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LaDs: You have a Low Libido

~ inspired by anon’s ask! I hope I captured the idea okay! As someone with a typically high libido I tried to think from the perspective of when I’m on my period and not in the mood at all lol

~ all love interests included

Warning, this post contains: mentions of sex, mainly fluff.

Xavier

⭐️He can control himself and his needs, if you’re not in the mood? Then neither is he. Cuddling is more than enough

⭐️Xavier knows that a low libido doesn’t mean no libido, so when you’re actually in the mood for once? He jumps on the opportunity and makes sure you enjoy it too.

⭐️Xavier loves being intimate with you in a variety of ways, and he knows his limits to his own restraint. He’ll always prioritize you and your needs before his own.

“We haven’t had sex in like a month.” You mumble the words sheepishly into his chest, eyes peering up at him as if you were bracing yourself. “Yeah, and that’s perfectly fine.” It’s a sleepy yawn of reassurance, his fingers toying with your hair as you pout. “You’re not… bothered by that? I feel bad…” that gets him, blue eyes zeroing in on where your head presses to his chest. “It doesn’t bother me in the slightest, you have no reason to feel bad. Why would you even feel bad about not being in the mood for sex?” That struck a cord in you, eyes widening slightly as you meekly offer. “Wouldn’t you prefer a partner who’s more in tune with your needs?” You knew for a fact that your boyfriend’s libido was high. “Don’t be ridiculous, there is a lot more to our relationship than sex. Sure when we do have it it’s great, but I don’t need it every day to know I love you.”

Rafayel

🎨Rafayel has a normal libido (save for ebb day) so when he learns your libido is a bit low? No problem!

🎨He loves showing his affection to you through other intimate means — hand holding, cuddling, taking a bath together, painting your portrait, and many more

🎨When you are in the mood, he’s sure to make it special. Candles, petals, nice music, he’ll go the full nine yards to make sure the experience is worth it for you

“Y’know, it means a lot that my low libido doesn’t bother you.” You confess it softly one night as you two share a bath. You’d been lingering on this for a while now, a bit envious of the fact that you didn’t get turned on as frequently as others did. “Course it doesn’t bother me, cutie. Sex is great but you being comfortable and having your needs met his much greater to me.” While you appreciated the sentiment, you wished you could crave your boyfriend on a deeper level. You did, of course, having a low libido didn’t mean you had none at all. You just wished for his sake that it was a little more… frequent? “Don’t you dare think like that.” Had you accidentally said it out loud? “It doesn’t bother me at all, cutie. We don’t need to have sex every day for me to know I love you more than words.”

Zayne

🩺Zayne doesn’t mind it at all, if anything, you having a low libido calms his nerves. Especially at the start of your relationship, he likes to take things slow!

🩺Zayne is a man of patience as well as a man of restraint. He knows when to hold back, if you are not in the mood when he is? It's totally fine, he'd never put that level of expectation on you.

🩺When you are in the mood though? Expect Zayne to be feral -- but within your comfort zone of course.

"Are you sure you're okay with this, Zayne?" You had been scrolling your period tracker, and from what you could see, the last time you had marked the day with a little red heart was… “Three weeks is not that much time, sweetheart. I’m pretty sure we’ve gone two months without seeing each other because of work.” But that answer didn’t really help you for some reason. “I just feel like… I’m failing you.” At that, Zayne’s book snapped shut and his attention fully focused on you. “Don’t you dare equate having a low sex drive to failing me as my partner. I have loved you far before I even knew what sex was. I would love you until my dying breath even if we never had sex once in the decades we have been together.” You didn’t think it was possible to love the man more than you already did.

Sylus

🍷Sylus being the consent king he is, has no issues when you confess to him that your libido is relatively low.

🍷He’s very in tune with his own body for that matter, if he attempts to make a move and you’re not reciprocating in a way that tells him you’re also in the mood? He doesn’t mind at all, he’ll take care of his needs later on.

🍷When you make the first moves signaling that you’re down? Expect this man to ask your consent once, twice, three times before he even touches you. He needs to be positive you're doing this because you want to, not because you feel obligated.

