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how did it end (composite 12th house)

aries 12th house

a composite aries 12th house can indicate a relationship that ended due to hidden conflicts, unspoken frustrations, or a gradual emotional drift rather than an outright explosion. there may have been an underlying tension that built up over time, with one or both partners feeling trapped by unresolved issues or subconscious fears. perhaps the relationship carried an air of secrecy or karmic lessons, making it difficult to fully understand why things unfolded the way they did. when the end came, it might have felt inevitable, yet confusing, like an unspoken agreement rather than a decisive break. even after parting ways, there could be lingering feelings of unfinished business, as if the relationship existed in a dreamlike space that never fully solidified in reality.

breakup tropes: slow burn that never caught fire, unspoken goodbye, love lost in the fog, right person, wrong lifetime, invisible wounds, the breakup that never really happened, falling apart in silence, karmic closure (or lack thereof), a love that faded like a dream, unfinished symphony

taurus 12th house

a composite taurus 12th house suggests a relationship that ended slowly, almost imperceptibly, as comfort turned into stagnation or emotional distance. there may have been a deep attachment, making it hard to let go, yet an unshakable sense that something was holding both people back. the breakup could have felt bittersweet, like parting with something once cherished but now weighing too heavily on the soul. patterns of avoidance, unspoken fears, or a resistance to change may have delayed the inevitable, creating a long, drawn-out ending rather than a sudden rupture. even after the relationship was over, the emotional imprint likely lingered, like the scent of a familiar perfume that never quite fades.

breakup tropes: the slow goodbye, holding on too long, comfort over passion, a love that became a ghost, too familiar to feel, fading into the background, the weight of what was, trapped in nostalgia, the breakup that took years, lingering in the shadows of love

gemini 12th house

a composite gemini 12th house suggests that the relationship ended due to miscommunication, mental exhaustion, or a slow realization that both partners were speaking different emotional languages. conversations may have been filled with half-truths, deflections, or distractions rather than deep emotional honesty, leading to a growing sense of disconnection. the relationship might have felt like it was constantly shifting—one moment full of excitement and ideas, the next clouded by uncertainty and unspoken doubts. when the end came, it may have felt both sudden and inevitable, as if the words needed to break up had been hovering in the air for a long time, waiting to be acknowledged. even after parting, there could have been lingering questions, unanswered texts, or a sense that closure was just another conversation away but never truly arrived.

breakup tropes: ghosted by communication, too many Words, not enough meaning, talking in circles, the relationship that felt like a puzzle, unfinished conversations, secrets between the lines, fading in a sea of distractions, too many what-ifs, overthinking killed the romance, love lost in translation

cancer 12th house

a composite cancer 12th house suggests that the relationship ended with deep emotional undercurrents that were felt more than spoken. there may have been an overwhelming sense of nostalgia, longing, or unresolved wounds that made it difficult to fully let go, even when separation became necessary. unspoken fears, past emotional baggage, or subconscious attachments could have created a dynamic where both partners clung to each other yet felt emotionally adrift. the breakup may have been marked by tears, a sense of loss that felt almost familial, or an aching silence where words failed to capture the depth of the emotions involved. even after the relationship ended, the emotional bond likely lingered like a ghost, appearing in memories, dreams, or moments of unexpected longing.

breakup tropes: drowning in memories, a love that felt like home, tears left unspoken, still dreaming of you, a goodbye that never stopped hurting, love that lingered like a ghost, too much history to walk away, carrying you in my heart, falling asleep thinking of you, the love that felt like a lifetime ago

leo 12th house

a composite leo 12th house suggests that the relationship ended with a mix of hidden pride, unspoken desires, and a deep emotional intensity that may have never been fully expressed. there could have been a sense of performing love rather than fully living it, as if both partners were holding onto an illusion of passion while something vital remained unspoken. the breakup may have been dramatic yet strangely quiet, with emotions running high beneath the surface but never fully addressed. one or both partners might have struggled with letting go, feeling as though the relationship was meant to be something grander than it ever became. even after it ended, there may have been an unshakable sense of longing, as if the love story still deserved a final act that never came.

breakup tropes: the silent spotlight, grand love, tragic end, a story left unfinished, the performance of happiness, holding onto the fantasy, unspoken words, unfinished songs, loving you in secret, losing you in silence, the star-crossed goodbye, a love too big to last, left on read, but still remembered

virgo 12th house

a composite virgo 12th house suggests that the relationship ended quietly, perhaps slipping away through over-analysis, unspoken worries, or the slow accumulation of small disappointments. there may have been a lingering sense of imperfection, where both partners felt like something was always just a little off, yet neither could fully articulate what was missing. the breakup may have felt more like a quiet unraveling than a sudden rupture, with one or both people slowly realizing that love alone couldn't fix the underlying issues. practical concerns, unexpressed anxieties, or a fear of vulnerability may have prevented true emotional depth, leaving a sense of regret over what was never fully explored. even after parting, there may have been a nagging feeling of "what if," as if the relationship could have worked if only the right details had fallen into place.

breakup tropes: death by a thousand overthoughts, love lost in the details, trying to fix what couldn't be fixed, slowly slipping away, overanalyzed until it was gone, silence that said everything, waiting for perfection that never came, practicality over passion, a love that drowned in worry, the breakup that felt like a draft, not a final chapter

libra 12th house

a composite libra 12th house suggests that the relationship ended with unspoken tensions hidden beneath a surface of politeness or avoidance. there may have been a desire to keep the peace, even as emotional distance grew, making it difficult to address the real issues. the breakup may have felt indirect, like a slow drifting apart rather than a definitive ending, with both partners hesitating to be the one to walk away first. a sense of longing for harmony and closure may have lingered, yet the deeper emotional wounds were never fully confronted. even after parting, there could have been a feeling that the relationship remained unresolved, like a beautiful but incomplete love story that never got its proper ending.

breakup tropes: smiling through the pain, the polite goodbye, a love too pretty to fight for, drifting apart in silence, avoidance was our love language, dancing around the truth, an ending without closure, too much compromise, not enough truth, the relationship that faded like a dream, still missing you, but too proud to say it

scorpio 12th house

a composite scorpio 12th house suggests that the relationship ended with an intensity that may have been hidden beneath the surface, leaving a lingering sense of mystery, obsession, or emotional entanglement. there may have been unspoken fears, deep emotional wounds, or an almost karmic pull that made the connection feel both transformative and destructive. the breakup may have felt inevitable yet impossible to fully process, as if the bond was severed in the physical world but remained alive in the shadows. secrets, power struggles, or emotional suppression could have played a role, making it unclear whether the relationship truly ended or simply retreated into the subconscious. even after parting, the connection likely haunted both partners, resurfacing in dreams, memories, or an unshakable feeling that something remained unfinished.

breakup tropes: haunted by what we had, the love that never really left, unfinished business, the obsession that lingers, secrets buried, feelings unearthed, love that burned, but never died, goodbye was just a word, a connection too deep to sever, the breakup that felt like rebirth, fated, but not meant to be

sagittarius 12th house

a composite sagittarius 12th house suggests that the relationship ended with a sense of restlessness, unanswered questions, or an unshakable feeling that there was always something more just out of reach. there may have been a deep spiritual or philosophical connection, yet a lack of stability or commitment made it difficult to hold onto. the breakup may have felt like a sudden, inevitable departure—one or both partners realizing they needed to chase their own freedom, even if it meant leaving love behind. there could have been an element of escapism, where problems were ignored rather than faced, leading to a quiet unraveling rather than a dramatic confrontation. even after the relationship ended, there may have been a lingering sense of "what if," as if the story wasn’t over but simply paused for an indefinite journey.

breakup tropes: running from what we could’ve been, a love too wild to hold, always chasing, never catching, wanderlust over commitment, love that slipped through our fingers, the goodbye that felt like an adventure, a connection that couldn't be tied down, too many roads, not enough roots, leaving before it got too real,lost in the search for something more

capricorn 12th house

a composite capricorn 12th house suggests that the relationship ended with a quiet, almost invisible unraveling. there may have been a sense of duty or responsibility that held the bond together longer than it should have, with both partners avoiding the deeper emotional truths that were needed to truly connect. the breakup could have been marked by a slow realization that stability and commitment were no longer enough to keep the relationship alive, but fear of change or failure made it difficult to act. it might have felt like the end was inevitable, yet it was difficult to pinpoint when the love truly faded. even after parting ways, there could have been lingering feelings of regret or guilt, as if both partners were waiting for a second chance that never came.

