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You can just draw dakota cole. Many dont know this

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okay now that we’ve a had couple lesbian blockbusters and milfs are having a romance moment, we need to bring back the manic pixie dream girl. she was never fuckin suited to fixing all the problems of some boring twenty year old everyman, but you know who could actually benefit from a quirky free-spirited blue haired girl with pronouns (she/they)? a newly divorced forty-something mom who’s trying to learn how to be herself for the first time in her life

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I want to talk to people but if I bother anyone they'll kill me. And I'm pretty bad at starting and continuing conversations

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Dakota is literally khmer and a butch lesbian if we all ignore grizzly plays

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Pokes head back in also calling out and commenting on a pattern of transmisogynistic and frankly rude behaviour is not bullying I would think we would know the difference by now

Takes headphones off wait were people actually saying there’s no transfem Dakota headcanons. I’ll be sure to slide some transfem Dakota posts under their rock when I pass by next time. Puts headphones back on.

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Takes headphones off wait were people actually saying there’s no transfem Dakota headcanons. I’ll be sure to slide some transfem Dakota posts under their rock when I pass by next time. Puts headphones back on.

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not to get too deep on main but did anyone else have such deeply rooted issues with their self worth for so long that they thought as a kid/teen that their only redeeming feature was being “low maintenance” and now as an adult you give yourself guilt pangs asking for any more than the barest minimum in virtually any relationship because asking for things might negate your only good quality which is just “doesn’t ask for things”

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I think it would be incredibly emotionally fulfilling to hit someone in the back of the head really hard with a shovel

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I think it would be incredibly emotionally fulfilling to hit someone in the back of the head really hard with a shovel

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I think it would be incredibly emotionally fulfilling to hit someone in the back of the head really hard with a shovel

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Tomorrow I wake up and EAT BREAKFAST (vital step) then I go out and get a chicken that my dad did not tell me to get rid of and roast that thang along with broccolini and potatoes for lunch and my brothers dinner before I go visit my friend at the library before I work another 9 hours I’m never fucking getting to do artfight bro

Okay my GAME PLAN is that I am going to SHOWER and then GET FOOD IN MY STOMACH while reading YURI COMIC and then I am going to clean up my room a bit at go to bed at 1:00

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I have SHOWERED. I am heading up NOODLE LEFTOVERS the GREEN YURI is out I am LIVEBLOGGING my NIGHT because the other option is I end up stuck in one spot ruminating for another hour and my bathroom needed to be cleaned so bad like a week ago

Okay my GAME PLAN is that I am going to SHOWER and then GET FOOD IN MY STOMACH while reading YURI COMIC and then I am going to clean up my room a bit at go to bed at 1:00

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Okay my GAME PLAN is that I am going to SHOWER and then GET FOOD IN MY STOMACH while reading YURI COMIC and then I am going to clean up my room a bit at go to bed at 1:00

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omg i started reading mitsuaya while i was on vacation!! have you read it or just been seeing art online?

I got it literally yesterday from the bookstore and liked it so much I drove back this morning to get volume 2 LMAO i really really like it!! Unsurprisingly!!

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Realistically the amount of despair I’m experiencing is due to the fact I just worked like 9 hours and haven’t been able to stomach food all day. But also I think my soul is unsaveable

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I love my sister but the fact that she still acts like a victim over me being kind of blunt and frustrated about reasonable things when I was 16 and debilitatingly mentally ill and had just lost almost all my friends is actually absurd to me. Girl you’re 24 beefing with a version of a guy who doesn’t even exist anymore.

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by the way, quietly bottling your discomfort with someone and just hoping they'll "get the hint" until you can't take it anymore and then taking it to the nearest moderator isn't "setting a boundary" or "being victimized," it's actually called "being a huge piece of shit" and "expecting people to read your mind."

Sorry about your conflict aversion, but you actually need to tell people when they're making you uncomfortable. like, with explicit, clear, unmistakeable words that don't give you a safe cover of plausible deniability with which you can back out and "still be the good guy." It is kinder to let someone down face-to-face so they can hurt and move on knowing what went wrong than it is to lead someone on and then stab them in the fucking back, you know?

Also, I cannot stress this enough, it is not actually someone else's fault for making you uncomfortable when you literally make a point to lie to them about how much you like them by pretending you're enjoying their company more than you are. That's your fault. That's called making a bed to lie in. Maybe just desperately hoping someone who has already misinterpreted how close they are to you will just happen to pick up on the subtle signs of you desperately hiding your discomfort is, frankly, fucking stupid, and you need to get over yourself and say real words to them instead of getting some third party to punish them for your own inability to communicate.

Sorry this one isn't as nice as my other posts, but some of you need a wake-up slap. Stop fucking burning autistic people and trans women one-by-one because being a coward is easier than being a villain. It's not fucking nice, it's not cute, and the more I see it happen, the less forgivable it gets. Grow the fuck up and change in the scary but necessary ways.

Because it's kinder to tell someone when they're fucking up than it is to let them make the same mistakes in ignorance until you've secretly tallied enough transgressions to safely write them off as unforgivable, and thus disposable. Because I care about you, and everyone else, enough to give you a real chance to actually correct your harmful behaviors by being honest to you about the harm they cause. Because I believe people can make hurtful mistakes while still being genuine unintended mistakes, and that they can change.

Hint, hint.