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DIO

You are one of the most ambitious people the world has ever known.  You’re driven and powerful and those traits come with a heavy burden to carry.  But you’re more than those things.  You were also  compassionate to those you cared for, even though you didn’t always understand how they could care for you back.  You went through so much, and still managed to pull yourself into one of the strongest stand users alive.  You overcame, and you can overcome again.  Not to mention your charismatic personality!  You are so much more than what you are written off as and you deserve the best.  Stay strong!

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PKP community positivity requests!

We have a few positivity requests left in our inbox, so we’re opening them up to our followers! If you’re familiar with these characters, please feel free to send in positivity via the submit box :3 You can also reblog, but I can’t guarantee I’ll see the replies in a timely manner to reblog them here.

The requests we have are:

Suzuya Juuzou from Tokyo Ghoul

Tohru Adachi from Persona 4

Dio Brando from Jojo’s Bizarre Adventure

If these three are able to get some community positivity, Mod F and I might open up positivity requests for the community more often.

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Question about requests?

We still have some delayed requests for positivity, however me and Mod F aren’t familiar with all of the series the requests are from, and researching has been difficult given our busy schedules. Would our followers be okay with submitting positivity for these fictionkin and fictives if we give the names and series they’re kin with/fictives of?

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225+ followers, submissions, and delayed positivity posts

Apologies for being so inactive lately, life has caught up with both me and Mod F. We still have the askbox closed to new requests for positivity, however! We have opened up the submit box so other people can send in positivity they want to give to others!

Please remember that the submit box is not the place to request positivity for yourself. It is for you to submit positive statements for problematic kin.

In other news: We have over 225 followers! This is a huge milestone, especially given how few posts we have! It’s so wonderful to see people appreciate our efforts :3

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150+ followers!

Oh my gosh, this is so great! I know we haven’t been very active lately, because offline life has gotten really hectic for both me and Mod F, but we’re both astounded at how many people are following us!

Thank you everyone!

~Mod Kyubey

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It’s okay to hide in the darkness. You’re safe there.

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i've been learning heaps about kin lately, and have come to realize that in the past i was fictionkin with sasuke uchiha, i still feel such a connection to him, but its more of a fictionhearted connection now instead of seeing myself as him. although, sasuke from naruto as you probably know, isnt exactly the best example and i feel bad about that because i actually identify as angelkin and have always wanted to be a good person aaaaaaaaa but hes still a problematic antihero rip me

Well, the way I see it, and this is just a personal thing, Gods can be tricky. Serving a God can be even more so. I’m not sure what type of angel you are, so I don’t want to assume anything, but if that’s the case then just remember that just because you’re here now doesn’t mean you did anything wrong. Very few beings are actually immortal.

As for Sasuke, while I’m not entirely caught up with what happened, you yourself did say that he had his own reasons for doing what he did. What he went through was difficult, and being a teenager on top of everything else I’m sure did not help at all.

All in all, remember that you can be a good person here and now, and that you shouldn’t let the lives of your past weigh you down unnecessarily. Learn and grow from them.

~Mod F

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i'm femt from kekkai sensen, and a friend of mine decided to refrain from introducing me to a friend of theirs who happened to be leonardo watch. i'm afraid my identity was the reason they had a change of heart. and i was so looking forward to meeting them... sigh. any advice?

Hm… This is a tricky situation. I can understand why you wanted some help with this, and I’m sorry for not getting to it sooner!

What I’d do, is ask the intermediary friend why they didn’t want to introduce you two. It could be something else entirely, or it could be that the other person doesn’t feel comfortable. You should respect the other person’s wishes if that’s the case, because being pushy about this is just going to make a very unstable situation that can go sour very quickly.

Best of luck, and remember that there’s so many people in the world, and you can’t make friends with all of them.

~ Mod F

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That’s just the thing--mental illnesses make you feel guilty over everything, even when you know it’s not your fault. Unfortunately, there’s a lot of trouble in our society about recognizing and accepting people with mental illnesses that leaves a lot of people undiagnosed. 