breakup tropes: the quiet collapse, duty over desire, a relationship built on expectations, stuck in the rut of routine, emotions that went unspoken, the end that felt like failure, too much time spent building, not enough living, an unfinished business we couldn’t face, letting go of what we thought we needed, love that wasn't enough to hold it together

aquarius 12th house

a composite aquarius 12th house suggests that the relationship ended in a way that felt detached, almost surreal, as if it was destined to fade into the background. the connection may have been built on idealistic dreams or a shared vision, but underlying emotional distance, eccentricities, or an inability to truly connect on a deeper level led to its quiet dissolution. there may have been an overwhelming sense of detachment or an intellectualized approach to love that kept both partners from facing the emotional reality of the relationship. the breakup may have been mutual but unspoken, with both parties feeling a sense of relief and confusion at the same time. even after parting, there could have been a lingering sense of unfinished business or unresolved questions, as if the relationship existed in a space outside of time, never truly grounded.

breakup tropes: faded into the background, disconnected in our connection, a love that was more idea than reality, too detached to feel, breaking up without saying a word, the relationship that wasn't built to last, too much space, too little heart, the end that was more of a question, love lost in the ether, unfinished conversations, unanswered questions

pisces 12th house

a composite pisces 12th house suggests that the relationship ended in a way that felt dreamlike, confusing, and almost impossible to fully understand. there may have been a strong emotional or spiritual connection, but underlying illusions, misunderstandings, or avoidance of reality caused the bond to quietly unravel. the breakup might have felt like a slow fade, where one or both partners withdrew into their own worlds, leaving unspoken feelings and unresolved emotional needs. it may have been difficult to pinpoint when the relationship truly ended, as it felt like it was always slipping between fantasy and reality. even after the breakup, there could have been a sense of longing, nostalgia, or an emotional residue that left both partners questioning what was real and what was merely a projection of their desires.

breakup tropes: fading like a dream, unspoken goodbye, too lost in fantasy to see the truth, a love that was never fully grounded, drowning in unanswered questions, the quiet disappearing act, when reality was too much to bear, still searching for something we couldn't name, love that slipped away like water, a story that never fully unfolded

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ravening25 · 2 months ago

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1st House Vs. 7th House

1st House is where you meet yourself.

It is the moment you take your first breath, the way your presence enters a room, the force that propels you forward.

Ruled by Mars, this house speaks of autonomy, identity, and the battle between self-determination and external expectations.

It is the warrior’s ground, where you carve your path, stumble, rise, and forge your own fire.

7th House is where you meet others.

It is the mirror of Venus, the realm of unions, contracts, love, and reflections of the self through partnership.

Here, the world whispers, "Who are you in relation to me?" It is the place where bonds are made, broken, tested, and transformed.

This is the house of agreements, but also confrontations—the home of both love and enmity, where your heart meets its counterpart in another.

Deepest Hurts Of 1st House

The wounds of the 1st house stem from feeling unseen, unheard, or misunderstood in one’s core being. It is the pain of forging an identity only to be dismissed, of standing alone when all you crave is recognition.

It asks, "Can I be loved as I am, without altering myself for acceptance?"

Deepest Hurts Of 7th House

The wounds of the 7th house cut through the realm of relationships. It is the ache of betrayal, the sorrow of loving someone who does not choose you back, the loss of self in the name of love.

It whispers, "How much of myself do I give before I am emptied?"

Behavioral Struggles of the 1st House

1. Struggling with self-assertion vs. people-pleasing.

2. Feeling the need to fight for space, even when no one is against you.

3. Acting impulsively and regretting it later.

4. Fear of dependency or being controlled by others.

5. Viewing vulnerability as weakness.

6. Feeling restless, as if always preparing for battle.

7. A deep need to prove oneself constantly.

8. Unconscious resistance to collaboration.

9. Misunderstanding the difference between independence and isolation.

10. Seeing relationships as threats to personal freedom.

Behavioral Struggles of the 7th House

1. Losing oneself in relationships.

2. Seeking external validation over internal stability.

3. Fearing loneliness and overcompromising.

4. Idealizing love and being devastated when reality strikes.

5. Choosing partners based on what they reflect, not who they are.

6. Holding onto toxic relationships out of fear of being alone.

7. Struggling with boundaries—giving too much or taking too little.

8. Projecting unhealed wounds onto others.

9. Resenting partners but fearing separation.

10. Using relationships as a measure of self-worth.

How to Channel the 1st-7th House Axis in Each Sign

Aries-Libra Axis

Learn when to lead and when to listen. Assert yourself without crushing the beauty of connection.

Taurus-Scorpio Axis

Balance stability with transformation. Hold on without suffocating, let go without fearing destruction.

Gemini-Sagittarius Axis

Speak your truth, but seek depth in the words you exchange. Learn when to wander and when to stay.

Cancer-Capricorn Axis

Feel without fear, structure without suffocation. Embrace both softness and resilience.

Leo-Aquarius Axis

Shine, but not at the expense of others. Honor your uniqueness while uplifting those around you.

Virgo-Pisces Axis

Serve with wisdom, dream with purpose. Merge the mystical with the practical, knowing that both are needed.

.......

This axis is not a war.

It is a lifelong conversation between who you are and who you choose to meet along the way.

A COSMIC VENTURE

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ravening25 · 2 months ago

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Your Mars & The Type of People You Attract Even When You Don’t Want To

Mars in Aries - You want excitement, not constant drama. But somehow, you end up with people who turn every little thing into a fight. They think passion means throwing a tantrum every time something goes wrong. You’re just here for fun, not a warzone.

Mars in Taurus - You’re just trying to find someone steady, but all you attract are people who act like they’re your owner, not your partner. Suddenly, you’re dealing with jealousy, control, and possessiveness when all you wanted was someone to share a peaceful life with.

Mars in Gemini - You want deep convos, but instead, you attract people who can’t even hold a text conversation. They ghost, then come back acting like nothing happened. It’s like dating someone who’s allergic to consistency, and you’re left wondering why you keep doing this to yourself.

Mars in Cancer - You want emotional depth, but all you get are people who either play games or dip out when things get too real. They leave you questioning if they were ever really there in the first place, while you’re over here drowning in feelings they don’t give a damn about.

Mars in Leo - You’re just looking for someone who can match your vibe, but instead, you attract people who only want to be the center of attention and your life. It’s always about them, their ego, their drama. You’re not their sidekick, but they sure treat you like one.

Mars in Virgo - You want someone reliable, but you end up with people who can’t even handle their own life. You’re stuck trying to fix their messes, while they take no responsibility. It’s like dating a walking disaster, and somehow, you're the cleanup crew.

Mars in Libra - You want harmony, but instead, you get stuck with people who can’t be honest about anything. They avoid confrontation, so you’re left guessing if they’re mad or just...too chill? Meanwhile, you’re the one trying to keep things from falling apart.

Mars in Scorpio- You want someone who’s real, but instead, you keep attracting people who think love means power plays and control. It’s exhausting. Every relationship feels like a game, and you’re left wondering if they even care about you or just winning.

Mars in Sagittarius - You want freedom and adventure, but somehow, you always end up with people who are terrified of commitment. They love the chase, but the second you start getting serious, they bail. You’re not a free ride, but they treat you like one.

Mars in Capricorn - You want someone driven, but you end up with lazy, entitled people who just want to tag along. They don’t want to build with you, they want you to build for them. Suddenly, you’re their personal ladder to success. Who knew relationships came with this much work?

Mars in Aquarius - You want someone who gets your weirdness, but instead, you attract emotionally distant people who treat your feelings like an inconvenience. They’re so busy “thinking” about life that they forget to actually feel it with you. You’re not their intellectual experiment, damn it.

Mars in Pisces - You want a soulmate, but instead, you attract people who drain the hell out of you. They love to play the victim, and you end up taking care of them like they’re your responsibility. You keep giving, and they keep taking. How is that supposed to be love?

