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When it's timr, its's time.

For now, she'd rather be single.

For now, she’d rather be single. There are so many positive things that comes with being single that she’s learned to appreciate. If she’s single, she won’t be cheated on. If she’s single, she won’t be be disappointed. If she’s single, she won’t be taken for granted. If she’s single, she won’t be lied to. If she’s single, she won’t have expectations. If she’s single, she won’t be jealous. If she’s single, she won’t be made to look like a fool. If she’s single, she won’t be all up in her feelings. If she’s single, she won’t be vulnerable. If she’s single, she won’t lose herself. If she’s single, she won’t feel like she isn’t good enough. If she’s single, she won’t be dependent on someone else to make her happy. If she’s single, she won’t be needing anybody to be there for her. If she’s single, she won’t have to deal with stupid arguments. If she’s single, she won’t have to be a part of pointless fighting. If she’s single, she can’t have her trust damaged. If she’s single, she can’t have her heart broken. There are times where it gets lonely, but then she remembers why she prefers staying single in the first place and that’s because she loves herself enough to know what her worth is and she is never settling for anything less than that ever again. So for now, she isn’t in a rush to fall in love. When it’s time, it’s time.

Words by: Teddy Nguyen

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Moving on tip 2: Wag mo siyang i-stalk. Tigilan mo na yung kakacheck ng kung ano anong tungkol sa kanya. Pinapahirapan mo lang ang sarili mo. Sinasaktan mo lang lalo.

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I didn’t lose you, you lost me.

(via vanillacupkhate)

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Let me tell you how to forgive the person who broke your heart.

You forgive them by giving yourself time to heal. This doesn’t happen all at once. This doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a slow progression. You take two steps forward and four steps back. Sometimes it won’t make sense. But you grow a bit stronger, a bit more resilient, every single day. Even if you don’t always see it.

You forgive them by focusing on yourself. Stop pouring your energy into toxicity. You unplug. You unfollow. Practice self-care. Reread your favorite books and go out with your best friends, laughing and remembering how good things can be when you surround yourself with positivity. Tell your broken heart it’s okay to take a break – to remember how to smile again.

You forgive them by removing yourself from the situation. The longer you dwell in it, in the heartache, the more it festers. It’s difficult, but you have to leave it alone. Honor your emotions. Honor your feelings. But don’t keep circling back. Don’t keep obsessing over what occurred. Imagine it like a balloon. Let it float away. Tell it goodbye. It can’t hurt you now.

You forgive them by accepting what they did. That doesn’t mean the pain is erased. That doesn’t mean you suddenly think it’s okay or you’ve let them off the hook. It doesn’t mean they aren’t responsible for their actions or that you’ve forgotten what happened. It just means accepting what’s done is done. It means admitting  there is no rewind button. You can only move forward.

You forgive them by regaining your life. Because there is so much more than just one person who broke your heart.

(Source: thoughtcatalog.com)

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May mga bagay na kailangan mawala sa buhay natin, kase hindi ito para satin.

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“Para sa mga broken hearted”

Mahirap no. Masakit? Kaya mo pa ba?  KAYANIN MO. Wala e, ganun talaga. Kung kelan ka nagseryoso. Kung kelan handang mong ibigay ang lahat. Tsaka ka iiwan. Hindi madali. walang madali. Wala kang ginawa, kundi umiyak ng umiyak. Hindi ka makakain dahil wala kang gana. Halos mawala ung saya na meron ka nung naghiwalay kayong dalawa. Pero ganun talaga e, kaylangan mong taggapin na may mga bagay na hindi pang habang buhay. May mga bagay na akala mo iyo na, pero hindi pa pala, na may mga dapat tayong matutunan sa masakit na paraan. Sa ngayon, kung nasasaktan ka pa. Iiyak mo lang yan. Hindi masamang umiyak. Pero pagtapos nun, bumangon ka na. Tumayo ka na. Magsimula ka ulit, hindi madali. Masakit! OO, pero hindi pwedeng habang buhay kang ganyan. Kailangan mong malaman na madami pang magandang dahilan para tumuloy ka sa laban ng buhay. Lahat ng sakit at lungkot  na nararamdaman mo. Mapapalitan yan ng tunay na kaligayahan pag dating ng panahon. Mahahanap mo din yung tao na para talaga sayo. yung taong hindi ka iiwanan. yung taong magmamahal sayo ng tunay. Hindi pa sa ngayon. pero pagdating ng tamang panahon. Isang araw magpapasalamat ka na lang sakanya. Dahil mas nakita mo ung tunay na halaga ng buhay.LABAN LANG. TULOY LANG TAYO. GOD HAS A BETTER PLAN.

