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[pretty-rad-arson-dad]

Hey guys so, about the whole situation that had happened with me being fasley accused of being a pedo, I said I'd make a post telling our side of the story (cause this involves so much more than me and them) and involves about 10 other people.

Also, ahead of time, sorry if this is messy, I just really don't know how to make these kinds of posts to clear things up? Explaining things like this is not something I'm good at. I was also going to post this sooner, but stuff in my persona life happened, and I've also received threats from this person's friends if I tried to come forward with my side of the story (or more like made anymore posts about it, as there's already a whole call-out post about them on Instagram, which I'll be showing later). After some debate, I actually realized it would probably be best if I actually did, just to get a warning out, even though I know there's a chance this won't be recieved well cause this is fucking Tumblr... And again, I'm just trying to tell our side of the story and warn others so the same doesn't happen to them. Also because I do believe this guy might have a Tumblr account and might try to seek out more people to abuse. I sure as hell know one of his friends who helped stalk us have a Tumblr though.

So, the person making the accusations was someone who joined my discord server, and at the time of joining, he was saying that he was of age. Several members on the server can vouch for me when I say this. Of course, in regards to him telling us he was of age, this is apparently something he failed to mention when he decided to make that callout conveniently enough. I'm still unsure of what his actual age is, wether he actually lied to us about being an adult when he joined the server or if he was lying when he claimed to be a minor in his callout. 

Anyways, sometime after he joined the server, he started to become a problem. Me, being an idiot and feeling bad for him, allowed his behavior to slide, though I didn't know the full extent of what he was doing til a bit later.

He would constantly talk about how he was being abused and we'd try and help him with advice, which he never really listened to, and if anyone on the server mentioned that they had done something fun or had a great time doing something that day, he'd go off and make us feel guilty for having fun, cause his at home life was shit and apparently if he wasn't happy, we couldn't be either. He actually tried to pull some shit while I was celebrating my birthday with my family. This kinda becomes a bit important later? Or at least the day becomes important later.

He's also known as kind of a pathological liar on the server, claiming that they one of the official FNAF artists (one who doesn't exist, btw), and start rumors about YouTubers and other people we liked, and whenever I'd ask for proof, they'd get all defensive. This itself isn't a big deal, except he also has the tendancy to start rumors that people are pedos if he gets into a heated argument with said person. It's actually happened when one of my friends said he didn't feel comfortable with people shipping things between adults and children. This caused a giant argument to erupt and I had to temporarily boot said friend from the server. At this time, my accuser then decided to make accusations that the friend of mine was a pedo because he... Didn't like people shipping adults and children.... Of course, we told him to cut the bullshit and stop causing rumors.

Now, keep in mind, they got upset over someone being grossed out by shipping adults and children.

This becomes a bit important later.

We ended up having a few other problems with them as time went on, them critizing other members AUs (well, more along the lines of bullying them for their AUs and projects), more guilt tripping and at one point, even bragging about pushing someone to suicide (at least that's what 2 of the other server members are telling me, I can't confirm this, as it seems it happened during a period I had no internet, and there's a good chance they might have deleted it, but do feel free to take this with a grain of salt). 

Eventually, he actually ended up leaving the server for good because of Tupperbot. Adding the stupid bot was the second best decision I've ever made in regards to him, honesty.

However, for a lot of us, the main tipping point was the roleplays and private DMs.

He loved to roleplay some pretty fucked up shit with a lot of people on the server. We've actually had one member as young as 11 come forward and say he had tried to do shit with them too. Keep in mind, he told us he was an adult when he joined. He would love to roleplay all sorts of weird, incestous and pedophilic shit with us, and would force it on us out of the fucking blue. Another thing worth mentioning, me and a few others are victims of childhood sexual abuse and rape. He CONSTANTLY put this shit in most of the roleplays he did with no regard to how triggering it was for some of us. We never even got a warning or an ask if it was okay to have something like that put in a roleplay. Some members spoke to him about their discomfort involving the shit he was putting in the roleplays, but it was disregarded and he'd continue to do it. Some of us were even so scared to say anything about it, as we were afraid he'd lash out at us and threaten us, so we just put up with it. 

