DID system- 28- He/him, white. Commission info here: https://melon-arts.carrd.co/ Decided DNIs are unhelpful I'll just explode you if you suck.
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Fandom terms have to sound silly, like blorbo or squick, because fandom needs humbling. Not a lot. But just every so often you need a good grounding reminder that all of this is literally made up nonsense for fun.
If you take a fictional thing so seriously that silly words genuinely annoy you, you've gone too far and you need to dial it back.
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ok i just got this thought out of nowhere but blog divers (people who scroll through a blog and reblog things that were posted YEARS AGO) are actually a super important part of the tumblr ecosystem
With people going inactive and deactivating, a lot of classic tumblr posts and also missed gems get lost because those connections get broken. Even on my own blog I forget about posts I made until I see someone in my activity reblog one of them- which then inspires me to reblog it myself because it was a good post and I want my new followers to see
do not feel bad about diving through someone's blog and reblogging shit from years ago, it keeps dashboards alive
(and if anyone has a problem with that, they can just block you or they can delete the root post ¯\_(ツ)_/¯, two things that have absolutely no effect on the grand scheme of our lives)
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I love grindr images like this, they're so awesome sauced
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This panic happens like every few months.
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I can be shaped by more than the things that hurt me
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me (user since 2010) everytime this site is in a 50/50 situation of being nuked every 3 years
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Question for the trans guys:
It's often said that the only time a man will receive flowers in his life is at his own funeral.
Flowers are often mainly given to women by their partners.
Would you consider it flattering, or borderline misgendering to receive flowers? Say, for an anniversary, V-Day, just because, sorry, etc?
(Please only trans guys answer)
#my fiance gave me a boquet of sunflowers once and i still have the photo as my lock screen#its not misgendering when the intent is giving a man flowers#but im also a fag so maybe that plays a factor.#i just find it sweet
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captain ahab got me fucked up if he thinks i’m chasing that gay ass whale anymore
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I was accidentally 15 one time and basically there’s Problems forever because of this
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