unavoidable that you will be the villain in someone else's story. You will be painted in an unfavorable light. You will be the irredeemable one. and all of this will happen despite how nice you might usually be or how kind or how respectful or how warm. and you will just have to move on.
Yeah yeah religious trauma and internalized homophobia suck but sometimes I get these moments of overwhelming joy at the fact that I am queer and proud I am not religious anymore I have a life ahead of me where I can celebrate pleasure and love and intellectual freedom without constraint like fuck yeah this is what I'm sticking around for!!!!!!!
Look, we joke a lot, but really, "you were born evil, wretched, worse than the scum of the earth, and it took killing a god to make you salvageable, so now you'd better be grateful to that god and thank him 10,000 times a day for it and fill your thoughts with him 24/7 and abide by the letter of his every word, lest you suffer unimaginable torture for all of eternity" is a truly horrendous thing to believe about yourself and other people
I really don't know how to explain to people that supporting gender liberation (liberation for trans people, liberation for gnc people, liberation from all oppressive gender roles) means you have to be able to see someone you think is cis "crossdressing" and be cool about it. You have to be able to see someone presenting in a way that doesn't make sense to you and not interrogate them about their identity. You have to be able to hear someone express a gender identity you don't understand and go "Huh! Neat," and go about your business. If you truly want gender liberation for all then you have to stop trying to exert control over other people's genders, period.
There is a difference between truly believing something to be the truth, & participating in certain behaviors and rituals associated with a religion or spirituality in hopes that it will become the truth.
If you realize you're in a belief because of the latter- then I suggest you take a critical look at your beliefs, deconstruct it, figure out what you really believe versus what you want to believe.
Same reason as to why militaries and police don't use "astral projection" to spy and gather information...
The funniest argument against gods is that if they were real and actually gave miracles and answered prayers, insurance companies would raise peoples insurance rates for being non-religious! Because capitalists will find any reason to get more money.
almost none of the reasons why i support abortion rights have anything to do with babies. really itās more about the fact that I think the government shouldnāt be able to force you to lend all your organs to someone else and change irreparably in the process. is a fetus a person? I donāt care! If it is a person, I donāt want anyone to be forced to host one against their will! If it isnāt a person, guess what? Nobody should be forced to host one against their will! Whatās a soul? Whatās a person? When does life begin? IRRELEVANT! A world in which the government can force anyone to manufacture an entirely new human body at the cost of their own is not a world I want to live in!
Iāve been doing some field work with geologists this winter and Iām kind of amazed by how these dudes can pick up a handful of dirt and talk about it for an hour using terms Iāve never heard of. Like wow you see a whole universe in there that I donāt. The world is truly full of beauty and we only comprehend a fraction of it.
Plenty of highly intelligent people end up getting sucked in to cults because they just wanted people to hang out with. There are antivaxxer nurses. Your ability to act on empirical reason breaks down fast if your social and emotional needs aren't being met.