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Sagittarius ❤❤❤❤

Can I just address how wrong people are about Sagittarians? (As someone who is one and has more than my fair share of Sagittarius friends and acquaintances)

• We are not Tarzans. Wild adventures are NOT everything to us. We are NOT always swaying off branches or jumping off cliffs and airplanes.

• Most of us, however, do enjoy the idea of travelling and exploring different cities and cultures to know more about the world and to admire more of it.

• We do enjoy venturing into the unknown but we are NOT Indiana fucking Jones. ADVENTURING IS NOT OUR ONLY JOB (or a job at all for that matter).

• WE ARE NOT AFRAID OF COMMITMENT. While it is true that most of us roll with the attitude “I’m here for a good time; not a long time,” some of us are actually very ok with committing as long as we’re sure we’ve invested ourselves in something we know will not disappoint us or hurt us.

• We carry the philosophy that life is too large and we never know enough about what’s out there, so exploring different choices and possibilities IS important to us. HOWEVER, if we have found the right person according to us and if they have completely won our trust, it is a ‘go’ for commitment.

• It may shock you that sometimes we tend to overcommit especially when it comes to work, plans and responsibilities. We spread ourselves too thin because we want to do everything and not let anyone down but end up exhausting ourselves. EVEN THEN, a Sagittarius will almost never back away from a promise or commitment. It will be done to perfection.

• It is true that we are extremely touchy and sensitive about our independence, personal space and freedom to be our authentic selves and explore life without any limitation. We do despise bossy or authoritative individuals BUT we are NOT incapable of following rules and authority. Sometimes we just know there is a different or better way to do things and prefer to do things our own way.

• Most of us are ‘big picture’ individuals. We don’t have time for petty nonsense or trouble, and we are ALWAYS planning ahead even though most of our closest people may also not know about it. We may come off as impulsive and (too) quick to make decisions but those who know us will learn to view that as spontaneity and know that we’ve thought of every random possibility in a given situation way ahead of time.

• The other (more negative) half of Sagittarians is even opportunistic and conniving. They will even create the drama if it serves them and they will find ways to cut you if you get in their way. Either way, Sagittarians are go-getters.

• We DO struggle to apologise or cede in an argument. This is because we are objectively right almost all the time but the times we’re wrong: we DO know it well before you have to even finish explaining your point but we’re just a little too stubborn to apologise. It IS a bit of an ego issue :P.

• You CANNOT get them to lose their cool if you’re “that bitch”. We are INDEED human lie detectors and can call bullshit from a mile away. We will very coolly destroy you with facts and truth and that will be enough to put you in your place. In other circumstances, we get angry very rarely but the rare times we do, we rage in an outburst and calm down just as quickly. We don’t hold grudges.

• Sagittarians will be your most generous, trustworthy, honest and loyal friends (if they like you). They have the biggest heart in the room and will go out of their way for people they’ve even just met because they know kindness never costs and will be returned another day, another way. They’re all about the chill and good vibes until someone rubs them the wrong way. In that case, they won’t hate on you but you will just cease to exist for them. Very nonchalant, “very demure”.

• We are way more emotional than we let on. To the outside world, we are a good mix of head and heart BUT only those closest to us know how in our heads we are about the things we care about too deeply. At the end of the day we are passionate, genuine, spiritual, intuitive and soulful people, and little wild and out there.

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ravening25 · 2 months ago

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thailand 🇹🇭

sagittarius sun, taurus moon, aquarius rising, sagittarius mercury, scorpio venus, virgo mars

element: earth 32%

dominant planets: moon & venus

dominant signs & house: aquarius & scorpio & 3rd house

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A secure Aries Rising is confident in who they are, decisive, and independent. They have a lot of self-motivation and energy. They may be ambitious or always on the go.

A secure Aries Moon picks their battles carefully, may be the first to stand up for others, and tries to use excitement, spontaneity, surprises, or adventure to manage conflict rather than just pure aggression. They can be assertive, passionate, and bluntly honest.

A secure Taurus Rising truly attracts. They are genuine in a down-to-earth way. They may strongly identify with a skillset or physical aspect of the self. They approach things carefully and rationally.

A secure Taurus Moon protects their inner security at all costs. They let others get close to them slowly and carefully. They don't get involved with people who make them feel bad or drain them. They have patience with themselves.

A secure Gemini Rising says what's on their mind, uses their talkative nature to their advantage, and is persuasive and entertaining. They lead with a positive curiosity and doesn't question or doubt their intellect or opinions.

A secure Gemini Moon accepts many parts of the self. They are expressive and open-minded. They take joy in learning about the details and quirks of others. They encourage learning and teaching in all types of forms.

A secure Cancer Rising tends to be understanding, approachable, and kind or at least nice. They approach others and the self with compassion. They may be private, reserved, or sensitive but they can also be highly perceptive and intuitive with high emotional intelligence. They may use these strong people skills to get what they want.

A secure Cancer Moon tends to be very empathetic and receptive. They are creative, imaginative, and caring. They can be incredibly loyal, protective, and encouraging towards their loved ones.

A secure Leo Rising is usually very self-expressive and creative. They may be cheerful, entertaining, and/or radiate confidence. They enjoy making others happy or connecting through passion.

A secure Leo Moon has a stable ego and strong sense of self. They usually come off/act genuine, may be generous - especially emotionally, and are also usually honest. Their courage towards individualism and self-expression can inspire others at best and protect themselves during the worst times.

A secure Virgo Rising tends to be friendly, easygoing, observant, and clever. They use their intellect to navigate life and get what they want. Their judgment may be sharp but they tend to be tolerant or level-headed towards others.

A secure Virgo Moon uses discernment and adaptability to protect their peace and mind. Their practicality complements their sensitive side rather than battles it. They are patient, caring, a good listener, and supportive.

A secure Libra Rising stops giving a f%&#. Their honesty comes out but so does their messy or low-key dramatic side. However they are also usually open-minded and may be able to balance logic with kindness. They are highly accepting of themselves and others.

A secure Libra Moon prioritizes their inner peace. They may either be very independent or highly adaptable in relationships, promoting cooperation and compromise among others. They become more decisive and solid in their morals, social standards, and/or goals.

A secure Scorpio Rising "uses their powers for good". They take their time with decisions, is strategic with actions and words, and usually comes off as trustworthy. Their empathy, compassion, and intuition guide them through this world. They can come off deep and/or help others tap into their own depth and emotional processing.

A secure Scorpio Moon may try to help, heal, or empower others often. But protecting and taking care of the self and their loved ones is where most of their energy is put. They hold their cards close not out of fear or bad intentions but out of caution and experience. They are highly linked to their intuition and perception.

A secure Sagittarius Rising is confident in their intellect and/or morals, even better, uses their mind or beliefs as much as they can to reach their goals. They are very brave when chasing after or defending their freedom. A secure Sagittarius ascendant may seem more unhinged than an insecure one... but this comes from a place of realization, raw honesty, and sincerity. They also may have a better chance at developing discipline and focus.

A secure Sagittarius Moon follows their instinct towards passion and purpose. They are secure and solid in their beliefs/morals and may defend or campaign them with zeal. They are more honest with themselves and cultivate more patience and understanding around emotions. They search for wisdom in various ways.

A secure Capricorn Rising understands that you can only focus on what you truly can control in life - the self, your actions and choices. They may focus on growing in confidence and authority in their knowledge, skills, and finances. They don't ever settle for disrespect.

A secure Capricorn Moon is more open to emotional expression and/or sensitivity. They give themselves room to emotionally explore and for introspection. They may keep their inner circle small and close and can still easily have a fear of instability. However they face that fear with their own inner security and endurance.

A secure Aquarius Rising may take their individuality to the extreme, and even if they don't - they will always be themselves proudly and maybe loudly. They share ideas openly and is good at identifying like-minded people. They fight for causes in a realistic and impactful way. They are independent and their charisma, social skills, or high intellect are their biggest strengths to navigate the world.

A secure Aquarius Moon has many long-lasting and/or fulfilling friendships. They highly focus on building all types of relationships. They love to mentally connect but what matters most to them are genuine bonds. They are likely an independent individual and can still be a detached or aloof air placement, but they place themselves or find themselves frequently as the glue, problem solver, or leader of a group.

A secure Pisces Rising is incredibly perceptive and intuitive. They sense... they SEE the unspoken communication or truths in others. They use this advantage to help them approach the world. Their flexibility is also a great strength. They don't fear, shame, or try to hide their empathy and softness.

