothing fishy going on here

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my wheelchair is how im able to function on a day to day basis. my arms are my legs. my legs are in pain. my arms are in pain. if i cant use my arms because of the pain then i lose the single bit of mobility i have. i miss the gym. i miss walks. i miss being able to shower myself. i miss standing in showers. i miss being able to go out with my friends and not have to calculate if im even able to. i miss not knowing how slanted pavements were. i miss having a job. i miss not feeling like the elephant in the room. i miss not being seen as lesser than due to my wheelchair. i miss being able to make myself any food i wanted. i miss being able to make plans beforehand and not have to take it day by day. i miss not being pushed by strangers because they think its okay to move my chair. i miss being able to go for the train without booking it HOURS in advance. i miss going for meals without having to check if its wheelchair accessible. i miss clubbing. i miss my individuality. i miss how life was in january.

most of all tho; i hate how no one has any idea what is happening to me. how i lost my mobility in less than a month and just.. nothing.

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i am SO TEMPTED to get microbangs..

like im currently in baby bang territory but the micro bangs are CALLING MEEEEEE

need opinions pls!!!

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I NEED I NEED I NEED I NEED I NEED I NEED I NEED I NEED I NEED I NEED I NEED I NEED

today's bug thing is this bug badge mount set!

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i LOVEEE being in a t4t relationship like i can turn round and go “my chest is too in the way” and my partners just like hell yeah brother! gimme em! like i dont have to explain my gender expression i can just explain it the way that i understand it

also helping them shop and do makeup is like my pride n joy i love seeing their little face all confident from the eyeshadow n lipstick :3

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bonus: x

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hey tumblr! pls stop recommending me to follow irls!! that is not what this is for!! how have you managed this!! i do not like it!! /hj

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you have given me the love i have spent my entire life dreaming of. one filled with laughter, peace, truth. it’s coming home to you and you knowing exactly what i need without me having to say a word. it’s teaching me that you never have to be yelled at; that i am enough without having to dim myself down. it’s the quiet moments that bring me calm instead of the anxiety stillness has always instilled in me. you are the answer to my hearts every question. my truest love.

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love for me has always had teeth, it bites and tears and leaves scars long after it’s over.

but with him love is the caress of a summer breeze, gentle and refreshing and healing from the harsh cold of the winter nights.

love isn’t supposed to hurt. it’s supposed to heal.