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I thank God that even though I’m not where I want to be in life, in only 1-2 months he’s managed to help me love myself more to the point that I know who I am as a person and I value myself.

I’m not perfect, but I love my heart, I love my personality, I love my body, I love my face. And I’m not gonna sit here and try to force anyone to see that - you can’t see it because you were not meant to see it. You simply were not my person and that’s okay. My worth and value will never be diminished from someone not being able to see and understand it 🤍

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The art of not allowing past experiences to harden your heart.

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outgrowing people who aren’t growing.

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the beauty of being an authentic, good-hearted person is that your presence is always felt + your absence will always be missed. that is why you don’t have to retaliate when someone wrongs you. they’ll feel it one way or another.

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God, i don’t want to be stagnant. in this same place next year. introduce me to me. help me to see myself the way that you see me. do whatever you need to do in my life that guides me closer to you. and my destiny. heal my heart so my triggers become my testimonies. add or remove whoever or whatever you need to help me grow spiritually. develop in me the character to not just reach the places we talk about but the character to stay in those places.

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all it takes is one person to change your life and that is why you have to be mindful about who you connect with. some people make you better and some people make you bitter.

choose your people wisely.

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took myself out the mix, getting my life together, learning to just keep things private. trying to accept some situations for what they are. staying in my lane not bothering anyone. in hopes of no one bothering me. inevitably protecting my peace & minding my business.

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i will get that dream job. the husband. the wedding. the children. a marriage founded on God. he’s not done with me yet. he’s rewriting my story. i’m on God timing.🤍

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You shouldn’t be trying to level up to get a man, ever. Do things bc it makes you a well-adjusted, fully functioning, competent, well put together adult. Not bc you think it will make you more attractive to other people. Take others out the equation and focus on being your peak self. You can do things and also enjoy the rewards from others, but it should not be your primary motivator. What if after all that work and money spent you still don’t get the guy? What, you’re gonna think it was a waste, “didn’t work”, and just quit improving yourself? Yes you will. I see it allllll the time. “I lost 20lbs and I still don’t get hit on ☹️ should I give up on my fitness journey?” Sad.

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more inner peace. more success. more abundance. unexpected blessings. genuine souls + divine connections. happiness. prosperity. mental clarity. health and wellness. divine + spiritual guidance. constant growth. wisdom. consecutive wins. more love. all love unconditionally.

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This is for the person who watches their friends have wholesome relationships with their parents and it feels terrible. Who hates christmas or other family hollidays. Who feels hurt every mother's/father's day. Who hates hearing the words grandma/grandpa. If you're an adult and feel like this, if you choose not to have a relationship with your own parents, I want you to know that there is a good reason for that. That doesn't happen by accident, that doesn't happen for just a small incompatibility. You know why.

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stop waiting on men to validate you. you’re pretty. you’re smart. you’re interesting. you’re worth time & effort. you deserve to be loved. you need to know these things and truly believe them. don’t wait on some man to come along and tell you.

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couples t-shirts that say "TRAPPED IN A NEVERENDING CYCLE" and "THE CYCLE"

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Gems on gems!