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Not that it wasn’t a part of the case in January, but now that some of the topics have died down or been resolved, what is left is a pure and straightforward blackmail.

And some people still treat it as some sort of entertainment or fuel for their hate agenda. And unfortunately, I’m not even surprised.

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There are things I say to my partner in the privacy of our living room when I’m blowing off steam that I would never in my life say to friends or other family members or bosses or work colleagues or fellow community members. I do this not because I’m two-faced but because I’m human. I get frustrated, but I’m also a grownup who realizes that my frustrations and fears in that moment are not the entirety of who I am. I have a right to express them, but I do not have the right to inflict them on the people who would be hurt by them. That’s why those conversations happen in private, in a safe space of trust, where my relationship allows me to show my partner parts of me that aren’t perfect and allows my partner to show me that I don’t have to be perfect in order to deserve to be cared about. I get support through my petty moments until I can be a better person.

This latest attack on Build is a horrifying violation of privacy and trust that leaves me feeling literally nauseated. I once again reiterate that I don’t trust third-hand amateur fan translation to be accurate and contextual, particularly given the provenance of the material, but Build himself is apparently distressed enough by at least some part of the material to make a public apology. So, that being out there, I will say: This was a private matter that should have stayed private, out of respect for everyone involved. Whatever was actually said is nobody’s business except Build’s and now, unfortunately, any named individuals who this was inflicted on and who may have been hurt by it. Which, rest assured, was the intention - to hurt not only Build with this, but also, particularly, Apo and Bible, both of whom Poi has shown her dislike of and ill-will toward in the past. I suspect some people also don’t know how abuse works, and it shows, given that what was purportedly said is a reflection of Poi’s own views back at her.

Whatever the context, I see that purity cancel culture still insists on freezing people in amber in their worst moments - without recognition of any capacity for change or growth - as long as it provides ammunition for a smug, gleeful Particicution. You’re stuck on some unkind things Build supposedly said more than a year ago? Let me tell you what I’ll remember for the rest of my life: The small, broken sound of Build’s voice just a few months ago as he tried to protect Bible and Bible’s career from a sociopath, in a telephone call that he felt he needed to secretly record as evidence of how he was being manipulated and abused.

Meanwhile, I see that swathes of KP fandom continue to be complicit in Poi’s campaign of public and dehumanizing abuse of him, which now includes not only borderline revenge porn, but separating him from his friends and isolating him. This is what abuse looks like. It’s happening in front of your eyes. Do you even care? Do you actually, legitimately care about abuse, or is it just a tool for you to use to win petty shipwars and make yourself feel righteous? Because here it is. Take a good look. This is a textbook play. And if you’re participating in reposting those screenshots of private conversations and mocking Build’s relationships and spreading vituperative language about him and acting like he deserves to have his life and career destroyed, you’re enabling an abuser. You are aiding and abetting her, as the very scenario she threatened him with - in order to maintain access to him, to keep him under control and compliant - continues to get spun out. YOU are a bully and a hypocrite and an abuser, helping to prove that the most dangerous time for an abuse victim is when they leave.

But I guess some victims do have to be perfect, huh?

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(ETA: 7/18/23, 1520 - This post is being linked on Twitter by @cherryluminary with my permission. I’m not over there, but I increasingly feel like it’s important to name what’s happened, and continues to happen, to Build online as what it is - abuse. Similar to to my last post that breached containment, I’m going to ask people to remember that the behavior of Build’s fans reflects on him - however fair that may or may not be - and should remain above reproach. I understand being angry - I’m angry, and at more people than I’ve discussed publicly, at this point. But if I find out you’ve been descending anywhere near the level of the ugly little sociopath in my inbox who openly admitted they want Build to kill himself, I’ll block you.)

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Category: LIPS

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the lighter

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The case was filed by Build Jakapan and his legal team in February, 2023 and the hearing was expected to happen in May.

May is here and the matter is finally settled in court.

Below are the statements from both Build Jakapan and Poi Patchayamon.

(Credits to __yakibbb on Twt for the translation.)

Few hours to spread the lies or twisted information. Few months to get the truth.

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BUILD JAKAPAN

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💙💙💙💙

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Biu? Who’s Biu?

I know only P’Jakapan.

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build’s new ig post:  Please stay tuned for the upcoming project by my own company.

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everyone SHUT THE FUCK UP it’s time for the Pete show

✨ happy birthday @kissporsche​! ✨

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for @kinnporscheweek day 1 favorite character - pete

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Crazy how many people want characters in fiction to speak and act like they’ve had 20 hours of intensive therapy. Could NOT be me I want these bitches fucked up insane

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VegasPete + text posts for @sapphicblight (pt. 31/35)

bonus:

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Vegas is a good host. for @agendratum

VegasPete + text posts (pt. 32/35)

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VegasPete + text posts (pt.7/8) 

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