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ik when i use loa to shift im supposed to like assume im already there but for some reason i feel stuck in this waiting state like im waiting to wake up in my dr/open my eyes to see my dr. how can i get out of that kinda waiting state?

hi, darlin’. i hear you — that waiting space is tender, and sometimes it feels like no matter how hard you assume, you’re still just… here. in-between. stuck in the ache of wanting.

but let’s talk about it, plainly.

when you say you’re “waiting to open your eyes and be there,” you’re still placing your assumption outside of you — in the future. and the law of assumption doesn’t operate in the future. it’s present-tense. now. it’s not about convincing yourself that it’ll happen. it’s about being her already, before anything outside you confirms it.

so what do you do?

drop the timeline. the moment you say, “i’m waiting,” you’ve stepped out of the end. the end doesn’t wait. it is. you’ve got to treat it like memory, not hope. like you’re already in your DR and this version of you, here, is just a dream you’re gently waking up from.

change the impulse of the assumption. a lot of people try to assume while secretly checking in: “is it working? am i closer?” and that’s where they get caught. instead, shift your impulse. when you assume, assume like you assume you’re breathing. with no need to prove it. just the knowing.

let daily life become the proof. don’t wait for the blink-open, dramatic transition moment. embody the girl who already shifted: how does she think? what does she stop worrying about? how does she carry herself in the quiet? start anchoring into her now. small moments. brushing your teeth. walking down a hallway. “i already made it.”

use techniques that anchor, not chase. i like to use scripting as remembrance — thinking about my day as if i’m reflecting on it in my desired reality before bed. not manifesting, not hoping. remembering. it re-roots me. you can do this mentally too. at any time.

instead of:

“i want to wake up in my DR.”

say:

“today in my DR, i had coffee in the garden. i called my best friend. i wore the shoes i’ve been dreaming about.”

build the world as if you’ve already lived it. that’s how you break the waiting loop.

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hey girly!! i’ve been trying to shift for a couple of years now since around 2020 and i’ve never fully been able to do it i’ve always tried but then i ended up giving up because i was never able to do it and i just recently went to stray kids concert and after that i cannot stop thinking about them and i genuinely want to shift so bad but i don’t know where to start i don’t know how to do it i don’t know what to do at all i would be willing to pay you for advice or maybe just like any sort of help i know you probably get dms like this all the time but if you are able to give me any tips or any help please let me know thank you so much if you did end up reading this

okay. hi, honey. first off, you don’t ever need to pay me for help, this space is meant to be shared. you deserve access to what you need just because you’re here, and you care, and you want something deeply enough to ask for it.

here’s the truth: shifting is a binary. you’re either there, or you aren’t. that might sound harsh, but it’s not. it’s tender, actually. it means you don’t have to claw your way toward it. you just have to let it happen.

so ask yourself gently — what would she feel? how would she rest? would she be desperate, doubting, or would she sit back into herself and know it’s already hers?

shifting starts there. in stillness. in soft certainty. in letting it be real before you see it. think of it like a memory you’re finally remembering, not a door you’re trying to break down. and if you want, here’s a gentle way to begin:

decide. gently, but with finality. like lighting a candle and not blowing it out. you’re not hoping, you’re not trying, you’ve chosen.

assume. you’re a girl lighting candles for her own arrival. start feeling it before you see it. walk through your day like it’s already true. because it is, and you’ve already shifted. and then.

persist. not through struggle. but through devotion. return to her — the version of you who made it — again and again and again. a folksong so etched in your spirit you can’t forget the words to it.

and that’s all. and that’s it. shifting isn’t a burden, or a race. it’s a slow dawn spilling through cracked windows, a wildflower folding open at twilight.

you carry that light already, gently and fiercely. it’s always been inside you, waiting patiently to be remembered.

you are enough. always.

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Idk if I've talked about this before, but I saw someone post about why people who have been trying to shift for so long might not be shifting (this might not apply to everyone, but it really clicked with me). They only explained why, so I'm gonna talk about the solution I came up with.

They specifically said that it was not tough love, but psychological facts: it's possible that your mind registers shifting as a goal in THIS reality.

Think about that for a second. This is the part that really got me when I started to think about it. When you are here, in your CR, your goal is to shift, right? So what if our minds interprets that as a goal IN THIS REALITY, as simple as going to bed thinking "oh, I'm going to unload the dishwasher in the morning." Because shifting is just aligning with your DR self, and guess what?? Your goal in your DR is not to shift! That blew up my brain a little bit.

"But i want to shift" you know how everyone keeps saying "you are already in your DR"? I interpreted that for so long as motivation. It's not. It's the process. To align with your DR self, just like aligning with another person in your CR you have to have the same goals.