A secure Pisces Moon does what makes them happy and their loved ones happy. They focus heavily on their inner world and emotions. They allow themselves to just be. Forgiveness, healing, and imagination are their strengths and a secure Pisces Moon does not let others or society diminish this.

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PLUTO, NEPTUNE & URANUS CONJUNCT THE ASCENDANT

(in the natal chart)

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The Ascendant has natural and instinctual level vibes, expressions, reactions and presentations. When an outer planet makes a conjunction to the ascendant, generational themes and background noise is linked to the surface of YOU and expressed out of others. This conjunction influences your natural expression, including your physical features as well as your appearance to others (literal and non-literal). Your perception of yourself and your presentation can conflict once in a while, we’re all human! Your perception of self (and the perceptions other people have of you) can be accurate, somewhat incorrect, or outright inappropriate. Such is life, right? Some folks will miss the mark entirely and some will not… and sometimes people aren’t ready to be accurately perceived .. sometimes they are. Any planet conjunct the ascendant can enhance the chemistry of this ascendant conjunction for better or worse, but when that planet is generational & collective… the chemistry of the combo increases in complexity with an impactful and everlasting responsibility attached… The “for better or worse” effect has a far reach to it and often pedestals you against your human intent and nature.

The nuances in astrology are endless and this post cannot satisfy that for obvious reasons. Hence the focus on the conjunction as moods and scenario examples. The way I word every sentence cannot satisfy every human that reads this. If it clicks, yay and if not, I sincerely hope the work by someone else will! If interested in a personal reading, I offer tarot readings tended to your personal birth chart🤍different cards pertain to different placements and planets not just elements or seasons. I spend 3-5 days walking forests with your chart in hand just to clear and crystallize your intention, the information and eventual messages that show up. I hand write those messages down into notes and card predictions. By the 6th or 7th day I grab the tarot deck and record your reading. The cards are just a part of a greater toolkit of skills pertaining to what I’ve been doing since the 7th grade. Every image in each card imply a Venn Diagram of meanings. Challenging yet rewarding work I love to do. Visit “theseerslounge.com” for all the info and booking options. Click “Tarot Sanctuary”♥️.

First up is Pluto, then Uranus and lastly Neptune. Each post will link to the others. I spend so long writing and synthesizing the information. Its a lot of mental brain activity to sustain and while I loveeeee this, I don’t choose to drain myself doing what i love lol. One planet at a time‼️

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PLUTO ASCENDANT:

(This is in my natal chart)

* purposeful presentation of the self. Impactful presence is felt and projected even if you’re wearing soft tones and fabrics lol.

* People believe you to be strong enough to handle their battles when they are weak. Careful with that.

* If you lived in a trap house… you’d look like the person who’s just visiting and not partaking in the selling and consuming of drugs lmfao. Idk why this is true, it just is. Psychologically you can understand a lost soul, the addictive beyond compulsion spirit, the human without much to live for, etc… Intense Lives are lived intensely. The resilient ones transmute through and beyond their circumstances & severity. Mmmmk—Let’s move on. LOOOL.

* Psychic to peoples traumas and special abilities, others can tap into that and then fail to predict what your life must be. The amount of times i had to keep telling dudes they are incorrect while i was behind the counter being a barista… smh. Other peoples curiosity about investigating your energetic presence can get aggressive and annoying. People are persistant about whatever sticks. OUR IMPACT STICKS (even if you said very little, or were in the room for about 2min total). Plenty times I have walked by a store in a busy part of Minneapolis, Los Angeles, Harlem, Gainesville etc and either a person/s or a car of people peep whatever they think they see and begin to follow or chase after me. LITERALLY. For blocks on end …. I wish I was making this ish up foreal. You can be doing basic errands just being saucy self and people are triggered to make a move. Period.

* The penetrative focus behind our eyesight. Let’s get this point handled shall we? It’s not really about the eyes being perceived as sexy, cool, or attractive. It’s more about how we stare/notice AS WELL AS what compels the other person/s to express anything about your eyes in the first place. The energy behind your eyes compels, awakens, demands, urges, crawls up to the surface of their skin… has anyone said “im getting goosebumps right now wtf are you doing?” Or “are you even human?!” Or “where do you come from??” Your power is unmoving and bold, as are your instincts. Do your best to be mature and resilient with this power.

* The underworld of psychological and emotive motivations/pains are typically unstuck or triggered to escape when people (personally known and unknown to you) lock eyes with you and actually let themselves see you seeing them. One time I was at a college football banquet to support my husband and the level of sexual commentary from old ass men trying too hard to pull my body into theirs when all that had to be done was a simple handshake was truly despicable. Out loud I had to voice multiple times in the moment of these hand shakes “NO THANK YOU” as im trying to say “hello nice to meet you” the irony of it not being great to meet any of them was just…. Lmfaooooo wth. Stuff like that will occur in alignment with the eyesight thing. There is no such thing as a pluto ascendent being able to mind their business if eye contact occurs. People will not forget you. Total strangers will call you memorable during their first and only time meeting you. So, eyesight and the eyes… That’s what’s really happening. When the barista asks you how you’re doing, you answer foreal but also wanna legit know how they’re doing! Thats lovely but it can throw folks off. They remember it long-term when this eye contact is involved is what im saying… it’s not because your eyes were an oceanic blue. The color just gives a physical description to add to their emotional and psychological experience of energy. And trust…. When the moment is over and you’re gone from that environment… you’ve become a story told to others. Accept the power you possess. Others will underestimate it for you. Believe in your essence. Its major.

* Anywaysssssss….. Lots of projections of what your eyes say to others inside their own perception in the very moment can cause unwanted physical/verbal stalking, abuse and harrassment… that part sucks. Familiarize yourself with the law. Highly recommend. Document extreme mistreatment and threats etc… keep your own records. Be clean with your taxes and business arrangements. Get job promisses in writing. Stuff like this can make the weight of the world a tad less heavy and moreso just annoying. I just wanna remind people that this country has a legal system not a justice system. So, if you provide the evidence in court or even just at your local hotel job or something… it doesn’t mean they’ll care about or hold the perpetrator accountable. Choose wisely when to speak the truth and facts.

* We must learn to rely on our backbone in a way that doesn’t feel like we’re withstanding massive damages. This placement involves the unfathomable. So, emotionally we need to REALLY CARE ABOUT HOW WE FEEL when life gets psychologically insane. When we stand tall, backbone strong and all, saying No hits different. Removing ourselves from chaos makes chaotic waves in new motions. There’s no way around this power we possess. Accept it. Be real about being you! And if you don’t know what that is yet, choose to learn about the subconscious and go from there.

* Obviously sensitive to projection because it’s incessant and intense and dramatic. So, it takes time for Pluto Ascendants to hold back the projections and communicate the deeper observations. The —as unbiased as possible— type of observations are closer to the truth even if your personal hardships relate. Use your intuition to discern when to emotionally support the observations because unfortunately those ones can come across as projections. I suggest asking questions to the people who never ask you any questions but have plenty of opinions about you lmao.… there are bolder ways to stand up for yourself but the subtle plays are effective too when you’re just not in the mood to teach.

* Yapping opinions from judgmental people with sticky insecurities hoping your irritation will soothe the noise in their hearts. Roll your eyes to the bait. Keep it saucy. Suggest they oughta use their ears next time they wanna run away from themselves around a stranger lol and then walk away, turn the corner, jump in the uber and ride out (or not lol. Idk. Read the room hahahaha). The opposite vibe can happen too but it quickly turns from positive interest into personal obsession.

* Pluto Ascendants casually say dark truths for the sake of clarity around casual-low intensity environments or social spaces (like a coffee shop or library). They are the ones who hold a conversation of depth or opt out entirely in casual spaces like that. Of course, that can be incredibly awkward and even unwarranted, so per usual master your sight-skills and scan the vibrations accordingly.

* Pluto Ascendants see through, but it takes a sincere effort to discern the rooms and which words to choose for proper expression. It also takes devoted attention to learn your own chemistry with this type of ability.

* Remember… on the surface, the planet with the most erratic orbit and the longest journey around the zodiac, hard to find on a telescope and unseen by the human eye from earth… is a generational vibration aligned with you on a basic human level. That’s a large sized responsibility full of implications to be born into… keep your heart centered.

