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We are Rahul 28 and Shalini 23 married Couple from Madhapur Hyderabad looking for something fun with trusted couples. So how this swinging helps to get more fun. And what exactly this is?

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Why is there a sudden surge in the number of highly educated, well to do youngsters contracting incurable Sexually Transmitted Infection (STIs) in India? It was always thought that STIs are more prevalent in the lower income / lower education groups but with the recent increase in usage of social media for sexual exploration by liberated but uninformed youngsters in India things are going in reverse for India. The number of young people exploring their fantasies of swinging, couple swap, threesomes, group sex etc has shot up dramatically due to increased usage of social media and apps eg. FB, Tinder, Tumblr etc resulting in a jump on the number of STIs cases which have doubled in Tier 1 cities in the last three years itself. Dr. Shuvendu Sen points towards lack of sex education among school goers as one of the primary reasons for this in his study published in the TOI that youngsters have access to a vast number of willing participants but no knowledge or information on how to stay safe!

Another young lady was diagnosed with Herpes last week. Talking to her and her friends shocked us as we saw the lack of awareness, education and lack of interest around STIs in the community at large. Everyone has heard of STIs like HIV and Herpes but no one really knows what these are and how they spread. Nearly 100% people believe that if they use condoms, they are safe from STIs and it is very disturbing when these youngsters ask - But we used condoms, how did we get Herpes?? Beta, aren’t you aware that herpes is a skin infection and condoms don’t protect you from herpes? Or Syphilis or HPV? No one ever told you that? Condoms only reduce the risk, but don’t help much with skin related STIs!

Spreading the message in India about STIs is like talking to a wall. People’s reactions are like those of passengers on a flight ignoring the air hostess who keeps taking about possible crash and life jackets and brace position! Nobody really pays attention because people assume that they are invincible and nothing will happen to them because they always use condoms or maybe they just assume that bad things happen to other people! Unfortunately, bad things happen to everyone! That’s just how life is! Just when you think things are going great, nature has a very sarcastic way of proving you wrong. Your reckless sexual explorations are like a game of Tambola. Sooner or later, if you’re not careful, your number will get called out. Or your lovers. Do you even realise the risk you are taking with each exposure with a stranger?

Don’t be so casual about your own life and your lover’s. Medical research shows that females are twice more susceptible to STIs than men. (https://www.healthgrades.com/conditions/why-women-are-more-at-risk-for-stds). You are risking her life just to fulfill some of your kinky fantasies. Is it worth it? Is it worth it to see a +ve STI test report of your loved one just because one evening ... just that ONE evening you got horny and wanted to try a threesome with a stranger? You’ll regret it for the rest of your life!

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Get tested regularly, ALWAYS use condoms and play only with people who are tested regularly!

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STD Awareness & Counselling

I am really overwhelmed by the responses I have been getting through the ‘Safety First’ safe sex campaign that I got involved in after discovering that someone known was diagnosed with Herpes a few months ago. For me it was just about spreading the message but I was not prepared for the number of people writing to me asking either for information or help. Information I could provide readily but over the last few weeks, I have been approached by 3 couples from the lifestyle who took the safety advice and got tested and have come out positive for some STD! This raises multiple issues to deal with:

1. I am not a professional counsellor so what advice do I give to people who have come positive? The only advice I have for you is to please go and see a doctor immediately. Which doctor? Look for a Gynea if it’s the woman positive or find a GP or a dermatologist and ask for advice. They might even send you for counselling but please please keep in mind that while many STDs are incurable like HIV, Herpes, HPV etc but they are still manageable and don’t mean end of life! There are medicines now which can help you so please don’t panic - see a doctor and get advice! And just be thankful that you caught it early and it’s not too late!

2. The lack of education around STD is really shocking. Two couples said they use condoms always so how did they get it and I had to explain that the risk is reduced by using condoms but many of these are infected skin to skin contact which might not be covered with condoms! So condoms are NOT 100% protection from STDs.

Another case was really difficult to handle. The wife has tested positive and now they are really fighting with each other as she is insisting that she has never had sex with anyone other than her husband so how can she get it! Husband is also insisting that he has never been with anyone else. Now I don’t know who is lying but again, I am not a professional and my advice to them was also to please go to a doctor and discuss with them! It is not end of life or end of sex life. There are ways around it to have safe sex and still enjoy life. Please seek professional guidance in case you test positive! Do not panic!

