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I need advice!

What do you do whenever you miss someone so much that it hurts? The memories are slowly driving me insane.

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Answer me this...

What is sex?

Most people’s answers is that it is a connection between two people who truly love each other.

Other people answer that it is what two people do after marriage to have kids.

Then there are the people who say it means nothing or it makes them feel good.

Okay...

When having sex you and another person agree to the risks that come with sex.

What is the most common risk?

Pregnancy

Now there are ways to prevent pregnancy such as:

Condoms

Birth control

Etc

If you use those the risks are much lower.

Now.

If you are a guy and don’t want to use a condom because it doesn’t feel as good or because you don’t want to then you are putting not only putting yourself at risk you are putting the other person at risk.

If you are a girl and you don’t want on birth control or can’t or whatever that is your choice but you are putting yourself and the other person at risk as well.

Guys!

Please wear a fucking condom. Yeah I get it, it may not feel as great but would you rather get an std or get a girl you have no intentions of being with pregnant?

Girls!

Yes birth control is optional and it is totally your choice but please make the guy where a condom. It isn’t the guy who will have to deal with getting pregnant it is YOU. You will have to scramble on figuring out what to about it.

Guys!

DO NOT tell the girl to take plan b or to get rid of it or to get an abortion. That is no longer your choice and you no longer have a say so. Your say so is the condom.

Now if you wear a condom and something still happens then that is completely different and I believe you both should sit down and have a deep talk about it. BUT if you decide not to wear a condom then you are throwing your say so out the window.

Girls!

You don’t have to listen to the guy. If you do end up pregnant then the choice is completely up to you. If he is pressuring you to take it or get rid of it YOU DONT HAVE TO LISTEN TO HIM.

(These are just personal opinions please no hate)

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She will always remember you just not in the way she used to.

Does she still remember me?

Yes of course she still remembers you. She remembers how it felt to need someone so much and for them to not wanna be there. She remembers how it felt to cry herself to sleep because you made her feel like shit. She remembers how it felt to have someone look her right in the eyes and lie to her. She remembers the sadness she felt whenever you would ignore her because you were with side(hoe) and she knew it. She remembers how you never truly fought for her when she needed you to. She remembers begging you to stay but you walking away without a care in the world. She remembers how you made her feel like she wasn’t enough and worthless. She remembers how you never made time for her and blamed it on her. She remembers you and all the shit you put her through. You are no longer what she associates with her life and happiness. You are now the person who taught her to not give someone her all who isn’t willing to give her even a piece of them. She is guarded but 10 times stronger because of you. She yes she remembers you but no longer as someone she loves. You are just part of her past now.

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“Beauty isn’t defined by what you are, it is defined by what you can be”

-R.T

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“Bad bitches don’t cry, we just get even”

Bebe Rexha

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🚫It isn’t your fault🚫

How could he do that to you? How could he hurt the person he swears he loves so much once again? How could he kiss someone else’s lips and run his hands through her hair when he loves you so much? The worst part is that he blamed it all on you and made you feel like shit about yourself even though it wasn’t your fault at all. He has molded you to think he cares and loves you so that you will stay but in reality he is out messing around with multiple other girls while making you feel like shit for having one good guy friend, how the hell is that fair? He continues to hurt you over and over again and when he gets caught he apologizes and you forgive him and hope that it won’t happen again because you truly love him, but what you don’t know is that nothing you do will change him. If he isn’t happy enough with you to stay true to you then nothing with change in the future, it will actually probably get worse. He probably gets joy out of girls who fall head over heels for him that he can use over and over again and them not leave. He degrades you and makes you feel like no other guy will want you. In reality you are perfect just the way you are, you just happen to fall for someone who enjoys trying to make you feel like you aren’t! Don’t stop being yourself just because of someone else. If he truly loves you, he won’t hurt you or try and change you!!