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Piliin mo yung taong pahahalagahan mo, para di ka masasaktan bandang huli.

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“Para sa taong MINAHAL ko, pero INIWAN ako”

Hindi ko akalain na dadating sa punto na iiwan mo ako. Hindi ko inaasahan ang mabilis na pagbitaw mo. Hindi ko lubos maisip na iba na ang mahal mo. Mahirap tanggapin na pag gising mo isang araw, gusto mo na AKONG  mawala sa buhay mo. AKO na handang ibigay lahat sayo. Ako na nagmahal sayo ng totoo. Ako na kaya tanggapin lahat ng meron ka . Ako na handa kang samahan sa mga pangarap mo. Ako na kahit puro mali ang nakikita ng iba sayo, nakikita pa din ang kabutihang nasa loob mo. Ako na naniniwala sa kakayahan mo. Ako na ang gusto lang ay mapaganda ang kinabukasan mo. Ako na masaya kapag masaya ka. Ako na mas higit na nasasaktan kapag nasasaktan ka. Ako na suportado ka sa lahat, maliban na lang sa mga bagay na alam kong hindi maganda ang maidudulot sayo. Ako na sobrang pinagmamalaki ka sa mundo. Ako na kayang hawakan ang mga kamay mo sa harap ng maraming tao. Ako na kayang sabihin sa lahat na ikaw lang ang mahal ko. Ako na handa kang patawarin paulit ulit. Ako na tinanggap ka pa din kahit minsan mo na kong niloko. Ako na hindi sumuko kahit napapagod na. Ako na hindi bumitaw kahit ayaw mo na. Ako na nagmakaawa wag ka lang mawala. Alam kong may pagkukulang pa din ako at hindi ako perpekto, pero kahit minsan hindi kita sinukuan. Ngunit ikaw, ang bilis mong bumitaw. Walang alinlangan kang umalis, lumayo at tumalikod. Walang pag dadalawang isip nang sabihin mo mismo sa harapan ko na hindi na ako ang iyong gusto. Walang bakas ng sakit ang makikita sayo nung mga panahong pinagtabuyan mo ko. Ngayong masaya ka na sa iba, isa lang ang hiling ko. Kung sakali man na maisip mo lahat ng ginawa mo. Wag ka ng mag abala pang bumalik o humingi ng tawad. Hayaan mo na ako. Dahil kahit mahirap, kahit masakit, kahit nakakamatay. Iniwan ko na din ang mundo na minsan nating binuo. Umalis na din ako sa lugar kung saan ako’y iniwan mo. At ngayong nagpapatuloy na ko sa aking buhay ng wala ka. Sana wag ka ng bumalik. Pero kung sakaling magtatagpo man ang landas nating dalawa, gusto kong titigan mo ko  sa aking mga mata, nang makita mo na kaya ko ding maging masaya kahit wala ka na.

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She wasn’t bitter. She was sad, though. But it was a hopeful kind of sad. The kind of sad that just takes time.

The Perks of being a wallflower. (via thebeardygay)

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Kapag alam mong mas lamang na ang sakit sa pagmamahal, bitaw na.

(via baekebyan)

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Kahit kailan hindi pagiging selfish ang subukan mong maging masaya.

Bitterenaryoako to a message sender. (via bitterenaryoako)

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Hanggang dito na lang.

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it’s Pay back time :)

Its my turn to be happy. 

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Wag kang maghanap ng tamang TAO kundi maging TAMA ka para sa tao.

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I won’t regret that I once loved you. But I need to forget how I loved you.

Thoughts of Dessa (via iamdes)

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Bago mo bitawan, isipin mo muna kung sigurado ka na ba talaga. Baka kasi balang araw magsisi ka. Mahirap na. Sya MASAYA na sa iba. Ikaw UMAASA pa.

 (Miss M thoughts)