Stay safe everyone! Follow safe sex with condoms always and always get STD tested regularly. You are risking your life and more importantly your wife or gf’s life by giving in to your kinky fantasies without being safe! Are you willing to risk his or her life just for some kinky pleasure? Guess what.. you already did if you had sex with an untested person recently! Think about it!

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Every day we come across couples who insist that they use condoms and are safe. It is surprising to see the large percentage of people who really and truly believe that using condoms protects them from getting an STI! Yes, using condoms can help in reducing risks of HIV and Heptitis but condoms can do NOTHING against incurable STI infections like HPV and Herpes. STIs like Syphilis can spread from kissing also. Syphilis can be cured but other STIs eg. Herpes and HPV spread by skin to skin contact with infected area including oral sex. No Cure!

If you are very active in swinging lifestyle or have multiple sexual partners then you are classified as the ‘high risk’ group. There is a very high probability that you are already infected or will get infected if you continue without taking precautions. Please get yourself tested and make sure that everyone you meet is also tested at least twice a year.

Below are some statistics for India. It is very scary and shocking so please stay safe :

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Why get STD tested once?

People will go to any limit to avoid getting tested for STDs. Someone recently wrote to us saying that checking a one month old STD test can’t guarantee that he/she doesn’t have STD today and no one will get blood test every time before sex isn’t it? So what is the point?

Very true. No one gets tested before each sex session and a month old test report is no guarantee that the person won’t have STD. True. But please understand that tests are NOT to check your infection status on that particular day or date! It is to check your history, check if you have been following safe sex practices in the past. Getting tested shows that the person’s sex life till that point in time has been safe and whatever they have been doing till now has been safe. The results are a reflection of his past sexual explorations. It is all about probability and statistics. A clean result increases the probability that his future state will be status quo unless the person has a dramatic shift in his lifestyle. Negative test results means:

1. The person has been cautious in the past and will most probably remain cautious going ahead too.

2. The person is conscious of the dangers of STDs and has gone through the stress of waiting for test results and people usually don’t do silly things after that experience.

3. Awareness level of the person/couple around safe sex is high.

The only 100% guarantee of not getting an STD is to abstain from sex completely. That is obviously not the right path unless you’re becoming a monk or a nun. The best we can do is to take precautions. We have similar number of road deaths in a year compared to STD. We don’t stop driving. We take precautions - wear seat belts and drive slow and don’t drive when high! Similarly, we won’t give up sex and swinging but we want to add precautions - Always wear condoms and get tested at least twice a year for STDs to make sure that our lifestyle choices have been safe! Make sure you ask for ecent reports from all new lovers!

Remember that deadly STDs like Herpes, Syphilis, HPV can’t be stopped by condoms. They spread from intimate skin to skin contact also eg. Oral sex

Are you willing to bet your and your lover’s life on your next swinging session? You already did! Get Tested today!

Join the growing group of STD tested swingers and continue having fun!

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Get tested and make sure all your partners are tested also! Then enjoy as much as you all want! Getting tested is the first step!

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getting STD tests done AND using condoms provides 99.6% protection from possible STDs for high risk group indulging in sex with multiple partners. If your ‘kismat’ is really screwed up then you might still be in the 0.4% of unfortunate people but wouldn’t you rather take necessary precautions and try to be in the 99.6% safe people??

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Do people forget to tell about their STD?

How confident are you that the couple you met and had sex with a few weeks ago weren’t infected with Herpes and hid it from you? Would you be willing to bet your life on it? Well… you actually did! Yes, you already bet your life on it! Oh we used condoms! Naaah! Condoms can’t protect you from Herpes! Sorry!

Don’t become the next couple they’ve given Herpes to! Protect yourself! Many people hide it because telling would obviously mean they don’t get to swing with the new friends! So majority of people hide it! Some hide it because they justify it in their minds that it is not life threatening so no need to tell! Herpes is not life threatening but it is INCURABLE and spreads from oral sex and skin to skin contact. Condoms can not protect you but so many people with Herpes never tell others because they either feel that if they have it and are fucked then others should get it too or they feel that now they already have it so why shouldn’t they continue to enjoy whatever little they can at the cost of other people! Note that most of the time Herpes has no visible signs till there are eruptions.

When we ask people to get tested and show reports below are the ridiculous excuses we have heard back:

1. I am too scared of giving blood. So I can’t get tested! Huh!?? So we should risk our lives because you are scared to give blood?

2. I am too scared of the results so I can’t do the test!? Huh!!?! Meaning you are scared of what disease you might have but we shouldn’t be scared and have sex with you without seeing your tests result??

3. I don’t have time! Hello!?! They come home and take blood. It takes 2-3 minutes. You don’t have that much time to protect your life and our life then you’re not worth it!

