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You are weak in mind, body, and spirit

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HELLO? POLICE???

Probably bad poly date night idea: "fuck, marry, kill" about your polycule members

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New poly flag users are my dear metamors🥰but old poly flag users?? I kiss you all with tongue and my hands are going under your shirt while I do it.

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Polyamorous as in movie night snacks and cuddles piles, Polyamorous as in walks through a park and we see slides and swingsets with no one using them and we make a day out of it, Polyamorous as in we're walking downtown laughing on the way to our favorite food shop/store/vender, Polyamorous as in having a genuine connection to the people you love and care about because Polyamorous doesn't mean just lots of sex with multiple people. I mean, it can. But you get my point! Campfires and tent cuddles! Roasting smored with your partners and laughing at stupid joked or spooky stories. Give Me Some Domestic Polyamory.

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Probably bad poly date night idea: "fuck, marry, kill" about your polycule members

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Asking this anonymous friend so that 💫🍀 doesn't have to. . . are you perchance looking to make it 4? 😆

Do you know if it's possible to do polyamory while being ace?

I'm asexual, and I'm asexual in a way that means I don't fuck, ever. Doesn't matter if we're dating, married - sex is off the table. I still feel romantic attraction, though (I'm a lesbian), and desire a romantic relationship.

As you can probably imagine, this is a dealbreaker for a lot of people, and my dating circle is not very large.

I know for certain that I can love more than one person. I really, really want to try polyamory. I'm just worried that I won't be able to find even ONE person who fits those requirements (wlw, okay with polyamory, okay with us not having sex). And when I look into poly stuff, I don't really see other ace people - maybe I'm just looking in the wrong place?

Tldr - I'm ace and worried I won't be able to do polyamory because of that. If you have any advice or anything, thank you in advance :) and lmk if this is too vague

-💫🍀

Some of my furthest reaching posts on this site got have been about ace polyams. I get asks 📬 all the time from poly asexuals.

I was shocked by how many of y'all there are! ...though, I couldn't tell you where to find them, other than in those linked posts. They kind of came to me 😅

As far as romancing goes, I'd say generally you may have better luck looking in spaces that are already at least one of those demographics (wlw, ace, and/or poly) rather than hoping to hit the jackpot of all three in the wild. As someone who is deeply sexual, trying to have a romance without sex would be impossible for me in a monogamous relationship. But since I have another partner to take care of that, those sorts of relationships become a possibility again for me. So my instinct is to say to look for someone already partnered, but that may be the bias talking🤷. At minimum, I stand by making friends in queer spaces. And to do this IRL if you can.

Anecdotally, most of the stories I've heard about "successes" in boats similar to yours⛵ have been from people where it "just happened" -- they were friends with someone for awhile and eventually one of them went "would it be crazy if we tried that" and it worked. But the sample size I have leaves much to be desired.

On that note, I hope others in your boat will chime in and that you'll come back to check the notes. I'm sure they will have more specific advice than I can give.

I wish you much luck🤞. I know for certain its much more feasible than it seems, but for many, it does take some time. You'll find your people, eventually. We all do.

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Do you know if it's possible to do polyamory while being ace?

I'm asexual, and I'm asexual in a way that means I don't fuck, ever. Doesn't matter if we're dating, married - sex is off the table. I still feel romantic attraction, though (I'm a lesbian), and desire a romantic relationship.

As you can probably imagine, this is a dealbreaker for a lot of people, and my dating circle is not very large.

I know for certain that I can love more than one person. I really, really want to try polyamory. I'm just worried that I won't be able to find even ONE person who fits those requirements (wlw, okay with polyamory, okay with us not having sex). And when I look into poly stuff, I don't really see other ace people - maybe I'm just looking in the wrong place?

Tldr - I'm ace and worried I won't be able to do polyamory because of that. If you have any advice or anything, thank you in advance :) and lmk if this is too vague

-💫🍀

Some of my furthest reaching posts on this site got have been about ace polyams. I get asks 📬 all the time from poly asexuals.

