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rosesareredandimsad · 6 months ago
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— Fyodor Dostoevsky, Notes from Underground
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rosesareredandimsad · 1 year ago
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“My heart is so tired”
— Markus Zusak
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rosesareredandimsad · 1 year ago
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The Real Luxuries of Life are much simpler than you think.
A good night of rest
A slow, peaceful morning
A space and time for fun and hobbies
The freedom of choice and opinion
Time and space for nature walks
A good book to enjoy purely for enjoyment
A healthy home cooked meal
The opportunity to watch sunrises and sunsets
The ability to express yourself freely and openly
The time to rest during the day
A person to have deep meaningful conversations with
The option to leave whenever
The resources and time to explore ideas and business ventures
The time to enjoy a cup of coffee or tea
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rosesareredandimsad · 1 year ago
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Which one is your favourite? @thoughtstherapy
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rosesareredandimsad · 1 year ago
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guys please romanticize your life. go on solo dates, study in coffee shops, buy yourself flowers, wake up at 5 am to do a workout, cook yourself some dinner. it will bring you happiness i promise. not for people to see, just for yourself
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rosesareredandimsad · 1 year ago
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A reminder for my ladies: EVERYTHING TAKES TIME. YEARS. So start right now with the little that you have and stay consistent. Drink a glass of water instead of soda this time. Do one workout. Take a walk. Take up a class. Read a book. Start the treatment. Learn that language. And try that EVERY SINGLE DAY. A little bit every day, but I tell you something, you will see the results in YEARS. Yes, you will get that degree AFTER A FEW YEARS. Yes, your hair will grow long, AFTER A FEW YEARS. Yes, you will be in shape, you will become who you want, you will heal, you will speak that language fluently AFTER A FEW YEARS.
Just keep doing what you're doing and don't give up. Ok? Ok. Love you, bye bye 💌
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rosesareredandimsad · 2 years ago
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Elegance/how feel like a princess guide
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Smell good!!!! Good hygiene plays a big role in all aspects of how people perceive you
Accept compliments!! Don't deny the compliment or start lowering yourself to appear humble, it just makes you look unloved and lacking in self-esteem
Write in cursive, in some countries this is already customary, but for those who don't usually do it, it would be good to start
Support other girls! Compliment, take care if you see that they are having difficulty with something, lend items, be nice to girls you don't know
You know those women who aren't even the prettiest but their vibe is chic? This is because of the way they behave and dress, so invest more in the way you present yourself to others
Saying it here again, be extra, always be the tidiest in the room, until it becomes your personality trait.
Invest in learning more languages!
Be kind even to people you don't like, it makes people's image of you change
Say thank you and please, it's not that hard ok?
Highlighter and gloss lips!! This gives a angelic look
Fuck being the popular mean girl, being the friendly popular girl is even more hot
Forget about drama, play when they make fun of you, laugh and make them realize that you are cool and will want to be friends
That's it for the day, always remember that beauty has an expiration date, elegance is eternal, luv ya💐
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rosesareredandimsad · 2 years ago
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my year of rest and relaxation without rotting and ravaging
Truth be told seeing a person with healthy habits, an organised life and a graceful personality and suggesting that this lifestyle is easy to accomplish is absolutely misleading, because it's not.
We're watching short videos of morning routines created by patrick batemans. We're reading inspirational prompts and quotes from the safety of our couch. We're scrolling through pinterest creating lists destined to dust on our profiles.
I came to the conclusion that the self improvement movement can be just as toxic as self destruction and there is a high risk for developing a depression and/or OCD (failing your goals and ambitions can push you into a downward spiral of rotting and ravaging).
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» visualise activites for your relaxation
take a piece of paper and write down what is relaxing for you personally without being to critical towards yourself. If someone tells you journaling is relaxing it doesn't mean it has to be for you. Take your time and take notes whenever you are doing something that lightens your mood. If sitting on a bench and watching people is your way of relaxation suit yourself. Do not choose activites only by the appeal towards your desired aesthetic.
» stay true to yourself
Stay true to yourself and don't neglect your own personality. Self improvement is not about becoming a better version of yourself, it's about finding and refecting yourself in this abyss of modern society. Please be kind towards yourself and do not misconstrue self improvement as perfection, because that's definitely not the same. Considering self improvement as a life lesson and experience is a way healthier approach.
» resting ≠ sinning
Having a long and extended nap, as a treat. Binge watching your current favorite tv show, as a treat. Have a cheat meal, as a treat. Go on a spa day, as a treat - you get the point. Please consider that habits are only healthy if they are in balance. Don't restrict and torture yourself if you feel the need to rest. Professional athletes know, that without resting there is no rising.
» It's ok not to be okay, but it's not okay to stay that way
We all have our past, we all have our skeletons. Previous experiences that shaped our personality are like pieces of clothing that are not fitting anymore but you're afraid to throw them away because of the emotional bond. Fun fact, if your warderobe is full, ypu don't have enough room for new garments. If you cannot let go it's time to clean out your clothes. I'm recommending you to seek professional help through a therapist if your past seems overwhelming or if your feeling mentally unease.
» the sixth sense of relaxing
focus on your senses before or after they are stimulated for a long amount of time by letting them relax. Try sensory exercises (for example breathing exercises), focus on something tacticle with your hands, catch the sunrise/sunset, go into a tea shop and smell the herbs, do yoga, drink water, take a bubble bath, listen to asmr or a new album. Whatever is stimulating your senses in a positive way helps to reduce stress.
Bisous!
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rosesareredandimsad · 2 years ago
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rosesareredandimsad · 2 years ago
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rosesareredandimsad · 3 years ago
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“You can’t calm the storm so stop trying. What you can do is calm yourself. The storm will pass.”
— Timber Hawkeye
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rosesareredandimsad · 3 years ago
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so me
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rosesareredandimsad · 3 years ago
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rosesareredandimsad · 3 years ago
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rosesareredandimsad · 3 years ago
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rosesareredandimsad · 3 years ago
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My grandmother once gave me a tip: In difficult times, you move forward in small steps. Do what you have to do, but little by little. Don't think about the future, or what may happen tomorrow. Wash the dishes. Remove the dust. Write a letter. Make a soup. You see? You are advancing step by step. Take a step and stop. Rest a little. Praise yourself. Take another step. Then another. You won't notice, but your steps will grow more and more. And the time will come when you can think about the future without crying.
✍️Author-Elena Mikhalkova
🔆The Sisterhood of SHE
(Image of Tasha Tudor, American Illustrator 1915-2008)
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