4. What if I am positive??? Well… then you see a doctor and get treatment and definitely not join a swingers group!

5. Will you tell others if I come out positive? Huh!?? Hello! You should be telling others yourself and doing the right thing! You’re basically saying you’re going to hide it and continue having sex with people??

And that’s the thing friends!! There are millions of such people already. People who are aware that they are positive with some STD and simply hide it and pretend to be disease free and join swinging groups and meet couples and join swinging parties spreading their ‘love’ (STD) to other couples! Don’t get fooled by such people! Always insist on STD tests and reports. Are you seriously going to risk your life for such people?

Read this article about how people spread STD deliberately:

http://urbanette.com/deliberate-stds/

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Don’t ignore - this is reality of STDs

Yucky isn’t it ??? Sick?? Yeah?? Yes, THIS IS what Genital Herpes looks like on your dick and pussy if you get the infection while swinging with another infected person.

CONDOMS - WILL NOT SAVE YOU!

Condoms can help many STDs but not all. HPV, Herpes, Syphilis can happen from skin to skin contact and oral sex. There are 1 crore new infection in India even year and majority are among people who have multiple partners e.g. Swingers!

The next couple you meet could be a carrier and not display ANY infection for months and infect you also! Be aware! Be Careful!

Join the movement for safe swinging! Always ask for STD blood reports before the next big Swingers Party and always use condoms as double protection!

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Do people forget to tell about their STD?

How confident are you that the couple you met and had sex with a few weeks ago weren’t infected with Herpes and hid it from you? Would you be willing to bet your life on it? Well... you actually did! Yes, you already bet your life on it! Oh we used condoms! Naaah! Condoms can’t protect you from Herpes! Sorry!

Don’t become the next couple they’ve given Herpes to! Protect yourself! Many people hide it because telling would obviously mean they don’t get to swing with the new friends! So majority of people hide it! Some hide it because they justify it in their minds that it is not life threatening so no need to tell! Herpes is not life threatening but it is INCURABLE and spreads from oral sex and skin to skin contact. Condoms can not protect you but so many people with Herpes never tell others because they either feel that if they have it and are fucked then others should get it too or they feel that now they already have it so why shouldn’t they continue to enjoy whatever little they can at the cost of other people! Note that most of the time Herpes has no visible signs till there are eruptions.

When we ask people to get tested and show reports below are the ridiculous excuses we have heard back:

1. I am too scared of giving blood. So I can’t get tested! Huh!?? So we should risk our lives because you are scared to give blood?

2. I am too scared of the results so I can’t do the test!? Huh!!?! Meaning you are scared of what disease you might have but we shouldn’t be scared and have sex with you without seeing your tests result??

3. I don’t have time! Hello!?! They come home and take blood. It takes 2-3 minutes. You don’t have that much time to protect your life and our life then you’re not worth it!

4. What if I am positive??? Well... then you see a doctor and get treatment and definitely not join a swingers group!

5. Will you tell others if I come out positive? Huh!?? Hello! You should be telling others yourself and doing the right thing! You’re basically saying you’re going to hide it and continue having sex with people??

And that’s the thing friends!! There are millions of such people already. People who are aware that they are positive with some STD and simply hide it and pretend to be disease free and join swinging groups and meet couples and join swinging parties spreading their ‘love’ (STD) to other couples! Don’t get fooled by such people! Always insist on STD tests and reports. Are you seriously going to risk your life for such people?

Read this article about how people spread STD deliberately:

http://urbanette.com/deliberate-stds/

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Paid Couples & STDs

It is very unfortunate that Indian swinging scene is now filled with couples who are pimping their wives to single men for money. This is the same as prostitution and comes with exactly the same risks of STDs as the high risk group of sex workers. The incidents of STDs is highest in sex workers and because of Paid Couples the same has now entered mainstream swinging on India. Apart from the moral degradation of Indian husbands encouraging their wives to be sex workers and making money, they are openly and freely risking their wives to STD diseases. They convince their wives that condoms are safe and will protect them but never tell them that there are deadly STDs like HPV, Herpes, Syphilis etc which are spread from skin to skin contact and oral sex. Condoms can’t save them and they still endanger their wives to these incurable diseases for a bit of money and kinks. Shameful.

Not only are paid couples putting themselves in extreme danger of diseases, they are also putting every other swinger at risk if they meet other couples and don’t reveal that they are Paid Couple with singles. This puts the entire community at risk. Extreme risk!