Aside from the roleplays were the really weird direct messages he'd sometimes send. There were times someone would be venting (this would happen in the server as well) and he'd respond with that they had no reason to be upset and that he's been through much worse. There would also be times when someone would be feeling depressed, and he'd make these private little group chats to try and "intervene" by inviting a few of us in there with the said person. This would be fine on its own, but he always made it a point to invite one person that we've REPEATEDLY had to tell him not to invite. I'll call this person Wah, cause I don't want to cause them any more stress by exposing their account name. Wah was someone we've told him not to invite because she was, at the time, experiencing a lot of suicidal idealations and we were worried putting her in a situation like this where one of her friends was feeling like killing themselves and her having to help to talk them down would be the sort of thing to set her off into hurting herself. We obviously didn't want that, so we made it a rule not to ever get Wah involved. Accuser knew this and went and always invited Wah anyways. And would shrug it off whenever we'd go off and remind him of Wah's own mental health issues. There has also been at least one instance with them and another user, who was feeling suicidal. They mentioned they had been wanting to kill themselves and accuser went off about how if they killed themself, accuser would kill themself too. This obviously scared the shit out of this person and made them feel more awful.

And there of course, is the shit they did to me. They'd sometimes randomly flip out on me in my DMs out of literally fucking no where, and purposely trigger my PTSD.

There's more, but I can't remember all of it because just so much went on.

Anyways, sometime after they left the server, people began coming forward with their experiences with accuser, telling all that he'd been doing in DMs, and mentioning his prior behavior on the server. We started venting about the way he had been treating us in the vents chat because well, we figured if we couldn't try to talk to him about his behavior, at least we could vent amongst ourselves. Apparently he had actually made a few friends on the server and they let him know we were talking about him.

Fast forward to my birthday celebration and I'm getting DMs from him. They start our fine enough but eventually he suggests we start a thing where we mention one positive thing that's happened to us each day. Cool, a fine idea on it's own, but as I've mentioned above, he's had the tendancy to make us feel like shit for having anything cool and fun in our lives, so of course me, and a few other people who apparently had received the same message, were hesitant.

I left him on read to think about it and also because, again, I was celebrating my birthday and I was about to blow out the candles on my cake and open gifts.

I don't remember all of what went down, and I don't seem to have access to the Instagram DMs anymore since I have him blocked on there too, but eventually, I received a message of him flipping out because he knew about our vents. I believe I might have ended up calling him out and telling him exactly why we were doing it, but I can't remember. This happened back in May so the memory is a bit fuzzy and I don't have the DMs anymore.

All I know is that most of the members of the server decided to cut him off.

After that, he tried to tell Wah I wasn't who I seemed to be and attempted to ruin our friendship, made several accounts to stalk the Instagram accounts of serveral other of the server members and I, and then we ended up having to kick a few of their friends from the server cause they were starting to cause trouble.

Then there was silence for a bit.

And then there was the incident. They had gotten a (at the time former) friend of ours involved by lying and manipulating them into believing I was doing all sorts of nasty shit. The friend, who I'm going to call Pasta, ended up bringing that stuff over to Tumblr, unaware that they had been lied to. I'm not sure if it was Pasta who reached out to us, or if it was one of us who reached out to Pasta, but we ended up telling them what was going on, and somehow, accuser found out, and accused them of being a traitor and freaked out on them. They admitted that accuser was responsible and we ended up making up.

I've also since then had some of accusers former friends come to me and tell me about the call-out, further confirming that it was them who started all this as a way to try and get back at me.

And, since of course some obligatory proof is required, I shall provide these call-out posts with some screenshots. And you can even see in the comments we're far from the only ones who have dealt with them.

These aren't the only things from them, obviously, but considering the fact that we've all now got them blocked and some of us have even deleted the DMs (because tbh, most of us thought that cutting them off would be the last of it), this is what we currently have.

Anyways, thanks for reading this long ass mess. Hope y'all stay safe.

[pretty-rad-arson-dad]

Hey so, like I said before, I'm leaving Tumblr for good. This hellsite isn't worth sticking around on any longer, and I'll be focusing on my other social media accounts, so if you want to find me, it'll be elsewhere.

That being said, I still have one final post to make, and it actually the whole story about what was going on with the person, who was fasley accusing me of pedophilia. Because oh boy, it's a rather interesting situation and since I mentioned I'd be doing it in a previous post, I figured, ah hell, why fucking not, even if I'm not gonna stick around here any longer.

I'm gonna warn y'all, it'll be long.

[pretty-rad-arson-dad]

Anyways, on the topic of pride, a trans friend of mine just got their binder and I was wondering if y'all could give me some saftey advice and tips to give them? It would be greatly appreciated.

[pretty-rad-arson-dad]

No joke, I received gore and threats. Please be safe out there, guys!

Hey y'all, if you're on Instagram or some shit and you're posting or openly supporting the LGBT community, nows a great fucking time to go private.

I got a fuck ton of messages like this and some even worse.

