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edwardian & victorian era women

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Dear (physically) abled people: the accessible bathroom stall is NOT for you.

And no, I don’t care if you’re neurodivergent.

Acceptable reasons to use the accessible bathroom stall:

You have mobility issues (visible or invisible) and need the support of handles/grab bars

You have disability aids, such as a cane or a service dog, that require extra space

You need space to catheterize, change a stoma bag, or perform another disability-related procedure

Your disability involves incontinence or inability to hold waste and therefore you need fast access

Unacceptable reasons to use the accessible bathroom stall:

You want privacy during a panic attack and therefore think that it’s ok to use up resources that aren’t for you (idc if you’re neurodivergent)

You want privacy during a meltdown and therefore think that it’s ok to use up resources that aren’t for you (idc if you’re neurodivergent)

You want to eat your lunch in the bathroom (idc if you’re self conscious about eating)

You don’t have actual digestive/gastrointestinal disabilities, but you just want to take a nice long shit

You want to take a break from socializing (idc if you’re autistic)

You want to have sex/make a phone call/get drunk/etc

Let me emphasize: your panic attack, eating habits, social anxiety, or whatever, is not a justification for using up a limited resource that isn’t for you.

I do not care if you’re neurodivergent or mentally ill or whatever. You’re occupying a space that isn’t meant for you. You’re appropriating a finite resource that some people have no choice to need.

Physically disabled people, such as myself, are not just annoyed, but materially harmed by neurodivergent people who think they have the right to occupy the accessible stall for their panic attacks or what have you. We can get UTIs, other infections, rashes, and pain from not having access to a useable bathroom… waiting 20 minutes for you to eat your fucking salad in the accessible stall while we are in wet underwear/diapers is not ok.

Don’t use the accessible toilet if it’s not for you. End of story.

Edit because y’all are putting words into my mouth: this isn’t about invisibly disabled people. This isn’t about me standing outside every accessible toilet trying to judge whether or not each individual is disabled enough. This is about a broader trend of abled neurodivergent people speaking over physically disabled people.

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✧dark academia calendar - november 2021✧

2021 november’s free print-out calendar is here! all art is my original work. this month is based on astronomical history. (full pics here. march->)

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Flintholm (The Witches House) by Barry on Flickr.

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𝔐𝔬𝔱𝔥𝔪𝔞𝔫 𝔣𝔩𝔢𝔴 𝔞𝔴𝔞𝑦 𝔣𝔯𝔬𝔪 𝔱𝔬𝔴𝔫, 𝔩𝔦𝑘𝔢 𝔞 𝔤𝔦𝔞𝔫𝔱 𝔟𝔞𝔱, 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔱𝔥𝔢𝔫 𝔡𝔦𝔰𝔞𝔭𝔭𝔢𝔞𝔯𝔢𝔡 𝔣𝔯𝔬𝔪 𝔰𝔦𝔤𝔥𝔱 𝔟𝔢𝔥𝔦𝔫𝔡 𝔞 𝔱𝔥𝔦𝔠𝑘𝔢𝔱 𝔬𝔣 𝔰𝑘𝔢𝔩𝔢𝔱𝔞𝔩 𝔞𝔲𝔱𝔲𝔪𝔫 𝔱𝔯𝔢𝔢𝔰... . …And straight into my heart. A wee hand sewn Mothman. Mothman has been my favorite cryptid for years now, and with the rise of cryptidcore I’ve been seeing more and more Mothman stuff! I’m loving it! https://www.instagram.com/p/CRefJSFpv4m/?utm_medium=tumblr

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👣some cryptid banners i made for my room! they’re just felt and hot glue. rbs are appreciated, so please don’t re-post! 👣

✨live, laugh, lurk!✨

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𝓐𝔩𝔩 𝔱𝔥𝔦𝔫𝔤𝔰 𝔤𝔬𝔬𝔡 𝔞𝔯𝔢 𝔴𝔦𝔩𝔡 & 𝔣𝔯𝔢𝔢… . Just some things from around my mom’s backyard that made me smile today. https://www.instagram.com/p/CQ6ku_mJbsJ/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Being a goblin is all about self-expression.

you wanna wear that ugly knitted sweater you found at a thrift shop? do it.

you wanna display bones in your room that you found in the woods? do it.

you wanna wear so much jewelry that you look like a creature straight out of the Spiderwick Chronicles? do it.

you wanna run away into the woods and decay next to the river covered in moss? yeah, sure, do it.

you wanna go feral and live in a run-down cabin in the middle of nowhere? if that's what you want, do it.

you wanna take all the blankets off your bed and sleep on the floor with no remorse? do it.

you wanna run around in the rain with no shoes on, getting yourself covered in mud? do it!

self-expression.

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reblog this if you want to settle down in a little cottage within the woods, grow your own garden behind a picket fence, watch it rain from your open window, all while baking bread and pies from your wood burn stove

just trying to prove a point

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Kiki’s delivery service (1989)

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oh mother how dare you assume i keep little lights on at night because i’m scared of the dark!

i do it to attract

mothman

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Can we just talk about how @sorrycharley gets me on a spiritual level??? Thank you for my one year alcohol-free/just because present! Love youuu🖤 https://www.instagram.com/p/CKpe5EDJJbh/?igshid=12cnr5lvex1t2

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Ok Tumblr. I need your help.

There’s a quote from some of the last few Unus Annus videos (I’m not sure which, and he did do a similar monologue in the final livestream) where Mark/Annus talks about how much you can accomplish in just year and how amazing that is, etc.

Next week will be my one year sober, and that quote really motivated and inspired me, but it’s obviously gone with the channel. I know there are archives but it just feels wrong scouring through the reuploaded videos. PLEASE tell me someone out there has this quote as a clip, copied down in a journal, a tweet, a post, ANYTHING! Thanks y’all in advance!

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𝔖𝔬 𝔩𝔬𝔫𝔤, 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔤𝔬𝔬𝔡𝔫𝔦𝔤𝔥𝔱 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟎🖤 https://www.instagram.com/p/CJes6zRJaD7/?igshid=1ld3dz4d7674j

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𝔐𝔲𝔰𝔱 𝔟𝔢 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔖𝔢𝔞𝔰𝔬𝔫 𝔬𝔣 𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔚𝔦𝔱𝔠𝔥... https://www.instagram.com/p/CF3RPKBpEru/?igshid=1cvhprestf0lt

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So long, and thanks for all the fish...💖 https://www.instagram.com/p/CF2A_qdAubp/?igshid=t6fmtxo67zaz