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TRANSGLITTLE ;;

a term for those who id as a glittle in a trans way

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got a laptop and decided to check how my blogs looked on computer and realized that like all the reds in the intro post of this blog look different

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Lowk forget this blog is here sometimes

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Trans-Kris-Dreemurr

A transcharacter id for those who identify as Kris dreemurr from deltarune

Trans-darkworld-kris

A transcharacter id for those who identify as Kris dreemurr from deltarune, but specifically in their dark world form

If either of these have already been coined please consider this a recoin!!

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I don't really know who needs to read this, but some transharmful people are the kindest and sweetest people you will ever meet, and that doesn't make them any less valid. In the same way that some transharmed people can be violent or abusive, people are much more than their labels; they are individuals, and not all of them are willing or interested in being just a way for you to fulfill your fantasies

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Day 7: Community

Compassionqueer

A blankqueer stance for individuals who take harsher stances on things that empathyqueer individuals may be more passive about, not set/neutral on, or (dis)agree with circumstancially. This is intended for individuals with hypo/no empathy, fluid/flux empathy, or other struggles with empathy that may make the term "empathy" in empathyqueer resonate with one less strongly as opposed to "compassion"; a manufactured empathy of sorts.

Favours:

All blankqueer, stances, etc.

In the sense that one is in favour of everyone believing what one wants - whether an empathyqueer individual agrees, or not.

All dis/enordered individuals

Including medically unrecognised

Including all forms of plurality

Anarchy, communism, and/or socialism

Anti-authority beliefs

Bodily autonomy

Including pro-affirming care (gender, species, ability, etc.), pro-choice, pro-consent/consensual contact (not necessarily/strictly pro-contact), pro-youth liberation.

Including individual's rights to make "bad" decisions. Ex: body mod, CNC, conabuse, consang, SH, suicide.

Community

Most/all species are naturally social/community driven, so community building is a basic necessity for most.

Contact abolishion

Deconstruction and/or reconstruction of CPS, DoE, police forces, etc.

Deconstruction and/or reconstruction of DSM/diagnosises

Drugs/drug usage

Emancipation and independence

Fiction freedom/pro-fiction

Kindness

Kink at pride

Kink, paraphilia, and fetishes

Including the big three.

Including the "gross" ones.

Including (ex or not) offenders

This does not mean compassionqueerd have to engage in every kink, paraphilia, and/or fetish.

Individualism/freedom of expression

Including the right to identify how one wants.

Including freedom of speech.

Love/relationships

Pacifism when possible

Retaliation

Revision of crimes, felonies, laws, etc.

Romanticisation/fetishisation of mental/physical abilities

Usually as long as the romanticised/fetishised individual is fine with it - with the exception of when one is not made aware of it.

Self-care

In terms of caring for/centering oneself instead of others - without necessarily devaluing/dismissing others.

Sex education

In order to aid in everyone's bodily autonomy: information about what individuals are getting into is necessary to even begin the debate of certain sex-related topics.

Sex positivity

Taking stances on things after seeing multiple sides/stances, and taking the time to explore nuance

Trans identities

Violence when needed or wanted

Up to the individual:

Cult/fult/religion

Recovery/rehabilitation

Perhaps a compassionqueer has a complex stance; only being pro-recovery when it is chosen, but due to the nature of compassionqueer being largely against medicalisation, normativity, etc.: there may be a lean to the anti- side of one's beliefs.

TIRF/radical feminism outside of TERF/SWERF/etc. groups

Against:

Authority figures

Bullying/cringe culture

Capitalism/fascism/government oppression

Consistent progressivism

Conversion therapy

Including for (disordered or not) paraphilic individuals

Death penalty

Demonisation of mental/physical abilities

Exclusionism in general

Not strictly about discriminatory exclusion.

Freedom of consequences

This loops back into the pro-retaliation belief

Gatekeeping, infighting, etc. that goes against community building

Genocide for any reason

Harassment

Labelling identities as "good" or "bad" faith

Medicalisation of any kind

Including (forced) diagnosis, MAPmedicalism, transmedicalism, sysmedicalism, etc.

Moral grandstanding transID alternatives

Non-consensual harm

Including (cis)hateful activity that becomes non-consensual.

Normativity/conformity

Such as allonormativity, amatonormativity, cisnormativity, complemantaranism, heteronormativity, mononormativity, etc.