"I love you so much, Sy." The bedroom was quiet, your bodies bare and pressed together underneath silk sheets. Roughly twenty minutes prior you two had gotten out of the shower after having sex. It was the first time in about a month, and you were completely satisfied. "I love you too, kitten. More than anything." Even still, you couldn't help yourself from feeling a bit self conscious. Even after being so thoroughly loved by the man whose heart was thundering under your ear. "Promise me that you're really okay with me not having a wild sex drive..." You could feel him stiffen a little, a quiet huff slipping past his nose. "Kitten, I will say it every day until it is engraved in your head. You having a low sex drive does not stop us from being intimate in other ways. I love you as you are, I'd be upset if you ever changed. So please know that you are nothing less than perfect for me, I would never ask for anything more.”

Caleb

🪐Caleb struggles a little bit at first, his sex drive being relatively high most of the time. He craves you so damn often.

🪐Caleb is able to reign himself in, I mean he did so for how many years? If you don't have a high libido, he can figure out his own means to take care of himself if he is seriously in the mood. He'll never, ever, force you into anything!

🪐When you are in the mood? Caleb goes insane, he'll make sure you have the best time, your pleasure being his absolute focus. He'll genuinely fuck you like it's his last chance ever.

"Y-you know just because my libido is pretty low... doesn't mean we'll never have sex again." You can barely push yourself up, entire body trembling as Caleb pants beside you. "I know, Pips. I just can't help myself sometimes. Makes me go a little insane when you're needy." You feel your cheeks warm, hiding your face in the pillow below you . "I love you for never pushing my boundaries... I just wish I could help you out a little more often." His brows pinch together at that. One glance from the pillow and you see Caleb has rolled over to stare at you. "Pips, my love. You are perfect, an absolute angel sent to earth and I have the honor of loving you. I may be on the higher end of the libido spectrum..." He makes little air quotes and you find yourself cracking a smile. "...But sex is often the last thing on my mind when I get to hold and love you every day. We don't need to have sex every day, every week, hell even every month for me to know that I love you just as deeply as you love me."

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Love and deepspace give me a function to adopt/interact platonically with Luke and Kieran and my life IS YOURS.

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Sylus : Good morning. As you begin your day, remember that violence is always an option and often the answer.

Mc :

Sylus :

Mc : ...Please, go back to bed.

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it’s giving

“FUCK YOU”

“would.”

In the mean time have this little random thing I made randomly,

this one's gn basically so anyone can read it

(not gonna do the whole thing for one silly text will add it to the mlist tho)

Cw: suggestive conversation, playful banter

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EJ, tending to Y/N’s stab wound: Are you feeling any better? How would you rate your pain?

Y/N: Zero stars. 0/10 would NOT recommend.

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im deleting my account moon! 💞

goodbye!

oh no ☹️

i’ll miss you!!

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I dont you like Dabi but Im gonna say it!

unpopular opinion!

I dont agree with the fanart/headcanons/ect. of Dabi being like a good older brother type/feminist Because from what I understand- He doesn't like the woman in his family and strongly believes they dont understand being heros and hero stuff because they're woman!

Like the fanart of him doing Fuyumi's hair is cute but I dont freaking think that would actually happen- considering whenever we see him as a kid he's really detached and quiet or either training with enji.

But to the girlies who write him as the toxic boyfriend they might be right.

oh i fully agree- that man is pumped of toxic masculinity, i think the only woman he would treat okay would be his SO and even that situation would be on the line

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something that bugs me so much is when Im scrolling through posts and someone mentions (either they are a minor or they're talking about when they where a minor) and reading smut and some ADULT in the notes will be like

"WHTAT SIAIOTJNEOTNEWN YOU'RE A LIL BABY CHILD INNOCENCE CHILD YOU SHOULD BE PLAYING UNO AND LEGOS WITH YOUR FRIENDS NOT READING SMUT"

completely forgetting that sexual attraction/desire begins usually around 14/15. . .like. . .what do they think everyone is only horny once they reach exactly 18.

