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A popular artist suddenly made a trans man comic, and the viewers are not getting it

Being against a trans man's transition because you think it's too boring is transphobic, actually.

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When I was 19-21 years old living on the streets in california the people who cared for me the most were never the people who could care for me comfortably. It was never the channels that were intended to or designed to help me. Not my dad or my local government or anyone with the authority to make things happen. It was my friend's stoner mom who got by on community aid who made me the best damn lentil soup ill ever have (no really that ruined the dish for me nothing has ever come close to that soup) and let me sleep on her floor. It was my ex who hated my guts but still set me up with toiletries when i needed them. It was the father of a classmate who met me by coincidence one time in a park and brought me home to share taco night together. It was the barista who got in trouble for giving me free coffee. It was the other homeless person who I shared some candy with who gave me his blanket. It was the randos at the bar who brought me to get stitches one night. The have-nots have always had more to give than people who believe themselves in a position of power. You can pick any one ivy league graduate and they will have a sob story for you. They will have excuses for why they don't care. They're scared and gormless and it'll take a hell of a lot to make me care about them. I guess what I'm trying to say is that as much as everything sucks and we're all fucked over every day, nothing can ever impede your own actions more than the feeling that you cannot make an impact. The initiative needed to make the world a better place lurks in everyone, it's your responsibility to nourish it. Volunteer somewhere, talk to someone on a bad day, give people the time of day to explain themselves. When you can, reach out to help someone. And when you can't, don't ignore them. Be kind to your friends and neighbors. It's literally always been and will always be about community. I love every one of you truly.

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Small joys on Tumblr:

When your notes make a perfect cat

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Remember to make space for the heteros this month too - yes, really.

Lesbians who became straight men

Gay men who became straight women

All straight drag artists (note that not all of them are cis!)

People with complex identities who thusly encompass multiple orientations (like genderfluid and multigender people who, yes, are sometimes straight, or even simultaneously with other labels)

Hetero aro and ace people. Especially. Seriously.

People with fluid orientations

Gnc people who find joy in their straightness

Many queer people are also straight. Queerness is note solely reliant on gayness. These people too, are a part of pride. Remember that.

[All discourse attempts will be swiftly blocked. Exclusionists fuck off]

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got eaten up with 3 words

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i'm gonna fucking vomit i was high as hel and while trying to fucking tell my group chat that a conure parrot's head is not divisible as a square icon i typed the shittiest slime comprehendible by pond toads.

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Hi everyone! I’ve been doing a lot of ref sheets so I wanted to share them here! I’m currently taking commissions for $30/sheet. Please message me if you’re interested!

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Type: clothing [shirts/pants/underwear/etc], towels, bedsheets, etc.

Care requirements: hot water vs cold water, tumble dry vs. air dry, etc.

Color: usually dark colors vs. light colors, but sometimes specific colors like red are further separated.

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We ask your questions anonymously so you don’t have to! Submissions are open on the 1st and 15th of the month.

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80% of roommate disputes can be solved or remediated with increased communication by everyone

10% of roommate disputes can be solved through compromise, changing life-long learned behaviors, and education

5% of roommate disputes can be solved by moving out

the remaining 5% of roommate disputes you are going to have to get a decent lawyer and abandon all previous moral convictions to destroy that person but not with your mind because you don’t want them to live rent free in there too

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I like that my art seems to attract many different crowds of people, not rly just furries but anyone rly.

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Keeping a lookout with mama!!

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hatsune miku

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you have to stay alive. you're going to be such a beautiful middle aged freak. young freaks will see you in the street and know that things can be okay.