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Hey can you make the google drive under demika public pls

Unfortunately it’s not my google drive folder, it was created by Mo under her account Demika Clips. But it is working for me, try this link: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/0B-Syio8gu_uVbGJob3g5eHlOQlE?resourcekey=0-B6Za8z3ME8cVjetOaGp0dw

I hope that works for you!! ♡

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Dig this funny shit

Same, dude, same

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I will forever be grateful to Dem and Ika for bringing so many incredible people into my life, many who are still in my life. There are truly no words.

idk it just feels so good when you realize a fandom friend has become ur friend friend—y’know? like instead of only talking about ur common interest u start branching out and talking to each other about your lives, your other hobbies, and it’s even cooler to remain close if one or both of you lose interest in the fandom you met in. your bond, no longer dependent on the mutual love you had for some thing—now lies upon the kinship you’ve built. i think that’s beautiful

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This blog is showing up in searches for positive, happy, funny stuff and it isn't.

What? I am very confused as to what this means lol. Can you explain? I have barely posted on this blog in almost a year and a half and I always tried to keep it positive so I’m not sure what negative is showing up and where (on tumblr, on google, etc)... maybe you can link me some posts that are showing up and what search terms you used? Now I’m curious haha

If you’re talking about old anon posts coming up when you search Ika’s name on here, that is going to happen, but I always tried to defend her (much to many people’s annoyance and my detriment mind you) and hopefully anyone who sees that posts sees that and understands the love people have for her. 

Anyways! Hi everyone, if anyone is reading this! 👋 I hope you guys are doing well during this ridiculousness and I miss this community so damn much.

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i don’t think we can romanticize our way out of this one boys

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Entanglements: Confessions of Ika Wong

Ika Wong appeared on Brooke On The Go on July 29th and discussed her relationship in detail. I know this interview wasn’t distributed widely because it was on TVCo (ugh!). Because Ika seems to want to post to youtube more in the future and her and Dem just spoke about their relationship on youtube live yesterday, I figured I would share it.

It is on the TVCo app, and can be watched online here.

It is also on Apple podcasts and Spotify.

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Hiiiii! I know you don’t post anymore but I was just wondering if you had the Et Canada preseason special from season 7!? I know that they interviewed demetres for sure, and I think people like Erica and Ramsey?

Hi! So... I do not lol. I just went back through my archives and all I found was the below pic haha. I also found a couple anons where it was mentioned that no one could find it online yet and we were hoping it would be on the ET Canada playlist on youtube. I just looked there and it is not. I’m sorry I couldn’t be of more help!

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I don’t know if any of you are here or will see this, but I just wanted to give you all a hug as big as this one. I hope you are doing well, staying safe and finding the positives in the little, more “mundane” things. I know this time is really hard for some in so many ways and I am always here, this community is always here. I am more than happy and willing to post messages, asks, convos, etc on this page, whatever will help. We will all come through this, and as Dem especially has been sayin, we are stronger together.

Stay well ❤️

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If any of you are still following this blog, and are wondering what the anon is, the answer is always yes. I am always here for you guys, that hasn’t and will never change. I hope y’all are doing well and living your best life! <3

I miss your blog so much :( do you still answer DMs?

Oh yes!! I probably talk on DMs wayyy too often lmao. But please DM me on here, twitter or IG anytime! I miss you guys too. We really were/are such a wonderful little family haha.

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I will reblog this every damn time I see it because it is so true. My “internet” friends are some of the best people I have ever met. I have never had people care so much about me and truly support me. And I feel the same about all of you. Y’all are so special, always remember that.

❤️

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Expel Jack from Big Brother - http://chng.it/tJDbkRXprL

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We gotta so something.

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Why were anons still bothering you two years later???? Not ok! I’m so sorry! I think it must have been one persistant person

Sadly it wasn’t, you could tell it was a few different people. But it is what it is, just took me too long to deal with some of it. I didn’t block anyone on here until last April (not that it really mattered because they could just use a vpn). There’s unfortunately going to be hate no matter what everywhere we look. And honestly, I just don’t get it. Why do others want to focus on the negative, bring that upon themselves? People hated me, hated the blog, said I made them feel like shit, yet they kept coming back to what brought them hate and negativity. Don’t do that, that is a choice. Choose positivity if you can, and most times you can.

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Please come back!!

I know, I miss you guys so much! But I just can’t... I didn’t realize how much the negativity affected me and how toxic the anons especially were. It is so hard to describe and I know even harder to understand, but goodness. I don't know if it was bullying but it hurt to the point I got numb of it, and that is very not good. Makes me hurt for others on here and elsewhere who just can’t give up the community they built and the friends they made. Boy, do I get it; it’s the reason I stayed two years, probably a year and a half too long.

But! Positive! I still come on here all the time mostly to answer DMs and do some stuff with my personal blog, @theviewofmylife. Message me privately though ;)

Love you all. So much. Truly.

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Good morning! 💕 I’m not sure if anyone is really still around but I just wanted to say that I hope you have a wonderful Friday and an even better weekend. I miss y’all and this community we built, but remember that if you ever need someone to talk to I am just a message away.

I wish nothing but positivity and happiness for all of you.

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Interesting.