So your goal is no longer to shift. Stop thinking like that. Your goal IS NOT TO SHIFT. Waking up where you are meant to has never been a goal, but an expectation. Your goal is to wake up and go downstairs to have breakfast with your DR friends or family. Your goal is to wake up and get to class on time to ace that Defence Against The Dark Arts quiz you totally forgot to study for until the night before. Your goal is to wake up and win that Oscar, to break that curse, destroy the One Ring, you fucking name it babes.

I don't know if this is really dumb and obvious, but it wasn't for me before, so I really hope this post helps someone else too.

XO

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Venting About Shifting

Demotivating so skip if not for you.

Literally so tired of it all. I’m trying to leave but it’s like part of my subconscious wants to stay. It’s not helping that I’m currently having so many personal issues. I stop trying to shift for a bit due to my problems but now I am so stressed out I just want to shift. That’s all I want, is a break from all this. This reality is too consuming and I can’t keep up anymore.

It doesn’t help that my head keeps spinning and starting to think everyone is lying about shifting. I never thought I would get to that point. I hope it’s real.

I hope all you guys stay safe and healthy. Might not post much this upcoming few months.

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Enemies To Lovers (Kpop Ver.)

Scenarios

Your SO, a well-known idol, features one of your songs during a live event, causing it to go viral. Catapulting its success and suddenly filling your schedule with bookings. In a moment of pettiness, your S/O mocks you when they see you, asserting that you would have remained unnoticed without their influence.

You're SO staring at you intensely at a music show and you glare at them thinking they were hating when in reality they thought you look good.

Attending a reality show where you and your significant other are guests, your constant bickering makes other laugh for the other participants who casually dismiss it as lighthearted banter, little aware of the true underlying dislike between you and your partner

Your SO is an MC introducing your group at award show in where they stop halfway unintentionally staring at you leaving them starstruck.

(If you're a songwriter) Your company calls you in about an offer by your SO's company to write a song for them. You declined till your SO message you to change your mind. You decided to mess with them before agreeing to do it.

you were struggling to get your mic pack into place, your SO caught your attention as they gently stepped behind you, whispering "Let me." Their fingers accidentally brushing on your back, adding a bit more to the moment. With a gentle and tender touch, they helped you secure the pack in place.

You roll your eyes at your SO and they roll them back at you live at a music show interview. Causing you guys to go viral and wonder what happen for you guys to hate each other. (Jimin & Jeongyeon insp.)

After your constant arguments between you and your SO, you decided to write a song. You write about how much you hate your SO but not realizing that it had hints of admiration and care for them. The song made you realize that you had feelings for them.

You two keep provoking or making snarky comments each other every time you see each other.

Quotes

"They look at each other, baffled, in love and hate"

"You fall in love with the most unexpected person at the most unexpected time"

"Are you flirting or starting a fight?"

"You're important to me you piece of shit"

"I know you're obsessed with me"

"All you know what to do is run your mouth"

"I hate how angelic your voice sounds"

"I think I always liked them; I was just too stubborn to admit it"

Music

Visual

Movies

Couldnt find any movies but I do recommend the K-Dramas below:

Dream High Dream High 2 Your Beautiful Heartstrings Trot Lover

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The Love Express Series

Need some inspiration for your love story? Come to the Love Express to get inspired.

Each week, I'll be sharing scenarios related to a chosen trope, along with songs, movies, quotes, and photos that capture its essence. Whether you're looking for motivation or simply wanting to connect with your Dr, this series is sure to inspire and uplift you. If you have a specific trope in mind that you'd like to see featured, don't hesitate to let me know in the comments or message me.

Are you ready?

All aboard The LoveExpress 💕

All Tropes List

Rivals To Lovers

Royalty

Celebrity

Pen pals

Second Change/ Ex-Lovers

First Love

Grumpy X Sunshine

Enemies to Lovers

Friends with Benefits

Returning To HomeTown

Childhood Friends

Friends To Lovers

Neighbors to Lovers

Fake Dating

Arrange Marriage

Enemies to Lovers (KPOP Ver.)- Requested

Lovers in a past life- Requested

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80s fame Dr being there twice is so real 😂

OTHER DRS.

these are just a list of drs that i have to make scrips for/introduce later in the future!

miraculous

zootopia ( might have alexander as an s/o in this one )

stranger things

my hero academia

spiderverse

royalty

history

mcu

k-12

80s fame dr

avatar, the way of water

avatar, the last airbender

chainsaw man

jjk (?)

baddies west

genshin impact (?)

80s fame dr

creepypasta dr

pjo dr

+ more!

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To everyone scared of shifting, please don't. You will be safe in your Dr, this is guaranteed. You will always be safe as long as you want to.

You will be happy, have your desires and be safe. Being scared of the unknown is normal, but don't let it stop you. You can do this.

