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sometimes i think im an insane sex freak until i realise that i dont have one hundred percent info on every human being ever

like yes my friends jark the penits too im not hypersexual i just bang

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italian sub said he wanted no limits masochism so hes leashed to his crate wailing while i break spaghetti noodles in half infront of him

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we ask that the defense not say "me when i lie" while the witness testifies

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i don’t know how to explain to you people that no matter what a country’s government is like i do not and will not support the US indiscriminately bombing that country’s civilians and i don’t know why that’s a controversial take tbh

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Okay but seriously… China gagged the whole world with this everybody else just pack it up it’s over

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being friends with freaks will have you saying "hear me out... happy gentle consensual sex" and then following it up with "yeah i'd rape him" like that's a normal thing to say

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the infuriating thing is that there is genuinely so much good queer literature out there, contemporary and not, but there is also a sizeable chunk of readers who think that a book only "counts" as good queer literature if it's a) unproblematic, b) contains romance as its central focus, and c) has the characters state their orientation and/or gender identity directly to the audience using socially acceptable 21st-century terms (as opposed to resorting to cowardly tactics such as Subtext and Themes)

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I think being autistic has made me realize how extremely hostile the environments we have designed are. And I don't mean "this environment is uniquely hostile to me because I am autistic" I mean that even normies are just existing in brutal, stagnant spaces, they have just internalized them as normal. We could have it all, we could live in such a beautiful and fascinating world, designed by humans and for humans who actually enjoy life and it's complexity and wonder. but even now it's like, seen as kinda hippy-dippy bullshit to have "excessive" indoor plants in a workspace or something

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Fred The Movie (2010) dir. Clay Weiner

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it really does make me think that a LOT of people are just gender non conforming and afraid of it

like ain't no way that many people are cis and have no trans thoughts

One really weird thing transphobic cis women will say is something to the effect of “I was a tomboy, thank god it was before the transgender craze. They would made me transition.” Like, probably not, girl. As you are a cis woman who has never communicated any form of gender dysphoria. It makes it really obvious that they think being transgender is just conforming to different gender roles. There is an ocean between a little girl who likes traditionally masculine fashion and has traditionally masculine interests and a child that is transgender. They are not a slippery slope. They don’t push you down the slide of transgenderism if you cut your hair short when you’re 12.

There are so many trans men who were never tomboys, who were the picture of the ‘perfect little girl’ and genuinely enjoyed traditionally feminine hobbies and expressing themselves in ways associated with femininity. It confuses and angers cis people when they come out as trans because they only see gender as a role to perform and not an identity. If you’re truly a woman, you’re generally not susceptible to randomly turning into a man. If you’re truly a man, you’re generally not susceptible to randomly turning into a woman.

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if you're writing and find yourself thinking 'this is too weird/gross/offputting/esoteric/ambitious/catered to my specific interests + sure to push away a broader audience' that is the devil speaking and it is a lie. you are already firmly on the right path and you need to double down

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Colt 1911, chambered in .38 Super

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I used to (sort of still do?) deeply deeply mourn the fact that I was never a girl in the way that I never had that unspoken rule silent understanding kind of relationship with anybody the way that girls (especially high school girls) had when I was in HS

but like whatever if I was a cis girl I'd get hated on anyway 😭😭😭 I wish I had the experience of like going to the bathroom in pairs and having boys wonder about me like I'm some mysterious being

Hater moment but I hate the post that's like "girls always protect other girls even if they don't like each other uwu" like no yall fucking didn't the moment that girl was poor or autistic or fat or gay or trans or not white or even just kinda weird. Like I was fucking there why are we lying

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i kind of feel like if you take "don't bomb iran" as an endorsement of the iranian government, you're not intellectually ready to engage in conversations about real-world politics. Go talk about steven's universe instead