Be safe out there and remember not to get involved with these fuckers. Block and report them!

[pretty-rad-arson-dad]

Hey y'all, if you're on Instagram or some shit and you're posting or openly supporting the LGBT community, nows a great fucking time to go private.

I got a fuck ton of messages like this and some even worse.

Be safe out there and remember not to get involved with these fuckers. Block and report them!

[pretty-rad-arson-dad]

We are the Pride Knights, and this is our battle cry No enemy can shake us, as hard as they can try There’s a fire in our eyes that no hatred can kill A passion in our hearts that’s as strong as our will To our fellow queers who fight their battles on their own We promise to fight with you, you are never alone To our fellow queers who have fallen with the pain We thank you for your courage, your fight is not in vain

We are defenders of the right to be proud of who you are To love who you love and to accept every scar We are your knights, protectors of our pride Together we stand, together we ride

These are back! 

[Tees | Hoodies | Sweatshirts]

https://teespring.com/stores/prideknights

[pretty-rad-arson-dad]

I'll be posting my pride art on Instagram

[pretty-rad-arson-dad]

What to do if you are targeted by 🅿️RIDEF🅰️LL

-report the account (steps on how to do so on mobile are at the bottom of this post)

-block the account

-do not engage with the account

-warn others (privately)

-be wary of new messages you may get from accounts you don’t recognize

-turn off the “anon” feature on your blog (precaution)

-private your blog (precaution)

-if you get harmful asks, do not respond to them. Do not post them. Report them, block them, and delete them. (This can be done through browser only, instructions on how are at the bottom of this post)

-don’t give these people a platform to spread their hate. Take care of the problem quietly, don’t talk about it outside of warning. Talking about it to spread panic only gives them what they want.

[pretty-rad-arson-dad]

I know this shit is just going to increase his cyberstalking intensity and harassment too so eh. don't know if it's a win lose or a lose lose here. Whatever.

[pretty-rad-arson-dad]

Honestly, before and if I leave Tumblr, I'd like to at least try and expose exactly what thenfuck is going on with the accusations against me, because oh boy!

They seem to forget that several people on the server that they said I was doing that DIGUSTING shit on can bear witness that their accusations aren't even true and that they are in fact the one who needs some serious fucking help!

Even though I know trying to prove myself innocent at this point probably won't do jack shit because this is Tumblr, I still want to at least try and get it out there that there's a whole other side to this story that they didn't bother telling.

We legit knew they were going to fasley accuse someone else of something awful, since that seems to be something they love to do a lot with people they don't like.

Sorry if I'm rambling incoherently, I'm just pissed and have finally started to get over the fucking stress this whole thing has caused me.

[pretty-rad-arson-dad]

I haven't read To Be Beautiful what exactly is wrong with it? I don't think I want to buy it like the others.

[cracks knuckles]

Okay, disclaimer: I never suffered from body image problems in high school nor do i know anyone who did, so I’m definitely not an expert on this subject. correct me if anything’s wrong.

there’s just this bizzaro version of baby?? why is she here, who created her, why was she in the dump? because fuck you, that’s why

the main character is an absolute bitch

like, there’s a difference between having body issues and literally being obsessed over your appearance until it’s your whole personality

like, her only wish is to be beautiful? bitch wish for some money or for your dead family remembers to come back or something.

most 14 year olds have confirmed via asks that they’d wish to be dragons

elenor’s motivation makes?? no goddamn sense?? why does she offer sarah a wish? she says it’s to thank her for saving her, but she’s actually killing her. and I know that’s to steal her identity, but why not just stab her and take over from there instead of doing all of this bullshit? she didn’t even choose for sarah to be beautiful, what would she have done if she wished for something else???

sarah’s mom is also terrible, her daughter basically has an eating disorder and she doesn’t even notice and is just like ‘lol more bagel for me then’

sarah’s holier-than-thou friend is presented as if she’s supposed to be better than her for not caring about her appearance but she judges everyone and is just as much if not more of a bitch

the author thinks that ‘mean girls’ is an accurate depiction of teenager girls in high school. like, there’s literally a clique of popular girls who snub all the unpopular girls and are literally called “the beautifuls”. I really wish I was making this shit up

this book fucking hates blonde chicks?? because as we all know blonde girls are stupid shallow bimbos who are massive bitches to everyone. go and fuck yourself author

there’s this super fucking gross moment where we focus on sarah’s breast size? like look, I don’t know if 14 year olds want bigger tits or not, but I do know that this book written by a man should absolutely not be drawing attention to the breast size of a fucking underage girl. I literally felt unclean at this part

