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gaining as a form of self actualization

gaining as an expression of bodily autonomy

gaining as an act of kindness towards oneself

gaining as an acknowledgment that you deserve to eat till you’re full

gaining as a means of rebellion against a society that rewards self-deprivation

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Your humble jester comes bearing gifts 💕

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“But if you forget to reblog Madame Zeroni, you and your family will be cursed for always and eternity.”

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As your body grows, you need to pay more attention to it. Be gentler with it.

You need to start devoting more time just to moving around. Pay more attention to all the rolls and hidden folds when you shower; they can get sweaty. Be suddenly more aware of all the undersides and side rolls that can peek out of your clothes.

Sometimes, you need to stop, catch your breath, take a break. Nurse your large body back to health, restore its energy levels with gentle care. Refuel it often with delicious food and drink.

As your body grows, you become more sensual. Caressing your own fat, gently rubbing your belly, grabbing at the rolls, sinking your fingers into the plushness. You are slower, almost regal. In the beginning, this is a necessity; with time, you grow to love it.

As your body grows, you are more and more in love with it.

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"Wanting to be fat (much like wanting to be thin or in-betweeny or athletically built) isn't something I, or anyone else, should have to defend. But it is something I want to talk about more. In radical fat acceptance conversations, it's pretty much acceptable to say that you actually enjoy being fat; that you see beauty in it, that you see beauty in the fatness of others, and that you feel empowered by the way you look. In mainstream conversations and day-to-day interactions, that isn't remotely the case. If you are fat, and you are not publicly trying to "fix" yourself, you need a reason and an excuse. You need proof that you're healthy regardless. You need proof that your weight "cannot be helped." Saying you're fat because it's something you want remains more or less off limits, and certainly not something met with respect for one's choices.

I'm over it. As is the case for most people, I am fat for a few reasons. But the main one is simple: That's how I like it. Some people aren't fat because of illness or the financial burdens of "eating clean" or because their parents are fat, too (not that there's anything wrong with that). Some people just want to be fat.

If you're also one of those people, please know that it's OK. Know that you aren't shoving your beliefs and preferences down anyone else's psyche. You aren't claiming that everyone should be attracted to you. You get to decide to what degree health matters to you, much like everyone else. You get to decide how you go about maintaining your weight. You get to decide what to dress in, or what kinds of people you want in your life — romantically or otherwise. You get to be autonomous over your body. You get to rock your own unapologetic fatness."

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I kinda wish I saw more soft feedism posts that were more about just loving fat bodies and thinking they're beautiful and wanting to gain weight to feel good about yourself. Maybe I just haven't found that side of this community yet, but I've only seen a few blogs that are like this. Most of the content I see is about degradation or making a spectacle about how fat people have "ruined" their bodies. If people are into that, I think that's fine, but I feel like it often turns into genuine fatphobia when the wrong people start playing into that narrative.

As someone who's been fat their whole life, feedism is about loving myself and embracing the beauty that fatness is. I love being soft, and I love being curvy, and I just love the way being fat feels. I'd rather people know that I'm gaining weight on purpose than to think that I'm ruining myself by being lazy or not caring about how I look.

Anyway, if anyone can point me to some blogs that have a softer take on feedism, I would love that!

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Soft and squishy side tummy ❣️

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Fellow Gainers I am struggling. I want to be larger but it seems like no matter how much I eat how much I sit on my ass, nothing seems to stick I have been stuck at 220-230 range for years. Sometimes sinking into the 210s range. How do I help my body gain the weight that I desire. Just like 10 or 20 pounds that's all I am asking for here.

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Bloat brought to you by Lasagna and Coke

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Felt fat. Might keep getting Fatter. IDK though

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Just gorged down 2 big plates of pasta. Might have more later. Gotta love the Gluttony of me.

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someone eating too much and saying “I couldn’t help myself” is like top tier shit

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things to say to get me instantly flustered:

“I’m so full, but it’s so good… Can you help me?”

“I’m going to have to unbutton my pants before I pop them”

“Ough, I overdid it…”

“I’m so full… It’s so tight… But it was soo good”

“I think I can handle a little more”

“It’s like I can feel my stomach stretching”

“I’m gonna get so fat from this”

“No no no, I can’t take another bite! …Fine, fine, I’ll try. For you”

“I can’t move”

“Look at me. I’m huge!”

“You made me so fat”

“I should not have worn this shirt, I can feel myself about to pop it”

“I, um… I think I might be stuck”

“I want you to stuff me”

“I need your hands on me. Now.” (MEGA bonus points if you tell me - or show me - where)

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Full of pizza. And higher than giraffe dick.

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The struggle is real! I want to be bigger but I simultaneously feel guilty about it because I have never been slim, should I want to have been smaller first to really see the pounds pile? I have no real change in my body mass despite my efforts. Hell even during the panorama I didn't gain more than 5 lbs . It feels like I am in a slump. But I legit can't just sit and eat as freely as I want. What can I do?