sam-speakerman

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thank you so much to all the daddies out there. I hope your twink(s) wish you a happy father's day today

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Not an invader zim post But why the fuck is Ford Pines so fine? Like i do not give a shit if he's old enough to be my grandfather! I'd still fuck with him like this man has a god body and i want it and him please

Like hello??? Id smash so hard

I just rewatched the show for the first time in years and my god i forgot how fine this man was.

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Hello god

Hi mortal

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Happy pride month to my fellow alloaros. This is a reminder to be loud and unapologetically yourself this month. Take up space. Don't worry about stereotypes. Ignore people who want to mislabel and misrepresent us. Being alloaro is wonderful and we belong here just like everyone else.

But if you're closeted or feel unsafe, just remember you're also important. Keep yourself safe and we'll be waiting for the day you can join us in the open.

💚🤍💛

[Do NOT tag as ace, alloace, asexual, or aroace. Do NOT derail to talk about asexuality or another aspec identity. This is a post for alloaros.]

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aromanticism deserves to be celebrated outside of the context of asexuality.

aromanticism deserves to be accepted and discussed without even mentioning asexuality.

aromantic allosexuality deserves to be celebrated.

aromanticism, on its own, with nothing else added, is fucking awesome.

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girl activities:

contemplating suicide

masturbating

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Say it with me, everyone.

ARO DOES NOT EQUAL ACE.

ACE DOES NOT EQUAL ARO.

SOMETIMES PEOPLE ARE BOTH. THAT DOES NOT MEAN THEY ARE THE SAME.

AROMANTIC AND ASEXUAL ARE DIFFERENT, AND SHOULD BE RESPECTED AS SUCH.

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Korra moodboard

For @sam-speakerman with themes of wildness, fire, and feeling powerful

PSD by camiladesign

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There's something I feel towards others that's not romantic or platonic or "love". It's something that's inherently tied to my alloaro identity. It's sexual attraction mixed with a deep longing for affection and closeness that I don't feel towards friends. Every label I've come across to describe it just doesn't feel right.

I've taken to simply describing it as "intimate" attraction. I want an intimate relationship. I think this is perfect because intimate means to be close, while also being a euphemism for sex.

I also think it would be hilarious to call the polyamorous version of intimate relationships "intimax"

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*rises from the depths of hell*

sup.

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when the autism is being an actual mental health problem instead of making me obsess over fictional characters again:

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how to tell someone youre aromantic (and not asexual):

"i'm aromantic" ❌

boring and too much room for assumption that youre also asexual

romance is beneath me, and you can be too ✅

more fun with only sexy interpretations

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[Image description: The "I bring a sort of vibe" meme template, edited to say "I bring a sort of "I fuck nasty" vibe to the aspec community that aroallo erasure don't really like". End description]

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you know what? shoutout to selfshippers who are just. not good with romance. to folks who are a little off-put by imagines that are all about kissing and cuddling. who try to think about all the mushy-gushy stuff and just can’t relate. who see their f/os and just want to vibe. shoutout to aromantic selfshippers. 💚🤍🩶🖤

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Imagine your villainous F/O taking you by the arm and whirling you around, thumping your back against the nearest wall. They pin you down, their hand tight on your shoulder, keeping you from squirming, keeping you still as they steal a kiss from you.

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My boyfriend maybe?

Hello!! I'm making a reblog game to look at other accounts to follow!!

Send a pic of 1 or 2 f/o's and i'll asign them an animal they remind me of!!

Example with my lovely wives:

Julia Argent -> Silver Fox!!

Lin Beifong -> Russian blue cat!!

Proship/Problematic shippers DNI