* Develop your own lingo … little sayings or sentences you can say to yourself in your head when life is showing you dark truths and dishing out harsh obstructions. Transform the cards you were dealt by surrendering to the subconscious truths that inevitably seek to become conscious. This is a skill to master all your life. You’ll get better and better! This is what makes others feel safe about such an uncanny mood. Imagine someone decides to learn you vibrationally without uttering many words… and then you never see them ever again. Thats your impact. That your energetic capability out here in your own life, not just others!! Once you pact yourself this way, other people trust this uncanny ability to love without needing much from others at all.

* Trust is all we really need.

* This placement is a configuration in my chart expressed and aspecting in its own layered way like anyone else with this pluto conjunction to the ascendant so again, take this with a grain of salt, but for me during my twenties it got to a point where i refused to perform poetry on stage unless i was up to the task of withstanding the daggers in other peoples eyes if my poem was enjoyed by others. Envy is a big problem with this placement. So, even if you’re minding your business being kind, using your manners etc…. It wont stop a person or a group from going full mean girl mode. Its not about you but its directed at you. And its INTENSE. PSYCHOLOGICAL WARFARE LEVEL OF BS. whats my point? Know yourself as deep as you can and let that prepare you and tell you if you wanna be in public or not. Theres plenty aspects to lofe that require us to be in public. Pluto ascendants do not naturally glean in the direction of being outside too long, but if we wanna be we wanna blend in. Hilarious. We stand out. Only way we hide is if we literally hide and even then our presence gone is felt. Our presence present is felt. Hence the psychological impact of Pluto. Always in full effect.

* People wanna dominate or possess your energetic imprint. They low key would make an elixir of you if they could, for potency purposes. Understand that this is the power within, not always a disadvantage at all times, but when it is that experience is incredibly disrespectful and draining. Constant commentary about pluto, not you. Very frustrating. Pluto is the unseen, feared and unexplored realm of the underworld…. try to love this conjunction for its value. It will take time because the experiences of a Pluto Ascendant are extreme. Eventually, from withstanding and living through ridiculous degrees of power imbalances in the regular settings humans can possibly be in, we become attuned to our own capabilities and invaluable influence. Others can fear our empowered sense of truth and awareness all they want—it will not vanish just because a threat is present. I’m sure you’ve noticed the demand from the soul to either transform or surrender when the trauma hits the fan and life gets dangerous.

* We are seamless with the night. On a primordial level like the Goddess Nyx. And even still, that depth pf presence and power is incredibly clear in a sharp penetrative way. All encompassing upon the rooms and homes and buildings you enter. It will be natural for other human beings to feel startled by that if they aren’t regularly around this kind of energy. The reactions can get nuts. Please don’t let this control your psychological health. It will be hard sometimes to reject that instinct to wanna give up knowing you are able to transform, knowing your soul demands transmutation. I believe in you!!!

* Sexual implications for your tiniest bodily movements is involved with how you’re seen and understood and thought of after people meet you. This becomes known to you through close friends who finally tell you what they thought before they actually decided to learn you over the course of five years lol. Whatever they say is a bunch of bullet point descriptions for the planet PLUTO, every. single. time. Aaaaand im sure you’ve rolled your eyes and come up with things to say when its not your friend and instead its a customer you have to serve at your job. Yeah…. Customer service jobs for pluto ascendants is too much… unless you can work in a back room, emphasis on privacy… but still, that job will require your Plut ascendant vibes to be at the meetings, to handle customer complaints…etc.

* Continuing the sexual mood point: people visualize their desires and your outward look being involved with their fantasies in whatever manner they see fit. And thats not the same as consent… think ive made my point there.

* Many will fear being vulnerable and understood for those vulnerabilities ( or their hidden desires) because pluto is a very -matter of fact- vibration, which can come across judgmental. Sooo yeah… LOOK: you are able to call this out in impressively accurate ways, but it’s tricky to not feel sexualized by peoples gaze and personal need to make you into a useful object for their impersonal urges. So, again… it’s not the vibe you’re trying to call out if your plans for the night involved waiting in line at the Los Angeles Poetry Lounge for example or the Comedy Store parking lot… It’s dehumanizing to deal with this anywhere. Do rest assured that other reactions aside from that also exist and can be exuberantly positive and empowering!

* Your safety is worth investing in. Do what you need to do. We face our own abyss, meanwhile the ugly abyss within others is expressed whenever wherever by whoever.

* Pluto Ascendants can shaman themselves but do not seek to shaman others. We’d rather show how and help you shaman yourself.

* Pluto Ascendants, your presence is one of your main currencies. Muse level income. Someone gets fixated onto your attributes, which never seem to vanish. This is your Evergreen quality. Learn about it with humility and curiosity. It’s strongly felt and can influence the collective subconscious on this planet… and it happens across your lifetime.

* transforming self-image every 3, 6 or 9 months is a tendency here. You don’t plan it this way hut it still happens.

* Fears projected onto you because of Pluto + Asc = magnetic influence upon the outward expression of you (even if you’re shy and only speak when you feel moved to do so). Others perceive your power with the following adjectives: strongly, richly, powerfully, intensely, magnetically, secretively, piercingly, sexually, etc…

* Lack of safety and an abrupt demand from source to depend on surrendering is often your only option as a pluto ascendant. This is a main lesson of faith in that which created all, Source/God etc.

* Rely on your inner will when you experience damaging circumstances. Pluto is on display, exactly where it seeks to NEVER BE.

* Your transformative abilities are strongly doubted at first before believed.. or otherwise misunderstood and envied.. such a dumb combo because if a person doesn’t understand your power per-se, envying it is likely motivated by that ignorance… making these types of enemies the easiest to deal with in the long run. The manipulators with big money are harder to battle, but yall know that already. Remember those adjectives I mentioned? Magnetically envied… secretively envied… sexually envied… powerfully envied etc. Its greaaaaaat🙄🙃😌😴

* TRAUMA ASCENDANT ****proceeds to sigh for the next 8 years***… look, we get through the curveballs and plot twists but again… its themes of power and powerlessness… it’s not usually a shocking realization, but the experiences surely can be!! Included is more-so a subconscious bubbling you’re increasingly nudged and bothered by, but cannot create the solution or safety/protection fast enough to bob and weave around the shock because its ON THE ASCENDANT… like — out in the open…. And obvious lmfao.

* We are private people who are often needed by people in a public way. Let me try to describe this more… the collective shadow affects your temperament even if you’re in a wonderful mood upon meeting folks… people want the occult wisdom but are distracted by the appearance of your presence… so the depth is lost like THAT *snaps finger*… by the flick of a wrist dahling… gone. The impact of what you were needed for then becomes this slowwwwwwww subconscious catalyst within other people. Your “help” to others is often something they cannot thank you for until years go by and thats only if they actually make the effort to find you and tell you. And if they are able to tell you, its because they made what was subconscious, conscious. This is why it makes a massive impact on Pluto Ascendants to be acknowledged for their contribution to other peoples spiritual development or otherwise maturity of self-worth. ….. Hence the isolation if you’re doubting your contribution when others lean on you and need you…and if these particular people are ones who awake to their power hut forget your part in their development… it adds to that isolation. Pluto fishes out insecurities so easily, within you and not just other people. Just do your best babe🩵. Energetic masters of essences to an acute degree is what you’re capable of. Facing deep complexities from the front end, without turning your back to it all, is the courage involved with feeling afraid while overcoming adversity of the Plutonian kinds. Your own power and that of others need the expertise of whatever you master along your lifetime. Peep those abilities and ask yourself if they could actually help society. On a generational level, its natural for Pluto Ascendants to wake up to these ideas and realize they’ve been exhibiting necessary skills in a random array of naturally developed situations you find yourself in… ever since birth. Lol. Its kinda nuts.

* People who accurately see you will recognize and validate your sheer depth of introspection. This level of recognition had a metaphysical and physical impact upon you. Let’s get real, that is a type of beauty beneficial to any human of any societal, racial and economical background. PERIOD. I hope you meet or know people like this in your lifetime.

