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QPR culture is wanting to ask a friend if they want to be in a QPR with me but feeling scared as to what their reaction might be, especially since they have a boyfriend (however, they are polyamourous!!)

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qp crush culture is joking about being their spouse and then wanting to be in a qpr with them but being worried they won't realize you're /srs

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we changed our label to purely platonic recently which is good and we needed to , and i love being their friend , but for some reason i feel shitty and sad and it feels like a breakup even though it isn’t at all and we’re still close , i think

what should i do ?

will the pain go away ever ?

well not to make things sound worse but technically it is a breakup (even if it wasn't romantic) and it makes sense that you're going through a hard time right now. it'll take some time but it will get better! There may not be anything to ease the pain right now seeing these things take time but sooner or later it will be fine

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a very hard qpr culture is remembering that this Saturday is one year from that evening your qpp and you stay awake all night long giggling and talking abt a lot of things. and that after that night you knew that you wanted to be near them and spend more time with them but didn’t understand how or what were you feeling. I can remember their eyes and knowing that I could trust them and wanted to stay just like that for a long time. Just with their head on my lap while we talk or just feel the silence of the dawn.

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Hey! I need a bit of advice

I have this qp crush for a while and they already have one qpp and I know they have another qp crush, do you say I go for it and ask them or do smth else

Thanks for reading this :3

I'd say ask since it appears they're open to the idea of having more than one qpp and may be interested/would want to

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Kinda coming for advice? Idk?

I've been friends with this person for 3+ years, qpps since summer 2023, but my rejection sensitive dysphoria is acting up I think? We've talked before and agreed that we're qp but I've been nervous that they are uncomfortable with it, like I talk about relationship things and the reactions/discussions are brief (though that might be the mutual emotional constipation)

I know they love me and I love them, but I'm kinda scared. We've both been hanging out with our separate friend groups and not talking as much for a while, and I really don't want to make them feel guilty if I bring it up. I think being honest is the way, but I'm really nervous that I'll ruin it or make things awkward. I love them a lot, and want to spend my whole life with them.

I believe being open and honest is the best course of action. let them know that you're worried about such things so you can come to a mutual understanding of the situation

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Looking for a bit of advice, hope that’s ok-

So like I think I have a platonic crush on my friend. I’m aroallo, and I know my friend is definitely ace-spec but I’m not sure what their romantic orientation is (though, they’ve said before that they don’t picture themselves having a romantic partner in the future). We’ve been friends since we were mid teens (we’re both early 20s now), so we’re quite close. We align in most of what we want for the future (like kids, career, living situation etc) so I think we’d work as a partnership quite well. The idea of us being partners has kind of come up before? Once in a joking ‘we could team up and have kids one day’ way, and once in a ‘they had a pregnancy scare and would’ve needed a marriage for religious reasons, I volunteered, but it turned out to not be necessary’ kind of way. I just have no idea how to broach this in a serious, non-emergency way! I don’t want to risk losing this friendship or making things awkward, but our mutual best friend has said I should go for it. I guess I’m just in my head about it. Any words of wisdom to offer? Thank you for your help, and I hope you’re having a fantastic month!

It sounds like just being honest with them is the best way to go. and given you've been friends for so long it's very doubtful they'd get upset over something like this, and worse come to worse they'd likely politely decline

all in all I don't believe there's much to worry about and feel that there is a high likelihood they'll say yes

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online qpr culture is having people call you and your partner online daters when you talk to each other in a game

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qpr culture is struggling to ask your partner and when you finally do you hide behind a screen for 5 minutes because youre too scared to see their reply and they actually say YES!!!

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qpr culture is sending a bunch of posts from this blog to your qpp at 1 am and being so happy you met them 💕 i love you marshmallow!!!

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qpr culture is listening to music and thinking of your partner(s), and sending them screenshots/pics of said song <33

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tw: kisses, hugs

aaaaaaaaaah *sighs** qpr culture is when your qpp text you from the bedroom while you're working in the living room that they got accepted in this crazy cinema master with a full scholarship!! So you can't scream bcs your roomie is in a work call but you go to your bedroom, see them in shock reading and reading the mail, your eyes fill with tears and when you see them in the eyes, they're crying too. You two hug each other and cry of happiness a little bit, you kiss and laugh but still can't scream haha you kiss their forehead and tell them that you always knew that they would get in and that everything is gonna be okay. You read the entire email again and see them, see their smile, their hair, their eyes and can't believe how amazing they are and how lucky you're to be in a qpr with them. You know that they will move away for two years to another continent in four-five months and you will miss them everyday, but everything is gonna be okay, because you bond for each other a lot and everything that matters is this moment.

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Qpr culture is seeing longing posts and looking at your best friend and feeling those feelings platonically for them

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qpr culture is thinking you had romantic feelings for your partner for years and slowly realising it was probably just really strong platonic feelings and now you're in a qpr and it's amazing

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hi there! i need a little bit of help since im new to exploring qpps. i have a squish on my friend, but we've only been talking for about a month. is it too soon to propose a qpr?

of course not ! people can make close connections in small amounts of times so I don't believe that matters

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QPR culture is Missy and Paige from Young Sheldon. It's having that one person you turn to when nothing else makes sense. It's complementing each other even though at times you're wildly different.

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QPR culture is loving your partner so, so much.

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