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How to Be That Girl – Rich Edition 💸✨🥂

Being an It Girl isn’t just about looking expensive—it’s about embodying luxury, confidence, and exclusivity in every aspect of your life. Here’s your ultimate guide to leveling up and stepping into your high-value era:

Invest in a Luxury Bag : A designer bag instantly elevates even the most basic outfit. Whether it’s a classic Chanel flap, a LV Alama BB or a Dior Saddle, the right bag makes a statement before you even speak. 💼

Jewelry is a Must : Always wear something that shines—whether it’s a timeless tennis bracelet, a dainty gold chain, or statement earrings. High-quality pieces last forever! 💎

Upgrade Your Aesthetic : Post the trips, the champagne toasts, the five-star dinners, and the luxury stays. Let your lifestyle speak for itself, and keep the rest private—mystery is power. 🥂

Hair is Everything : A true It Girl has flawless hair at all times. Whether it’s high-quality bundles, a sleek silk press, or effortless waves, investing in a top-tier hairstylist ensures you always look put together—even with no makeup. 💇🏽‍♀️ SHOP : @Candalbeauty (on instagram)

Drive Luxury : Your car is part of your brand. A high-end vehicle not only elevates your status but puts you in different rooms and circles. It’s not just transportation—it’s an investment. 🚙

Confidence is Key : If you don’t feel like that Girl yet, change whatever you need to until you do. Whether it’s Botox, fillers, surgery, or a whole new wardrobe—self-improvement is power. Look good, feel good, move differently. 💉

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⭐Vitamin Cheat Sheet⭐

Vitamin A: Vision, immune system, skin health.

Vitamin B1 (Thiamine): Energy metabolism, nerve function.

Vitamin B2 (Riboflavin): Energy production, skin health.

Vitamin B3 (Niacin): Cellular energy production, skin health.

Vitamin B5 (Pantothenic Acid): Metabolism, hormone production.

Vitamin B6: Brain function, mood regulation.

Vitamin B7 (Biotin): Healthy hair, skin, and nails.

Vitamin B9 (Folate): Cell division, DNA synthesis.

Vitamin B12: Nervous system, red blood cells.

Vitamin C: Immune system, collagen synthesis.

Vitamin D: Bone health, immune function.

Vitamin E: Antioxidant, skin health.

Vitamin K: Blood clotting, bone health.

Calcium: Bone and teeth health, muscle function.

Iron: Oxygen transport, energy production.

Magnesium: Nerve function, muscle relaxation.

Zinc: Immune system, wound healing.

Potassium: Fluid balance, nerve function.

Iodine: Thyroid function, metabolism.

Selenium: Antioxidant, thyroid health.

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Luxury Isn’t Just Designer Handbags!

Here’s 10 Non-Material Ways You Can Live Lavishly

When we think of luxury, it’s often designer bags or high-end shoes—but true elegance transcends material things. Welcome or welcome back to The Black Feminine Society, a blog, sisterhood and brand dedicated to Black women who are on their journey to healing, and elevating in all areas of life the feminine way.

Today will want to give you 10 ways to lavishly invest in yourself, producing a life of inner richness and timeless grace ( & its well deserved!)

Its time to bring softness into your home, offices, and even your cars! For your home try decorating with plush throws, fresh flowers, candlelight, and soothing scents. When it come to the office, whether you work in a cubicle, have a office of your own or a spot in your home because your remote or self employed. Don't underestimate the power of cleanliness, good lighting and some floral or even water sounds. Give your workplace a sense of relaxation and love. Lastly, ladies clean and try aroma therapy in your cars! Every space that consumes your day should feel warm and peaceful. It'll add a touch to your daily routines and even on those off day a when you are rushing and woke up on the wrong side of the bed (it happens)

Tip: Depending on the weather, a change of scenery helps also. Try a cafe or work space on the nicer side of town. Work outside or even early at the beach. A serene environment cultivates peace—and feels like a loving hug every day.