Including the general concept of normalcy

Prison/rehab/etc.

Purity culture/censorship

Sharing personal information

"I don't owe you anything" stance

Obviously this is flexible to when an individual is fine with sharing the information.

SWERF/anti-sex work beliefs

Tying morality into legality/legality into morality

Use by moral grandstanders

Compassionqueer are not "saviours" looking to recruit others. Ex: you will never hear a stanceless compassionqueer berating contact stances, telling individuals what the moral choice is, etc.

In general:

I won't start shit, but I'm not afraid to finish it.

Taglist: @2timequeer, @datakeep, @escortedescape, @fagcvnt-bah, @jestingjellyjamboree, @loverboyvergil, @perma-pup, @permamanipulover, @radically-katrielle, @radsodapop, @truebluemagiicc, @vocalux, @werdothestrange

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I kinda want to have a family dynamic where I'm the younger one and the other person is the older sibling/parent

Idk where I'd get that though

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reclusive child with elaborate imagination and maladaptive daydreaming to plural teenager who doesn’t identify with thier own body anymore pipeline is unfortunatelg real

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I don't understand how people use delusional as an insult then act like they're not ableist. You know calling people delusional isn't an insult right. You know that it's just further stigmatizing people that do have delusions right.

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Hmmm

> Want to be a character you like

> Consistently think about character

> Character influences your identity slightly

> Start using characters name

> Start using related aesthetics to characters

Might be otherhearted? Or like. Otherlink.? I'm not that knowledgeable when it comes to terms like this

Also transcharacter is there.

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Been extra tired today

I've been sleeping long enough but I think it's from staying up way too long constantly (15-20 hours awake) so i think all that is catching up to me

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Thinking about neoreligions, specifically creating one

I want it to be centered around nature and have some elements of witchcraft (or smth like that) , and also have shifting be one of the beliefs

Might make it, I don't know if that's a main blog thing though.

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That kinda felt like a main blog post

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Tip for beings learning languages to transition

Duolingo isn't the app for gaining fluency, it works better like a side project/just for fun. But even then it's shown to be not accurate, also it's been using AI for translation and other features (link 1 link 2)

Currently I'm using Busuu to learn Russian and its gotten me so much farther in the span of 5-10 days than over 2 weeks in Duolingo. (Website, Android app, Apple App)

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Me with tupla and histronic

Spelling Quirk

When one has a specfic word (or words) that they spell in a different way than normal. Similar to typing quirk but only applies to a single word (or small number of words) rather than ones entire typing style.

For example I spell kowala with a w even tho the "proper" way to spell it is with no w.

Like typing quirks, the reason behind a spelling quirk can greatly differ. It could be a simple prefrence/for fun, it could be used to affirm an identity, it could be connected to some form of disorder, etc. There can also be variation in how hard it is to stop using a spelling quirk.

For me, I'm not entirely sure what orginally caused my spelling quirk but I continue to follow it out of compulsion and will become panicked and frustated if I attempt to spell kowala "properly".

Projected Spelling Quirk

When somebody in some way projects their spelling quirk onto others.

This includes:

Wanting others to use their spelling quirk

Seeing others as already using their spelling quirk

Beliving their spelling to actually be the "proper" spelling or in some way better than the "proper" spelling

etc

A Projected Spelling Quirk can greatly vary in their reasoning. It could be a simple prefrence/for fun, it could be used to affirm an identity, it could be connected to some form of disorder, etc. The ability to tolerate seeing their spelling quirk not be used by others can also differ.

For me, I get mildly uncomfortable whenever I see kowala spelt without the w. I prefer people to use the with w spelling when talking to me but I don't require it. I do require it tho if your specfically refering to my name or identity e.g if your saying "Fae's name is Kowala and fae is a kowala therian" then I need the with w spelling. I do also believe my spelling to be superior.

Projected Typing Quirk

Same as projected spelling quirk but with a typing quirk instead.

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you know how gender systems are a thing (link: lgbtqia.wiki)

there's a age system too with clouds (link: transid.org)

so what if we start making stuff like that for other transids

like for example there could be a transplural/transsinglet one for plural related transids

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Idea what if we created new labels for how close you are to someone and attraction labels with that because platonic/romantic don't work at all with us

We tried making this once but forgot and then it got deleted since it was in our old blogs drafts