* Your natural instincts stem beyond the human body…yet express through a human body. Outer Planetary MOOOOOODS ‼️

* SMOKEY QUARTZ. BLACK OBSIDIAN. BLACK TOURMALINE. GET SOME OF IT.

* The empowered and disempowered dark side of other people come out easily when you’re around. It is draining… it is sometimes comical if you can french exit the scenario.. but ultimately it’s mostly an aspect you acknowledge and do your best to pivot from. Period. Unacknowledged and hidden complexities within other people come out in front of you in these streets, literally. Example: a bold threat to harm you in a way that is tied to pluto is something you’re familiar with from strangers regardless of the city or country you’re breathing in. It’s not all bad but its importsnt for people to understand that being seej sexually or magnetically has various consequences. And some of them are very sketchy, life threatning or overall vampiric in terms of the outcomes. Now, lets say you’ve explored your own experiemces with powerlessness and trauma and fears/fear of death etc… wonderful, and hats pff to you sincerely—what you’ll notice is that people will do what they will do. And your ability to evolve regardless will help you decrease the percentage of that bs happening but nonetheless, these heavy and intense consequences will hit you in the crossfire, mostly from an unconscious place inside other people. Also there are hidden positive aspects pf power within other people that basically want your presence to validate their journey of difficulty or trials of tribulations gone rogue.

* People whisper about you in corners you can fully see and hear LOOOOOL. Uou predict the behaviors of these people because you understand desire for what it is. Read people like a book, but keep it impersonal as possible. Everyone is low key sensitive. People will say you’re judgmental and standoffish too, and maybe you are but its how you pierce through the shields and walls that people put up. Hence the intimidation factor involved with this lacement. It can feel intrusive and intimidating to be read if the receiver of your observations is not the most self-aware person… sooo ya know. Try to remember few words can do the trick and even a few can be too much if its at the wrong time lol.

* We tend to expose ourselves to ourselves privately as well as during deeply personal one-on-one moments with friends/trusted people… so that’s a permeating vibe that moves strangers to tell you their deepest pains and secrets (often its a Chiron level wound begging for to be perceived earnestly). Thats all well and good if you’re a licensed therapist with the training and bandwidth for alla THAT from strangers but even still… too much. It’s too damn much to transmute from utter strangers so abruptly… to forgive the collective subconscious that often when you’re just trying to walk to and from the grocery store. This, for example, is why I do not offer free personal tarot-astrology readings or in-person readings. I used to give this way endlessly for years and had plenty of realistic reasons for why I never charged a price lol. I became disempowered with the belief that I wasn’t losing anything by helping others, while others were empowered by the quality of my give helped catalyze their needs to emerge and be invested into.

* We dramatically affect others in polarizing ways we can rarely control…for better or worse. If someone around you is insecure and im desperate need for money, the assumption is that you have what they need— that assumption, true or not, usually becomes a part of your life experience. As a pluto ascendant myself.. during the most financially strained times in my life when i had nothing more than $80 bucks in my account working two or three jobs, STILL my appearance/frequency/projection had people CONVINCED I WAS RICH AND WEALTHY. I treat myself best I can regardless of income at any time no matter what and thats what these people were tuning into yet they could not allow themselves to see it accurately. This is the Pluto effect. So for example… People I have never met would demand over Instagram DM’s that I help them financially but I could barely feed myself or even pay my bills on time… This also happened in person too.. and those examples are more scary and life-threatening… when a plutonian says no i aint got it like you keep believing i do… they usually aren’t elated about it. I have dangerous stories to share, but this is tumblr…. so peep the podcast if you’re interested! (The Seers Lounge on Apple & Spotify)

* Pluto Ascendants are soul driven from this demand that needs them to learn the lesson the first time, idk why but damn the second, third, fifth, eighth time learning the same lesson can reek permanent havoc on your temperment, aura, emotional awareness and psychological health. Yes of course we transform theough these things but pluto plays ZERO GAMES. Pluto is the Soul. Be in alignment with it. Surrender to it. Let it be your source of will, energy and faith.

* Pluto Ascendants isolate themselves to recover from their own and other peoples truths that are often darker than disbelief. Again, this is why as a Plutonian, that boundary I placed for tarot-astrology readings is for everyone’s best interest lol, not just my own. Do not outsource your power for profit, it will catch up with you.

* We are terrifying when angry. Stone cold face vibes. Frozen lake face. Winter Tundra aesthetic lol… kay —-moving onnnnnnnn….

* Have you ever lived in a trap house?

* Have you ever been roommates with humans addicted to hard drugs…?

* Have you ever lived around the muck while you were busy transforming out of it?

* Rushing the lesson is like holding hands with a cloaked devil, you’ll never know when you’re sinking, breathing all the while.

* Aight enough dark ish…. Your will power is unmatched and invaluable. Awaken to this fact as you see fit (hopefully not too abruptly or violently) and offer this part of you when your soul says YES or GO to something/someone/some place.

* People feel the energy behind the truth you tell. This is one of the first lessons we learn in life. Your delivery of the words you speak will add or take away from the value of the message. Sometimes other people can choose to not be personally offended by the tone/delievery/diction we choose when telling or showing the truth, but just keep in mind that most are already polarized by your presence (positively / negatively) so… it helps us AND the other person to learn how to kindly word our piercing observations lol.

* Soul Demands. Listen to the them. Act accordingly. You experience consequences quickly.

* Learn how to direct the thoughts you tune into toward win-win outcomes if possible. I know its hard but whewwww THIS HELPS OUR PSYCHES FEEL LIBERATED ENOUGH TO ALTER FOR THE BEST. its gonna feel like you’re endlessly bob and weaving crazy scenarios back to back… layers of them… Pluto is direct, higher martian energy yanking on your root chakra to shake hands with your backbone and handle the difficulties.

* Pluto Ascendants pivot through psychological transformation. Make it count because the ones who count you out believe in your power the most. Period.

* You are capable of changing your beliefs, faith in tact and unmoved by the changes.

* We could portray obsessive compulsive vibes… of thats true try your best to learn about that and make a change that fits your needs.

* Kaali Ma mood. Death Card in the Tarot mood. No patience for the spirit of evil. Spark the desire for initiation within others, but in ways that empower the person to do so from within themselves instead of depending on your personal power for direction.

* You shine brilliantly in the most tragic of circumstances, so imagine the impact you have when the circumstances are at ease and peacefully calibrated.

* Your natal chart has a “plutonian instrument alien construct” in it aka Pluto conjunction to the Ascendant. This wording I quoted is the work of Edwin Steinbrecher and Stephanie Jourdan. Google “higher self communications Plutonian Instrument” and go from there. 🤍💙🩵🩶. You’ll likely feel seen and validated and maybe even pleasantly surprised ! Who knows(: According to them: “Plutonian Aliens transform raw energy into a higher form or vibration as in the Rumplestiltskin fable of spinning straw into gold Plutonians also assist others cross over at death. They also help younger aliens learn the ropes of coping with the needs of the alien pattern planet.”

* Pluto Ascendants are courageous while feeling afraid. This is an encouraging presence to be supported by… orrrr this can feel kinda overbearing. Just mind your words and tone lol. We deal with sensitive information. It’s a lot to carry when we are in our middle school age into our twenties. Try to remind yourself to pause and pick your words and tone as wisely as possible. Its a lot of responsibility to be the one everyone relies on subconsciously, especially when they know they’re doing it but haven’t changed this habit yet.

* Your presence triggers repressed needs in other people. You are that pillar even when you’re not even ready to be. Tricky trickyyyyyy—Others see immesurable strength in you and do not always respect where YOU are at… sometimes other people do not consider your humanity and just rock with their perception of your soulful strength—this is extremely fristrating especially from strangers. It gets deep, wuickly and isn’t always appropriate… imagine this vibe coming from an uber driver or the bartender or something. Its unwarranted and annoying even if you disregard the inaccuracy of it lol. Shiiiiiit its annoying even when they’re right because it’s not always the time to be all deep when you’re trying dance in the club or something Lmaooooo. Like, CHILL. but also your whole demeaner is an icy version of chill so at some point someonody is asking you “are you ok?” Orrr “whats wrong?” Orrrr “you don’t have to be so negative”… lololol itll be more extreme than this but im trying my best to keep this somewhat censored!