Like as long as they're interacting with content from people in their age group and as long as they follow the MDNI they really aren't doing anything wrong. . .

i get the MDNI because yeah- shit gets a little up there but at the same time you’re on tumblr and on the internet internet, i had seen far worse than most of the smut on here by 15-16 because i was a reddit and Ifunny user. i was also on KIK (story for another time tbh)

smut on tumblr is the least of most people’s worries

also great apologies for the late response i’m currently dying of food poisoning and wishing death would back hand me and smite me down to hell where i belong

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So im looking into a pescetarian diet! Or at least start out with eating "land meat" much less! So I was doing research- Of course my dumbass went to reddit and I was so not prepared for the amount of idiocy from some vegans and vegetarians!

Vegans claiming that the label of pescetarian is pointless and its still murder because if you're not 100% strict vegan than you're just a self righteous killer who wants a label!

Vegetarians being less judgmental and more ignorant about "But they're still animals, they have feelings"

Its so stupid that most of these people are forgetting a crucial fact NOT EVERYONE GOES ON A FUCKING DIET FOR MORAL REASONS! INFACT! MOST PEOPLE GO ON DIETS FOR HEALTH REASONS!

I personally could not give a fuck about the life of fish/shrimp/lobster/crab. They freak me out, dont really have that much going on in their brain besides repopulate and survival. Octopus is different- they're highly intellegent, but also. . .Im not thinking about pesceterian because i dont want to 'kill sensless animals'. Im doing it because I know that eating meat everyday isn't healthy and eating seafood is actually very healthy.

These fucking people think the world will be some utopia if everyone goes vegan/vegetarian but dont take into consideration how fucking absurd that is!

(sorry for the rant)

so

fun story time

moon went to the 2017 warped tour with her cousin, while there a PETA tent was set up and tried to talk to me about how farmers are and how they treat their animals. (for those who don’t know, i love animals and PETA is absolutely garbo) i looked this person dead in the eyes as a small 15 yo and went “my dad is a farmer and i’ve seen him rock a calf to sleep after it lost its mother during birth”

later on my cousin wouldn’t allow me to eat my burger near the tent to piss them off because they irked me😔

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no but fr tho

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OH MY GOODNESS! And the female lead has actually a realistic body type!

Her waist isn't a tooth pick!

that’s one thing i like about manga is that they give realistic body types!

one of my issues with mha is how they changed this in the anime compared to the manga with Ochaco and MoMo

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Men writing smut books are the most entertaining thing I've scene.

They also go into so much detail about the ladies 'breasts' and personality be like: "She was everything a man wanted. The body of a young girl just going through puberty (But big pirky breasts) with the mind of a grown woman"

AND WORST IS THAT SOMEONE IS ACTUALLY PUBLISHING THESE THINGS!

i feel like if you write something like this you shouldn’t be allowed near a public school 🧍🏻‍♀️

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I just got a memory of that horrible fucking trend on tiktok a while ago about the 'after our periods woman will shed a layer of their skin on their face!'

BOY DID I FUCKING HATE THAT TREND! I saw 'educational' accouts and DOCTORS partaking in it! LIke wtf! I had a kid cousin who started freaking out because it wasn't happening to her and she thought it was actually real!

ALSO because I just hate the trend in general where woman will be serious about saying something that happens to our bodies just to fuck with men.

Are also the same people who are like 'Men dont understand anything about woman!' 'how can men be so ignorant about womans bodies' LIKE UH MAYBE BECAUSE YOU SAY SHIT LIKE 'woman can detach their nipples' 'womans faces peel after their period' 'we wash our pussy's with bleach'. . .LIKE WTF. Young boys see that shit and dont know enough to know if its true or not so obviously they're going to believe it coming from an adult! shit made me so mad when it was happening.

nah man some men just dont know female anatomy 😭 i present some of the best posts taken from reddit:

also, smut books by men 🤚🏻

idk if they failed sex ed or if sex ed failed them

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i dont know where you're from but imma talk to you like you're not from the south for a lil second. I'm from midwest america. My family makes Sun Tea EVERY SUMMER! (Red Rose Tea sometimes with sugar we let sit out in the sun for a day and put it in the fridge afterwards). Fancy Iced Tea if you will. I had a friend from the south who made me Iced Tea once and it was so freaking sweet! OMG I was horrified!😭☠️

i’m also from the midwest mate and i’ve never heard of sun tea 🧍🏻‍♀️

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That is all. So so so sorry for the spam

you got spammed right back b💖

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Call me Collector Ig

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