Schedule moments of quiet—early morning, nature walks, journaling breaks—where you just breathe, reflect, and exist without pressure to perform. Embrace these pauses as essential parts of your day, allowing your mind to clear and your thoughts to settle. Use this time to connect with your inner self, to listen to the whispers of your heart, and to cultivate gratitude for the present moment. Let these peaceful intervals recharge your spirit, enabling you to approach your tasks with renewed energy and focus. Remember, it's in these moments of stillness that clarity often emerges, guiding you on your path forward.

I know, We talk about this a lot but it’s because It’s so game changing! Slow morning are a must here at BFS. Try to practice on weekends, it’s less pressure to start trying to slow down your weekend mornings than during the week. Yes this means don’t sleep in every weekend! Try to wake up and slowly indulge in self care, pray, take a bath instead of a shower, make some coffee or tea, do your skin care, don’t touch your phone until 11 am. Swap doom scrolling with your favorite gospel or motivational speeches playlists while you pour into yourself. Simple rituals feel sumptuous when done with intention.

If you aren’t already a bookworm your approach to reading might be skewed. You may have never been a reader because of school or personal reasons but reading isn’t just fundamental it’s a luxury. Try getting a book that teaches you something, read spiritually enriching books. Self care or self help books are always good. Run a bath. Pour a warm herbal tea. These small acts build an abundant inner life.

If you are apart of the discord you know we are big advocates in investing in your fitness and health. Move in ways you love—pilates, dance, gentle yoga. Stretch, roll muscles, breathe deeper. Honor your vessel as the beautiful temple it is. For motivation, tips an and community we have a space for you in our discord, click HERE to join now.

Rather than constantly buying, savor what you already own. Whether fashion, skincare, or homeware, refine your collection. Focus on creating your capsule wardrobe and invest in things you NEED and don’t become a victim of overconsumption. The minimalistic approach is recommended because not only do you avoid clutter and overspending, it’s classic, elegant and most importantly timeless. Later you can add hints of your favorite pieces and items to spice things up.

Just as stated in #6 —Embrace the “quiet luxury” aesthetic: timeless silhouettes, soft neutrals, tactile fabrics. A capsule wardrobe is built off of intention. Each piece should be versatile, allowing for multiple combinations that suit various occasions. Focus on quality over quantity, investing in items that will withstand the test of time. Prioritize classic cuts that flatter your body shape and colors that enhance your complexion. Accessories should be minimal yet impactful, adding a touch of personality without overwhelming the overall look. Remember, the goal is to create a cohesive collection that reflects your personal style while maintaining a sense of understated elegance. Consider the longevity of each item, ensuring they can adapt to changing trends without losing their charm. Embrace the art of simplicity, and allow your wardrobe to speak volumes without saying a word.

Stand tall, speak softly, walk slowly—elegance is a posture. Embody dignified energy even during everyday tasks, and watch your presence transform. As you move through each moment with grace, notice how others respond to your calm demeanor. Allow your confidence to radiate, creating an atmosphere of respect and admiration. Each step becomes a statement, each word a melody, harmonizing with the rhythm of life around you. Embrace the power of poise, and let it guide you to greater heights, enriching not only your journey but also the paths of those who cross your way.

Experience the magic of the queen treatment in action and discover the captivating power of pretty privilege!

Gather with your sisters. If you’re searching for community and sisterhood we have resources like our “The Ladies Room” 💋groupchat on discord. This is a safe space where you can share your thoughts, seek advice, and connect with like-minded women who support each other. Join us for virtual meetups, discussions on various topics, and activities that foster genuine connections. Whether you’re looking to make new friends, share your experiences, or simply find a place to belong, “The Ladies Room” is here for you. Don't hesitate to reach out and become part of our growing community — Join HERE ✨

God is GOOD and always in control. When you know this truth you should live like it. No matter the amount in you bank account, the storms and noise of the world. A simple cup of tea, a compliment from your mirror, a handwritten note—these are the moments that breathe life into a feminine legacy. They feel lavish because they feel like you. Always celebrate, you’re alive, you deserve it.

💌 Final Thoughts

True luxury isn’t about price tags—it’s a mindset. When you treat yourself with kindness, choose depth over flash, and curate beauty around you, you are living lavishly. And that richness radiates outwards.