* Basically… Pluto Ascendants do not enjoy being unseen in this public way. Theres no chill. Smh hahaha. Relish the moments when you are seen factually and truthfully. Soak those moments in. Create a life from that feeling. Let your mood change. Eventually the thoughts you tune into will shift your hourly experience of being a soul on this earth instead of it always being of powerful benefit to others.

* Ok ok… sigh. I always keep going….. one more thing!!!! PEOPLE DEVELOP INAPPROPRIATE OBSESSIONS WITH WHATEVER THEY THINK YOU ARE. Determine your non-negotiables in this life full of lifetimes. Consider your boundaries around how you share wealth, income, positive advancement in the areas of any material gain. This can be things as simple as taking a selfie on a velvet couch and next thing you know people are acting different for the first time in 4 years lol. They’re not happy you get to have what they want or perceive to be expensive or whatever. It implies something about your currency flow. Remember, your current is your currency. Take selfies in empty rooms lmfao. Experiment with this and find out for yourself! Be safe out there.

* Maybe learn a physical health exercise you enjoy that helps you feel good instead of taxed lol. Pluto is the higher octave of Mars. Sweat the skin. Heal the bones. Nourish the soul.

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Astrology Observations

•all of these are purely my own observations and opinion.•

TW: mention of body issues and dissociation

Leo Risings almost always have some sort of body issue trauma or confidence issues.

Libra Mercurys when meeting people all have this certain type of awkward laugh like a “pff” noise and humm a lot in agreement even when they don’t agree. (this is more tailored with virgo and gemini placements in the mix with it but if you’re a libra mercury and this resonates without those lmk!)

Mars and Saturn in the 1st house when unhealed makes everything a competition. They have to be “successful”. If that means knocking you down a pegs or talking shit about you to make them feel better about themselves…they will do it. If it’s in Leo they have to have all the attention. If it’s in Aquarius they will act unbothered and aloof but talk mega shit about you. etc. whatever sign these planets are in it causes friction. there is a constant yearning to push but saturn restrains it. They might feel like they have to be constantly be in action or “maintaining” their image to be enough. This causes a more than deep inner frustration when they see someone achieving the things they want.

Gemini Sun in the 11th I feel like fits the stereotype of “gemini being two faced” the most. Their ego is constantly changing from the information and energy they are absorbing from other groups of people. Very chameleon like. If they don’t have a strong sense of self, or other planets in the chart that suggest this, i feel like it could lead to identity/self image issues. Same for the 7th house but i feel like the 11th house is more pungent. It’s not just personal relationships it’s community and the social world as a whole.

12th house placements are the worst when it comes to reflective people. The 12th house often holds things that are hidden from ourselves. Thinking about it on the chart wheel, the 12th house is right above the 1st. Almost as if it’s what guides us but it’s unseen. If there’s any personal planets in the 12th house and they are aspected heavily it could show us repressed issues that control the persons life without their knowledge of it. Whenever they meet people that force them to face themselves it’s particularly hard for these natives, not because it’s hard information to swallow, but because the information and emotion that comes with it can be confusing as a whole. From my experience they often shut people out or avoid them completely because they aren’t ready to face those issues.

Virgo Moons often have mothers that are self critical. I’ve noticed the mothers of virgo moons have body issues and obsessed over it. This can lead them to unconsciously pick up on these critical,self improvement mindset. it’s very important for these natives to be aware of the relationship to the mother and themselves. i’ve also met other virgo moons and this remains true!!

8th house moons need to feel understood more than any other house moon placement. They feel deeply and crave soul-level connections. day to day connections are probably draining for this person. to feel emotionally stable they need a person that gets them completely,fully,and nakedly. trust and authenticity is vital to this native.

Almost every scorpio moon i’ve met are disconnected from their feelings. personally i’ve never met one that didn’t feel distant emotionally. this could be because of their protective nature emotionally or because their emotions are too intense for them to feel themselves. either way it’s very interesting to see, coming from a scorpio rising, how scorpios energy works. my sister and boyfriend both have scorpio moons, the two closest people in my life, and there is always still a sense of mystery there.

Moon in the 12 house often repress their emotions so much it could lead to dissociation. I don’t have this placement myself, but i recently met someone that gets my emotional energy like no other and she has her moon in the 12th house. Some issues that come up are knowing you feel a lot and deeply but it’s just out of reach for you to truly get to the “bottom” of the feeling. Feeling so overwhelmed that you don’t know how to react in a moment that would normally prompt a reaction. Taking on people’s emotions because they “sense” the emotions others aren’t verbally voicing.

10th house stelliums especially with saturn feel like they have to achieve something career wise before they do anything else in life. It could be from an outside force or themselves, but it’s very important for these natives to understand that their success is not directly tied to who they fundamentally are. It’s okay to fail and it’s important to try re define what success to this native actually looks like.

If you have Uranus or Neptune in the third house you might randomly get spiritual downloads or hits from writing, driving in your car, listening to music, words standing out from listening to someone’s conversation, radios, school work.

Sagittarius Moons depending on what house and how it’s aspected can be deep feelers. They feel most comfortable focusing on the bright side of things and making light of situations, but the need to find meaning and purpose to an emotion is still there, just like any other sagittarius placement. If they find enjoyment in finding meaning to their emotions they could start to feel comfortable processing deeper complex emotions. they might intellectualize emotions on a more negative note.

•that’s all for now! if you have any questions feel free to shoot them!

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ravening25 · 3 months ago

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Hi all,

Im back on tumblr after a 10 year hiatus. This site was my jam in high school and I’m glad to be back.

Anyway I’ve been studying astrology for 13 years. I absolutely love it. I’ve done readings for family and close friends. I’d love to practice on more charts.

Message me if you’d like to connect and have me look at specific placements or aspects. I’d like to start small and eventually work my way to doing entire chart readings.

Excited to see your placements! 💕

Love and light always✨

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romantic blueprints: 5th house ruler in 5th house

5th house ruler shows how you approach love affairs, the type of partners you attract/seek, your approach to casual romantic connections, struggles in dating & love.

5th house ruler in 5th house

passionate, expressive, romantic, playful, dramatic, creative, devoted, open-hearted, affectionate, intense, fun-loving, charismatic, artistic, adventurous, bold, confident, attention-seeking, enthusiastic, youthful, emotionally warm, flamboyant, magnetic, teasing, witty, seductive, charming, playful banter, eye contact-heavy, passion-driven, theatrical, overly idealistic, attention-craving, easily bored, commitment-phobic, dramatic ups & downs, attracting immature partners, seeking constant validation, overly romanticizing love, impulsive decisions, jealousy issues, childlike wonder, seeking excitement, romantic grand gestures, falling in love quickly, strong sexual energy, loyal when truly invested, a lover of romance itself, prefers relationships full of passion, can be self-centered in love, needs admiration from partners

5th house in signs

aries 5th house ruler in 5th house (mars in 5th house)

with aries ruling the 5th house and its ruler placed there, you approach love affairs with fiery passion, spontaneity, and an all-or-nothing attitude. you crave excitement, intensity, and a partner who can keep up with your fast-paced, adventurous energy. in dating, you seek bold, confident individuals—those who exude independence and a spark of challenge. your flirting style is direct, playful, and full of teasing, often coming across as daring and flirtatiously competitive. however, your biggest romantic challenge lies in impatience and a tendency to lose interest quickly if things become too predictable. you may also struggle with impulsive decisions in love, diving headfirst without thinking through long-term consequences.

type of love/lover: enemies to lovers, the chase is better than the catch, love at first fight, impulsive love confessions, independent lovers

taurus 5th house ruler in 5th house (venus in 5th house)

with taurus ruling the 5th house and its ruler placed there, you approach love affairs with patience, sensuality, and deep devotion. you crave stability and seek partners who are reliable, affectionate, and willing to build something long-lasting. in dating, you are drawn to those who exude warmth, security, and a touch of luxury—someone who appreciates romance in its slow, indulgent form. your flirting style is subtle yet magnetic, often using touch, eye contact, and a calm, grounded presence to draw people in. however, your biggest romantic challenges lie in stubbornness, possessiveness, and a tendency to stay in relationships longer than you should, fearing change or disruption to your emotional comfort.