Sarah gets her body hacked apart and replaced with junk each night. how does she not notice this? why does she not wake up from the pain of having her limbs sawed off? how does this not kill her despite the fact that she no longer has vital organs, or you know, a head? all this and more will not be answered

actually it kind of is, there’s just literal magic in this book because once the necklace is removed she starts turning back into junk and dying. you know, because FNAF is renowned for its magic

there’s like a whole paragraph dedicated to a sweater Sarah used to own that goes nowhere? this one’s minor but it just shows how bad the writing is in this

I have no fucking clue what the goddamn moral of this story is supposed to be. logically it should be that sarah realizes that beauty is enforced only through society and she should just love herself as is, and the book kind of tries to get at this with her realizing her old body wasn’t so ugly when she’s dying?

but like, at no point until the very end does sarah have any problems with her new found beauty. she absolutely loves it and her societal status instantly improved and basically her life gets way better. her sudden change at the end only seems to be because she’s literal trash at that point, not because she learned something

at one point her face improves and elenor’s like “you know having your face change can be very disorienting” and you’d think that would lead to sarah feeling like she doesn’t recognize herself any more but she has no problem with it at all and that point goes no where

and then they try to play up that the other pretty girls are mean to Sarah’s bitch friend and retail workers and stuff and that makes Sarah uncomfortable, because as we all know pretty girls are all massive bitches with no redeeming qualitative or depth and if you’re pretty or become pretty you’re also a bitch by default. author, I cannot stress this enough, fuck off

so basically, the actual moral of the story is that you do look terrible, but it’s better than being literal garbage. with that said, if you get a chance to be more beautiful you should definitely take it, as it’ll make your life 10x better and the only downside is that you’ll have to be a massive bitch, because you can’t be a beautiful woman and not be a massive bitch

and I’m not even getting into how fucking gross it is to have a person with body issues turn into garbage at the end. eating disorders and self-hatred can lead to serious medical and mental issues and this is not an issue you should fucking take lightly, and this is flat-out insulting to anyone who does suffer from those issues

WHAT THE FUCK DID ANY OF THIS HAVE TO DO WITH FNAF

[pretty-rad-arson-dad]

fuck it i’m finally making this post because goddamn i wish i saw it when i was younger

to the minors who follow me:

if anyone significantly older than you approaches you on the internet or in real life in a romantic or sexual way, do. not. communicate with them. the second it becomes anything other than respectful or friendly in any way or if they make you even slightly uncomfortable, block. them. cut them out of your life. they are not worth it and they will hurt you. run. protect yourself. and be safe.

[pretty-rad-arson-dad]

Hah! Yeah it suits me alright.

I made a Disaster Bi pride flag.

[pretty-rad-arson-dad]

Gonna start a post with blank memes. Please add any you have on hand and reblog to spread them.

[pretty-rad-arson-dad]

There's a slim chance I might not leave Tumblr...

However, it might be awhile before I open up the ask box, just because I am not wanting to deal with that verbal abuse...

[pretty-rad-arson-dad]

I found out who the hell started it, and of course I'm not surprised.

So, to a certain someone, if you're reading this, I hope you're happy.

I hope you're happy with all the abuse you put me and several others through, forcing things on us, being an asshole. We all knew you'd pull some sort of shit like this, so thanks for proving us right there at least.

By now, I'm going to just assume that, when we had those NSFW chats, you were lying about your age. Kinda not surprised, given all the other shit you were lying about, but this is what I get, right?

But you know what I'm really surprised by? The fact you stooped so fucking low as to get others involved. Trying to ruin a friendship and even getting a former friend involved to spread your dirty work.

They showed us the DMs between the two of you, so don't even try to deny what happened. You wanted revenge for us cutting you out of our lives.

Sure, it's no secret, we vented about you in the chat sometimes, but what with the way you've been treating us, forcing this sort of shit on us without any warning

Is it really a surprise?

I wish I had spoken up sooner about you, but I so badly wanted to help you with your situation at home. But that really wasn't worth it in the end.

Either way, I guess it looks like you won! Congratulations!

I hope you're happy with the way this has all turned out in your favor.

I'm going likely be leaving Tumblr... This time for good. Being falsley accused thanks to out of context conversations and having to deal with my deteriorating mental health just isn't worth sticking around on here.

[pretty-rad-arson-dad]

Yeah using a throw away account is still a cowardly move, how about you fuck off and leave them alone, they havent done anything wrong at all also your point is absolute dog shit you arent making a good point at all by being super transphobic and stuff, honestly hate anons with a throwaway account go not so kindly fuck yourself and leave arson alone.