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2025 is:

Baccarat Rouge 540, La Perla lingerie, Chanel No. 5, caviar and oysters, first-class lounges, Soho House memberships, Hermès Birkins, Dior sunglasses, Van Cleef, Cartier, Tiffany, Ritz-Carlton spa days, Nobu dinners, St. Barts holidays, Pilates reformer classes, Montblanc pens, bulletproof coffee mornings, St. Regis afternoon tea, skiing in Aspen, sailing on a Sunseeker yacht, dating men wearing custom-tailored suits, handwritten thank-you notes written with custom stationery by Smythson, interior design consultations, negronis by the fireplace, silk pillowcases, cashmere throws, helicopter rides to the Hamptons, fine art auctions at Sotheby’s, private wine tastings in Napa, chef’s table dining experiences, Le Labo Santal 33, Rolls-Royce chauffeured rides, horseback riding in the English countryside, Ladurée macarons, Rolex watches, a Montauk beach house, Louboutin heels, afternoon reads of The Financial Times, medical-grade skincare routines, investing in blue-chip stocks, attending Paris Fashion Week, tennis matches at Wimbledon, and Courchevel ski chalets.

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Acquire Assets That Will Pay for Your Lifestyle 💋💅🏽💕

There’s nothing wrong with enjoying luxury, pampering, and ease—as long as you’re not paying for it with your labor f̲o̲r̲e̲v̲e̲r̲.

The goal isn’t just to make more money; it’s to make your money work so that your lifestyle is covered by assets, not just hustle.

Let’s break this down with a real example.

Common Self-Maintenance & Lifestyle Expenses

Here’s what many people are spending monthly (or biweekly) on self-maintenance and lifestyle comfort:

* Housekeeper – 4x per month at $250 each = $1,000/month

* Nails (manicure/pedicure) – Every 3 weeks = $200/month

* Hair (natural/silk press, etc.) – Monthly = $200/month

* Eyelashes (fill-ins) – Biweekly at $80 each = $160/month

* Facials or skincare treatments – Monthly = $150/month

* Massages or body contouring – Monthly = $220/month

* Waxing (brows, underarms, etc.) – Monthly = $95/month

* Gym/Yoga/Pilates Membership – Monthly = $310/month

* Monthly Shopping (clothing/shoes) – Monthly = $3,500/month

* Dining Out or Brunch – Weekly at $200 each = $800/month

Total Lifestyle Spend: Approximately $6,635/month

Now here’s the key mindset shift:

Instead of cutting everything out and living in misery…

Build a portfolio that pays for it.

Use Income-Producing Assets to Fund Your Lifestyle

Let’s say you acquire a 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗿𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝗲𝘀𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗲 that pays you $12,000 per month-in passive income.

That one asset could easily:

* Cover your entire self-care and lifestyle budget

* Fund at least some of your monthly living expenses

* Or leave you with $5,000+ to reinvest or save

Now your self-maintenance, your housekeeper, your brunches, even your gym membership—are all funded by a cash-flowing asset, not your 9-5 or active labor.

The Wealthy Don’t Stop Spending… They Change What Pays for It

They reposition their money.

They acquire assets first, then spend second.

The real flex isn't the facial or the fresh set of nails—It’s having something behind the scenes silently paying for it every month while you sleep.

Don’t just build wealth to save—it’s OK to enjoy your life. But make the smart financial pivot:

Acquire assets that will pay for your lifestyle so you don’t have to.

Let your money treat you the way you treat it with respect, care, and intention.

Credit Taneisha Fletcher

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financial knowledge for the girlies 🤍🍓💸

Develop a budget: Creating and sticking to a budget can help you better understand your income and expenses, and learn how to prioritize your spending.

Save regularly: Saving money is crucial for achieving financial stability. You can set up automatic transfers to a savings account so you won't be tempted to spend the money.

Pay off debt: High-interest debt can hinder your financial progress. Make a plan to pay off your debts and focus on high-interest debts first.

Invest wisely: Investing can help your money grow over time. Look for low-cost index funds, which can give you broad exposure to the market at a low cost.

Understand compound interest: Compound interest is the interest you earn on interest. By investing consistently, the power of compound interest can help you build wealth over time.

Research before making big financial decisions: Before making a major decision, such as buying a house or car, research different options and weigh the costs and benefits.