type of love/lover: slow burn, friends to lovers, the protective lover, loyal to a fault, the sensual romantic

gemini 5th house ruler in 5th house (mercury in 5th house)

with gemini ruling the 5th house and its ruler placed there, you approach love affairs with curiosity, playfulness, and an insatiable need for mental stimulation. you seek partners who are witty, engaging, and can keep up with your fast-moving thoughts and ever-changing interests. in dating, you thrive on variety and excitement, often gravitating toward those who are socially dynamic, intellectually stimulating, and open-minded. your flirting style is lighthearted, clever, and full of teasing banter, effortlessly drawing people in with your charm and humor. however, your biggest romantic challenges include restlessness, inconsistency, and difficulty committing, as you can quickly lose interest if a relationship becomes too routine or emotionally heavy.

type of love/lover: flirty best friends, love through late-night conversations, catch me if you can, magnetic opposites, lover of many faces

cancer 5th house ruler in 5th house (moon in 5th house)

with cancer ruling the 5th house and its ruler placed there, you approach love affairs with deep emotion, sensitivity, and a strong desire for security. you seek partners who are nurturing, affectionate, and can provide a sense of home within the relationship. in dating, you are drawn to those who are emotionally intuitive, family-oriented, and capable of forming a deep, sentimental bond. your flirting style is soft, warm, and subtly inviting—often expressed through caring gestures, deep eye contact, and an air of emotional mystery. however, your biggest romantic challenges include moodiness, emotional attachment too soon, and difficulty letting go, which can lead to staying in relationships that no longer serve you out of nostalgia or fear of emotional vulnerability.

type of love/lover:childhood sweethearts, the caregiver lover, love letters & nostalgia, the protector & the soft heart, falling first, falling hard

leo 5th house ruler in 5th house (sun in 5th house)

with leo ruling the 5th house and its ruler placed there, you approach love affairs with passion, confidence, and a flair for the dramatic. romance is a grand adventure, and you seek a partner who adores, admires, and uplifts you. in dating, you are drawn to charismatic, bold, and expressive individuals who match your energy and appreciation for fun. your flirting style is magnetic, playful, and full of grand gestures—you love to impress and make your interest known in a big way. however, your biggest romantic challenges include craving constant attention, struggling with pride, and sometimes making love more about validation than true emotional depth. learning to balance ego with vulnerability is key to long-lasting love.

type of love/lover: the star-crossed lovers, grand romantic gestures, the charmer & the cynic, all or nothing love, the performer in love

virgo 5th house ruler in 5th house (mercury in 5th house)

with virgo ruling the 5th house and its ruler placed there, you approach love affairs with thoughtfulness, devotion, and a desire for stability. you seek a partner who is intelligent, reliable, and willing to grow with you—someone who values the little things and shows love through actions rather than just words. In dating, you are drawn to those who are practical, hardworking, and emotionally mature, often preferring deep, meaningful connections over fleeting passion. your flirting style is subtle yet attentive, expressed through acts of service, witty conversations, and a keen interest in your love interest’s well-being. however, your biggest romantic challenges include overanalyzing feelings, setting impossibly high standards, and struggling with self-criticism, which can make it hard to fully relax and enjoy love in the moment.

type of love/lover: love in the details, the stoic & the softie, fixing you; fixing me, from colleagues to soulmates, acts of service as love

libra 5th house ruler in 5th house (venus in 5th house)

with libra ruling the 5th house and its ruler placed there, you approach love affairs with charm, romance, and a strong desire for harmony. you seek a partner who is elegant, emotionally balanced, and knows how to keep the romance alive. in dating, you are drawn to those who are aesthetically pleasing, socially graceful, and emotionally intelligent—someone who values partnership as much as you do. your flirting style is smooth, charming, and effortlessly engaging, often using compliments, deep eye contact, and a touch of mystery to captivate others. however, your biggest romantic challenges include indecisiveness, a tendency to people-please, and struggling with superficial connections, as you may prioritize the idea of love over its true emotional depth.

type of love/lover: meant to be, the socialite & the loner, aesthetic power couple, romance as an art form, the flawless facade

scorpio 5th house ruler in 5th house (pluto/mars in 5th house)

with scorpio ruling the 5th house and its ruler placed there, you approach love affairs with intensity, depth, and a need for emotional transformation. romance is never casual for you—it’s all-consuming, passionate, and often life-changing. you seek partners who are magnetic, emotionally complex, and unafraid of deep connections. in dating, you are drawn to those with a mysterious edge, someone who can match your emotional depth and unwavering loyalty. your flirting style is seductive, magnetic, and almost hypnotic, often relying on intense eye contact, subtle touches, and an air of intrigue. however, your biggest romantic challenges include jealousy, control issues, and the tendency to test your partner’s loyalty, sometimes creating power struggles where there don’t need to be any. learning to trust and let love flow without fear of betrayal is essential for true fulfillment.

type of love/lover: all or nothing love, the obsessive soulmate, forbidden desire, toxic but irresistible, the protector & the possessive lover

sagittarius 5th house ruler in 5th house (jupiter in 5th house)

with sagittarius ruling the 5th house and its ruler placed there, you approach love affairs with enthusiasm, adventure, and a thirst for freedom. romance, to you, is an exciting journey, and you seek partners who are spontaneous, open-minded, and willing to explore life with you. in dating, you are drawn to those who have a strong sense of individuality, a love for learning, and a wild, adventurous spirit. your flirting style is playful, bold, and full of witty banter—you enjoy making people laugh and keeping things lighthearted. however, your biggest romantic challenges include a fear of commitment, restlessness, and a tendency to chase the thrill of new love rather than building deeper emotional connections. learning to balance independence with emotional depth will help create more fulfilling relationships.

type of love/lover: the runaway lovers, opposites attract, love in a foreign land,the commitment-phobe, best friends to lovers

capricorn 5th house ruler in 5th house (saturn in 5th house)

with capricorn ruling the 5th house and its ruler placed there, you approach love affairs with seriousness, patience, and a sense of long-term commitment. romance, for you, is grounded in stability, loyalty, and practicality. you seek partners who are mature, responsible, and share your ambitions, someone who can build a solid future alongside you. in dating, you are drawn to those who have a strong work ethic, a sense of purpose, and a grounded demeanor. your flirting style is reserved yet sincere, often expressed through subtle gestures of care and showing your interest through actions rather than words. however, your biggest romantic challenges include being overly cautious, emotionally reserved, and sometimes coming off as distant or too focused on achieving goals, which can make it difficult to fully open up or be vulnerable in relationships.

type of love/lover: the steady; reliable lover, slow burn, power couple, the mentor & the student, the practical romantic

aquarius 5th house ruler in 5th house (uranus/saturn in 5th house)

with aquarius ruling the 5th house and its ruler placed there, you approach love affairs with a sense of individuality, open-mindedness, and intellectual curiosity. romance, for you, is about freedom, innovation, and sharing new ideas, rather than traditional expressions of love. you seek partners who are unique, independent, and forward-thinking, someone who values personal freedom and is open to unconventional relationships. in dating, you are drawn to those who are quirky, intellectually stimulating, and have a strong sense of individuality. your flirting style is playful, experimental, and often involves witty exchanges or unique gestures that set you apart from others. however, your biggest romantic challenges include emotional detachment, difficulty with intimacy, and a tendency to prioritize logic over emotional connection, which can sometimes create distance in relationships.

type of love/lover: unconventional love, intellectual connection, the free-spirited lovers, the eccentric couple, friends first lovers later

pisces 5th house ruler in 5th house (neptune/jupiter in 5th house)

with pisces ruling the 5th house and its ruler placed there, you approach love affairs with deep sensitivity, idealism, and a romantic, almost dreamlike quality. romance, for you, is about emotional connection, escapism, and transcending the mundane. you seek partners who are compassionate, intuitive, and able to understand the unspoken depths of your emotions. in dating, you are drawn to those who are empathetic, creative, and open to exploring a spiritual or imaginative bond. your flirting style is soft, mysterious, and full of gentle gestures—often conveyed through subtle touches, poetic words, or dreamy eyes. however, your biggest romantic challenges include being overly idealistic, getting lost in fantasies, and struggling to differentiate between real love and the illusions you create, which can lead to disappointment or emotional overwhelm.

type of love/lover: star-crossed lovers, the dreamer & the realist, healing love, the enigmatic lover, falling for the artist

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