I was shocked by how many of y'all there are! ...though, I couldn't tell you where to find them, other than in those linked posts. They kind of came to me 😅

As far as romancing goes, I'd say generally you may have better luck looking in spaces that are already at least one of those demographics (wlw, ace, and/or poly) rather than hoping to hit the jackpot of all three in the wild. As someone who is deeply sexual, trying to have a romance without sex would be impossible for me in a monogamous relationship. But since I have another partner to take care of that, those sorts of relationships become a possibility again for me. So my instinct is to say to look for someone already partnered, but that may be the bias talking🤷. At minimum, I stand by making friends in queer spaces. And to do this IRL if you can.

Anecdotally, most of the stories I've heard about "successes" in boats similar to yours⛵ have been from people where it "just happened" -- they were friends with someone for awhile and eventually one of them went "would it be crazy if we tried that" and it worked. But the sample size I have leaves much to be desired.

On that note, I hope others in your boat will chime in and that you'll come back to check the notes. I'm sure they will have more specific advice than I can give.

I wish you much luck🤞. I know for certain its much more feasible than it seems, but for many, it does take some time. You'll find your people, eventually. We all do.

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Hey, four fifths of my polycule saw you from across the bar and think you're cute. The other one thinks you're fuck ugly.

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Remember kids, when you see a post with 6 absolute dogshit takes in the replies but thousands of notes, that means tens of thousands of people saw it.

The 6 who were idiots make up 1% of 1% of the people who viewed the post.

That's a vanishingly small number. Let it vanish.

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I haven't talked enough about Two Husbands, One Wife. Because really, what do you say about perfection? It feels like any words I offer cannot do it justice.

I pretty much hold my breath every episode and pray to the show gods that they don't ruin the absolutely beautiful thing they've created.

And so far...as of episode 7...they haven't.

Because every episode has built on the idea that it really takes all THREE of them to make this relationship work. The framing reinforces this with frequent triangle shots (and even triangle dialogue). There must be a connection between all points, and no point is more important than the other. Every person is essential.

Because while Takuzo may be the "responsible" one, he's rigid in his ways.

And while Mia is the realist who easily speaks her mind and expresses what she wants, it can make her very focused on herself.

They already tried it with just the two of them. It didn't work.

And Mia and Shinpei have already tried it with just the two of them too. It doesn't work.

Because they struggle with managing responsibility on their own.

They are willing to do the work, but they need someone to guide them with structure and remind them the laundry exists. I feel that.

And although Shinpei is a free spirit who really brings "joy" to everything he does...

With just Mia, he still feels a bit insecure and not quite good enough.

And with a younger boyfriend that has so many fans, Mia can sometimes feels insecure too.

As the men have developed and taken their relationship further.

Takuzo is able to affirm Shinpei and give him the words he needs to hear.

And Shinpei's earnest and sweet nature is able to break through Takuzo's walls to help him see that his rigidity can have consequences.

His infectious energy pushes Takuzo to go places he wouldn't otherwise and encourages him to try new things.

But both men recognize that they NEED Mia.

She holds them together.

Because she's the one who can express words and speak her mind easily.

Who will make the first move when things get difficult.

And push them to make the necessary decisions.

Because they're a throuple. And no (good) relationship exists without all three of them.

Bonus: There's food symbolism (even more than I mention here). Be still my beating heart.

Mia is gyoza.

Takuzo is curry.

And it's best when the chef (Shinpei) serves both.

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YOUR SOULMATE is a TRANSGENDER PERVERT on TUMBLR.COM

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some theorems on relationships and polycules

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Polyamorous (2) : the attraction to multiple individuals with the consent of everyone involved. This attraction could be anything; romantic, emotional, queerplatonic and/or sexual. This can be through a relationship including three or more people, or having a string of other relationships that the people involved are knowledgeable to the fact they are one of many and consent to such.

This first post for polyamorous is here!

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hey the same woman who started that conversation about swinging just posted, and I quote, "🍍🍆" as examples of fun emoji we were still allowed after the big boss disabled the middle finger and some other unprofessional stuff. Y'all 👀 I think she might be my kin.

1 in 5...

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Spent like an hour drawing me and my pookies the silliest sillies to ever silly from a random poly picture I saw on Pinterest so enjoy