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This might suck to hear, but if you’re a people pleaser that is motivated by praise and avoids disagreements, you are easy to manipulate.

When I was in therapy after surviving years of domestic violence, my therapist had to tell me that my personality was primed for abuse and we needed to work on that so I would be better equipped to see the red flags and respond appropriately in the future.

I’m still working on this, and it’s been 8 years. If you tell someone how you want to be treated, what behaviors you don’t tolerate in your life, what you’re looking for in that relationship, and they react negatively, don’t compromise yourself. Just move on.

This one’s for all the praise-kink girlies: differentiate, self-actualize, stay sexy

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Who the fuck needs Tumblr anymore I'm just going to be looking at lamp posts from now on

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its so fucked up how difficult it is to move to another country you shouldn’t need a reason or anything you should be able to show up at the border and be like “the vibes were off back home” and they should let you in

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The best ships are the ones where they have been divorced about five times but always end up back together because they're both dumbasses in love

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Reblog if your icon

would fight 10 men at once

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girlhood is touching your necklace whenever you feel nervous

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i hate when i send someone a meme in another language and they're like "uhm... translate? 😒" fucker i sent you a meme where 90% of the words have an english cognate and/or you don't need to know what they're saying to find it funny. can you at least TRY

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please put a normal post on my dash xoxo /lh

i dont know you and thus do not care. penis blast attack

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omg have we got synced cycles at the moment!! lmao

blood and pain and misery for the both of us 🤝 (/silly obvs i hope you're doing okay)

Omg no wayyyyyy thats so fun!!! We can bleed and suffer together!!

(Yeah I'm doing ok, I'm past the first few days now so it's a bit easier)

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The devastating difference between how much time it takes to write something vs how fast people read it lol

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Periods are so stupid you're telling me I have to be miserable and leaking blood and I cant even have a hot vampire boyfriend who can benefit??? The fuck who designed this shit

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purge of 2002? of 2012? what ARE those?

Oh, how quickly the past is forgotten. 

They are part of the reason A03 is a thing now. Not the whole reason, but part of it. 

The Great Purges of 2002 and 2012 are when ff.net got a wild hair up their ass about THINK OF THE CHILDREN and nuked any fic posted on there that was explicit. Thousands upon thousands of nc-17 smutfics were lost.

It’s what led to the creation of alternate hosting sites for smutty fic…AdultFanfiction was the one I went to…but thousands of fics would never be recovered. 

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guy who makes a spreadsheet to figure out if his crush likes him back

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It makes me happy when they listen