♡

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missing my dr a lot lately, probs should go shifting

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Helloooooooooooooooooo 😁

Memes from my“X-Files” DR

T I mostly made these to motivate me and ill be making more for my drs. These suck but I tried 😭

Mulder when I ask him when exactly did, he fall in love with Scully:

Me scripting in I can control the weather so when someone pissing me off I just-

Scully every time she finds my snacks in an evidence box:

Hearing Mulder yap about his sister being taking away by aliens every other case:

That one time I got fired:

5 minutes after I got fired:

Skinner having to hold me back from jumping “Cigarette Man”:

That one time when Scully was paranoid ass hell:

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Memes from my“X-Files” DR

T I mostly made these to motivate me and ill be making more for my drs. These suck but I tried 😭

Mulder when I ask him when exactly did, he fall in love with Scully:

Me scripting in I can control the weather so when someone pissing me off I just-

Scully every time she finds my snacks in an evidence box:

Hearing Mulder yap about his sister being taking away by aliens every other case:

That one time I got fired:

5 minutes after I got fired:

Skinner having to hold me back from jumping “Cigarette Man”:

That one time when Scully was paranoid ass hell:

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What "putting shifting on a pedestal" is NOT:

Having an emotional attachment to your DR

Fantasizing about/romanticizing your DR

Having a hyper fixation on, special interest in, or an obsession with your DR

Wanting to permashift

Wanting to escape this reality

Being excited about the concept of shifting

Finding joy in shifting instead of living with a grim dark outlook on litterally everything ever

YOU ARE ALLOWED TO HAVE STRONG EMOTIONS REGARDING SHIFTING. PASSION IS GOOD!

It is OKAY to have an attachment to your DR. You know why? Because it's a real fucking reality that you actually fucking live in. How is it wrong to be attached to your life and your loved ones? It isn't wrong.

What "putting shifting on a pedestal" IS:

Seeing it as above you or something you aren't good enough to do

Thinking only special or talented people can shift

Thinking you have to be perfect to shift

Thinking you have to "earn it" or become "worthy" of shifting

Tying whether or not you shift to your self worth and viewing any setbacks as personal failures

Thinking that it won't happen to you or that whether or not you shift is determined by how "lucky" you are

Putting shifting on a pedestal means that you think it is above you and that you are beneath it.

You are not grovelling at the universe's feet, you are not earning a trophy or a reward, you are shifting your awareness to a life you're already living.

You are already worthy of shifting and you shift all the time without knowing it. How could you possibly be incapable of something that you are already doing.

You're just becoming aware. Shifting is cool and all but it's not not so cool that you can't possibly be worthy, it's JUST awareness.

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Tell me why I tried going back to shiftok and I left the app feeling more confused than ever. I need a break after that.

I saw two different shifter speak on their experiences. One said the whole script thing and scenarios aren’t guaranteed to happen but then the other said it will happen????????? Like come on.

Edit: I understand we are all going to have different experiences. But it pisses me off that these shifters think that their

Experiences =Facts. And always speak about it like it is.

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shifting tip of the month

do or don't. there is no 'try'. 'trying' means you're anticipating the chance of failure.

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Some of you guys have to understand that you don't need to overcomplicate things when it comes to shifting. You can literally shift whenever you want. I just read someone shifted while they were at work and saw everything change right in front of them. So, relax take a breath, and know that you can shift. Do what YOU feel comfortable to get there and know that you will.

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Cupid’s Club Dr

In a world where ancient gods exist, society has evolved into an era of lust and hedonism, where few believe in true love. However, Eros has a plan to restore the balance between love and lust. He teams up with Moirai and starts a dating agency as a cover to secretly send his army of cupids out to help humans fall in love once more. Eros recruits' humans as cupids from all over the world based on their kindness, cheerfulness, and empathic behavior. He uses a magic powder that makes people forget about his existence and everything about their encounter if they refuse to join the cupids. Those who accept the deal are guaranteed to be with their true love and are provided for the rest of their lives.

Club Slogan: Where Cupid's Arrow Never Misses

Dr Name: River

Age: Adult (FYI I’m also an adult in this reality)

Occupation: Club Owner / Cupid 💘

Aesthetic:

My Background story: I literally script in the plot of the movie “Hitch” 💀. I know but listen I thought it was a cute movie plus it fit the theme. Hitch was like cupid, and I made him one into this Dr. So, this the background story, I was the first minor to be scouted in becoming a Cupid. Hitch became my training couch and I help him with his clients. Once I became an adult, I opened up a Night Club called "Cupid's club." I hired other Cupids so we can have easier access to their targets and people that are in need of love. The reason I even did this script was to go clubbing, I'm of age to want to go but it's just our CR suck and there always some dangerous surrounding clubs. So, I'm looking forward to this DR.

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daily shifting motivation pt4 !!

why are you scrolling on tumblr when you could LITERALLY be living your dream life and being with your fav people.

you choose when you shift. go shift !!