Learn from your mistakes: Every failure or setback can teach you something valuable. Use these experiences to inform your future financial decisions.

Get professional advice: Seek advice from a financial advisor if you're unsure about your financial decisions. They can provide guidance on investments, retirement planning, and tax strategies.

Be aware of scams: Scammers can take advantage of financial illiteracy. Be cautious when someone offers an investment that's too good to be true.

Continuous learning: Financial knowledge is constantly changing, so stay informed by regularly reading financial news, books, and attending classes or webinars.

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the neurodivergent experience:

20% of the time: wowwieee!!! i love my passions and interests!!!!! they make me so happy i want to jump up and down!!!!! weee!!!!!!! :3333333333

80% of the time: this mind is a prison

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"If tampons should be free, then so should my diabetes meds."

Yes? Yes they should be? Your life-saving medication that you need in order to live for a condition you were born with should be given to you at no cost?

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executive dysfunction is legitimately physically uncomfortable. i’ll be trapped between two things, weirdly caught on how-much-time-it-might-take-me. i take hours worried im going to take hours doing things. i’ll sit on the floor for the entire day, caught up in the middle of not-doing the chores i actually do want to be doing.

& the amount of mental energy that goes into it. & the legitimate amount of anger and discomfort and self-hate. is not “being lazy”.  it’d be a lot less work if i didn’t have to fight myself to just get up and do it. 

i just need you to understand it’s not effortless. it’s never effortless. it’s not “okay let me just get up and finally start doing this.” it’s more like. i am slamming my foot on the pedal but the car is in neutral and nothing is moving. it’s more like shouting instructions into a dying telephone. it’s more like being trapped in a small electric box, and someone who hates me is administering shocks. 

im trying. im trying. please help me get up.

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Dealing With Executive Dysfunction - A Masterpost

The “getting it done in an unconventional way” method.

The “it’s not cheating to do it the easy way” method.

The “fuck what you’re supposed to do” method.

The “get stuff done while you wait” method.

The “you don’t have to do everything at once” method.

The “it doesn’t have to be permanent to be helpful” method.

The “break the task into smaller steps” method.

The “treat yourself like a pet” method.

The “it doesn’t have to be all or nothing” method.

The “put on a persona” method.

The “act like you’re filming a tutorial” method.

The “you don’t have to do it perfectly” method.

The “wait for a trigger” method.

The “do it for your future self” method.

The “might as well” method.

The “when self discipline doesn’t cut it” method.

The “taking care of yourself to take care of your pet” method.

The “make it easy” method.

The “junebugging” method.

The “just show up” method.

The “accept when you need help” method.

The “make it into a game” method.

The “everything worth doing is worth doing poorly” method.

The “trick yourself” method.

The “break it into even smaller steps” method.

The “let go of should” method.

The “your body is an animal you have to take care of” method.

The “fork theory” method.

The “effectivity over aesthetics” method.

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🎯 Habits determine most of a person's behaviour & outcomes. Here are a few ways in which wealthy people often use to set themselves up for success.

🎯 Rise Early: There's no one size fits all but this habit seems to repeatedly appear among those who do well in life ☀️

🎯 Read A lot: Most read to gain knowledge or insight 📚

🎯 Personal Care: They prioritize diet, exercise and overall health to maximize productivity and longevity 🧘‍♀️

🎯 Networking: You're only as successful as the people you frequently associate with - also a positive and supportive network will have a positive influence on your life 🤝

🎯 Positive Attitude: It opens your mind to trying new methods, adapting new technologies, identifying opportunities and recovering quickly from setbacks 🙏

🎯 Goal-Oriented: Successful people set goals and then proceed to act quickly and often 🎯

🎯 Get Enough Sleep: Being well-rested is critical for success as it has a beneficial effect on memory, critical thinking and overall health 😴

🎯 Multiple Incomes: Successful people don't rely on a single source of income as having multiple incomes allows them to weather economic downturns 💰

🎯 Generous: Most believe that success is more than the accumulation of wealth for themselves and often give back in various ways 🎗️

🎯 Frugal: They are careful about how they spend and have a healthy respect for money - this is not being stingy, but rather thrifty 💵

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