Tips for writing those gala scenes, from someone who goes to them occasionally:
Generally you unbutton and re-button a suit coat when you sit down and stand up.
You鈥檙e supposed to hold wine or champagne glasses by the stem to avoid warming up the liquid inside. A character out of their depth might hold the glass around the sides instead.
When rich/important people forget your name and they鈥檙e drunk, they usually just tell you that they don鈥檛 remember or completely skip over any opportunity to use your name so they don鈥檛 look silly.
A good way to indicate you don鈥檛 want to shake someone鈥檚 hand at an event is to hold a drink in your right hand (and if you鈥檙e a woman, a purse in the other so you definitely can鈥檛 shift the glass to another hand and then shake)
Americans who still kiss cheeks as a welcome generally don鈥檛 press lips to cheeks, it鈥檚 more of a touch of cheek to cheek or even a hover (these days, mostly to avoid smudging a woman鈥檚 makeup)
The distinctions between dress codes (black tie, cocktail, etc) are very intricate but obvious to those who know how to look. If you wear a short skirt to a black tie event for example, people would clock that instantly even if the dress itself was very formal. Same thing goes for certain articles of men鈥檚 clothing.
Open bars / cash bars at events usually carry limited options. They鈥檙e meant to serve lots of people very quickly, so nobody is getting a cosmo or a Manhattan etc.
Members of the press generally aren鈥檛 allowed to freely circulate at nicer galas/events without a very good reason. When they do, they need to identify themselves before talking with someone.
I love when fiction makes the audience feel guilty about their role as the audience. When something fucked up is treated as a joke but later it's recognised how fucked up it was and the audience feels guilty for finding it funny. When a character breaks the fourth wall to plead for help, and you can't do anything so you just watch. And you know that the characters pain isn't real, but they're begging for help and you're not helping because their suffering is entertainment for you
I don't know much about lady Gaga but I saw this clip on my timeline once years ago and since then I've been ride or die. idc. she a real one. I need this energy from more cis folks
you know I really wish I could be a jauntily-dressed little nonbinary fag wearing dark academia vamp-core outfits but the truth is ...I'm way too lazy. I'm pajama nonbinary. I wanna sleep instead