Please avoid Paid Couples and the only way to be safe is to get tested and insist on testing of any couple you meet! Condoms can’t save from everything. Get tested and insist on test reports from other too! And then enjoy your swinging session!

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How to get tested for STDs

Many people want to get tested but not sure of how to go about it. Here is a quick guide to help you get tested and be safe.

1. All pathology labs in India do STD tests and common labs like Lal’s Pathlab or SRL etc come home and take blood.

2. Most of the labs have a standard STD kit but might not cover all. You can specify which tests you need. Recommended are: HIV, HSV 1&2 (Herpes), Syphilis, HPV, Gonorrhoea, Hep A,B,C and Chlymedia.

3. Labs ask for no identity. You can give your real name and phone and email OR give your alternate FB or other name and alternate phone and email ID. They don’t ask for ANY personal ID.

4. Don’t panic if you get any positive results. Most of these are treatable except HIV, HSV and HPV. Even these three don’t mean end of life. They are called ‘chronic’ diseases and most people still live long lives. Speak to your doctor for clarity. DO NOT GOOGLE and panic! Speak to a doctor first!

5. All these tests include only blood or urine tests. Usually only three small vials of blood. Painless. Over in less than a minute. Women sometimes need to go through a PAP smear which should be done once a year anyway for women over 35.

6. The cost depends from lab to lab. It ranges between Rs. 2000 to 5000 for all the STD tests. Cost of saving your life and your loved ones life! Worth it for peace of mind!

7. While you are giving blood, you might as well ask for the usual basic package added to get your sugar and liver and cholesterol etc tested also! 2-in-1 benefit! 😁

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Internet is the most awesome health education tool. Spreading awareness can slow down the spread of STD dramatically. Please see this wonderful video explaining how we can all help in reducing the spread of STDs in India.

Join the movement for safe swinging! Always ask for STD blood reports before the next big Swingers Party and always use condoms as double protection!

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Swingers placed third after young heterosexuals and gays in the disease tally. Female swingers had higher infection rates than male swingers.

Join the movement for safe swinging! Always ask for STD blood reports before the next big Swingers Party and always use condoms as double protection!

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Signs of STD in someone

The guys or couples who are most likely to have an STD are the ones who reply one of the following when you ask them about STD tests:

1. Don’t worry, I am very safe!

2. I am very clean, I always have safe sex

3. I have STD tests very regularly (but they don’t show the latest report)

4. I always use condoms so how can I have STD?

5. You don’t trust me?

6. Come on! Look me! I am so fit and healthy and I go to gym also regularly. I have no diseases.

7. I have only had sex with 2-3 people and they were all very clean.

8. I have only had sex with my husband / wife so I don’t need to do these tests

9. I am in the army, navy, etc or I am a pilot and we undergo tests regularly so no need to do more. (Where are the reports?)

10. I am telling you I am safe! Trust me! Why do you want to waste money?

11. We are husband and wife. Why should we do STD test?

These are all words of people who are subconsciously scared that they might have an STD and don’t want to know! A gentleman and a lady will confidently say that they are willing to undergo a blood tests anytime. In fact, they would be glad to hear that you are aware and are just as cautious as them!

Please read how above responses should be interpreted:

1. STDs like Herpes and Syphilis and HPV spread from skin to skin contact and oral sex. Condoms can’t protect you! Some of these are incurable!

2. Many STDs remain dormant inside body for months and years so no symptoms would show but person can give you the STD. Physical appearance of a person is no proof that they don’t have an STD.

3. If anyone claims to be tested regularly, ask them to show their report. If they don’t show or ignore it, you should be worried!

4. Don’t be fooled. Trust is a give and take. If someone wants to be trusted, they will show you their report on their own.

5. STD tests are not expensive and take hardly 5 minutes to give blood at any lab. You don’t even need to give your real name or identity. Use your FB identity.

6. Even if a person has had sex with very limited people, they can get STD. It takes one contact to spread the virus.

7. Even if a person is having sex with their spouse only, they can still get STD, as no one knows who their spouse has had sex with, now or before.

8. Army, Navy, or any pilots - they have medical tests but not all STDs. Most stop at HIV. What about Herpes, Syphilis etc? Ask to see reports and they will never show you because they have no reports.

9. Husband and wife is not a kavach from STD! Virus doesn’t know you are married! If you have met any couple before or if any of you had sex with anyone else even once, you should get tested!

Join the movement for safe swinging! Always ask for STD blood reports before the next big Swingers Party and always use condoms as double protection! There is no shame and it’s not about trust. It’s about your life! Don’t get fooled!

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