Remember that you have a chance to start over now, and take care of yourself. You should be your first priority. If you still get frustrated, remember that it’s totally fine to need space to be upset in. Don’t cut yourself off forever, though. Your friends really care about you, and you should definitely tell them what you need, not the other way around.

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I’m probably going to sound a lot like Veronica did, but I do want to emphasize that what happened with your mother and father was not your fault, JD. People go through their own challenges in different ways, and you were just a kid at the time. There are a lot of people who were in your situation that I’m sure could relate. 

You should have gotten help immediately after your mother died, and I’m sorry that you didn’t. But you know what? I’m so proud of you for not letting your father control you in the end. That took so much strength and courage. 

I’m sure Veronica is missing you somewhere, both of you. If you feel like you want to, maybe apologizing to the people you hurt could help with what problems you could be having now? It would let you move past it.

~ Mod F

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We got a non-ask request for some Undertaker from Kuroshitsuji so here it is!

Undertaker, where we do begin. Not only do you help lost souls who are ready to move on, you also help their families who are trying to deal with their passing (and that’s not even counting the Phantomhive line). There’s great fun to be had in giving people a little rush of fright. It can make them appreciate the moments they have with loved ones more, wouldn’t you say? I do have to ask that you save your experiments for people who have consented to medical research postmortem, however, but isn’t it such a great thing that there are so many people who do?

~Mod F

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There doesn't seem to be much love for trollkin, mostly due to a complete lack of anyone willing to admit that they are trolls. Can you make a positivity post for a lonely forest troll?

There are lots of different kinds of trolls, Anon, and every one of the has something unique about them. I’m a little biased in saying this, but you mentioned forest trolls in particular, so I’ll focus there. I’m not sure what you’re canon is, but it’s very resourceful how you can manage to survive on only what forests provide (even if it is a lot). Know that you have family out there somewhere, even if they’re not the same species of troll that you are. Having respect for the forests you travel in is a great thing, and very much appreciated.

~Mod F

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Hiyya, I was wondering if I could have some positivity for a Harley Quinn with bpd? That would be wonderful, thanks !

Harley! You’re a wonderful, bright and vibrant person. Some people have a hard time understanding you, but you make an active effort to look on the bright side of your situations, and a lot of people out there like you for that. You’re also a survivor, and even when your trauma gets you down, you keep going with a smile on your face because there’s people out there that need to be cheered up, right?

Now I’m no expert in bpd, but! I do know that despite what a lot of folks will try to tell you, you’re not manipulative. You need more attention and validation than neurotypical people, true, but that’s because your brain is wired differently! I know it’s really hard to believe sometimes, but people do love you and care about you!

~Mod Kyubey

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100+ followers!

We’re officially over 100 followers here at pkp! Thank you everyone for your support, we’re so happy to be able to help the community in this way.

~Mod Kyubey

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any chance i could get a bit of positivity for alma coin from the hunger games? thanks~!

Of course! Alma is a very calm and collected person - not much can really shake her up. Even if she has a hard time empathizing with people, she listens and knows how to comfort people when they need it. She’s also a logical person and a brilliant strategist!

Despite what some people will say, there’s a lot of value in being a logical person. You’re not cold and unfeeling, you simply know when to set your emotions aside to get things done! And that’s exactly what Alma does.

~Mod Kyubey

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Closing the askbox for now!

Oh my goodness, we have a lot of requests built up! Until we get some of them put in queue, we’re going to close the askbox. Don’t worry, it’s only temporary! We’re both just really busy right now and need to work on what we already have before accepting any more.

~Mod Kyubey

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Positivity request: Dark Danny/Dan Phantom

Dan is such a cool guy! In just one episode, we find out a lot about him - he’s very driven and determined, and willing to do whatever he has to in order to reach his goals! And he’s got the cleverness and cunning to pull it off, too. He’s also still got a sense of humor, as well as a flair for the dramatic. In fact, he throws his all into everything he does, and he does it with style!

He also has a very good sense of what’s important to people, which would make him a great friend if he wanted to put his mind to it. And even when he’s defeated, he doesn’t go quietly! He puts up a fight all the way and doesn’t let himself stay down about it.

~Mod Kyubey