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BDSM gets a bad rep as like a violent (male) dom pushing the boundaries of a reluctant (female) sub but in my experience it's a lot of subs with wildly elaborate fantasies screaming shit like "PUT MY ASS IN THE CHILI" while a new dom is like "Okay I think, we are reaching yellow for me,"

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pov im pushing you into the wall with my hips

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hey idk if y'all know this but dont put cigarettes out on dry skin without being okay with an actual fuck ton of damage. lemme explain:

i see too many people (mostly new doms with too much to prove) reduce cigarette play to ONLY fully extinguishing the cig on dry skin. i say dry as in "no one spit there first." this is a third degree burn. it will melt past ur actual skin tissue and reach fat and muscle. i once knew a girl who fully lost motion in three fingers because of having a cigarette put out on the back of her hand. Similarly i knew someone whose kink inflicted cig burn got seriously fucking infected, and because of how deep the burn goes - the infection almost got into his blood stream.

i seriously seriously suggest you start with talking about the implications of long lasting, serious tissue damage to your dom/sub before EVER doing this; and especially never out of no where with someone you have never got consent for this for. The tissue damage is lasting, and awful. its comparable to a deep gouge, or a serious chemical burn.

So. How do u practice cigarette play safely? well, to start, as you would with ANY fucking kink, talk it out. Make sure both sides of the act are fully aware and fully consentinf. Next; there are actually a lot of really fun and safe ways to use cigarette burns.

Firstly, if its about pain (and if you watch older european bdsm films u will already know this one) brushing the cherry (lit tip) of a cigarette across the skin in short, deliberate bursts. this induces both pain and shock, but leaves little to no lasting damage. be careful as to position the cig on its side, and glide across the skin. if the cherry snags the skin and it ashes, this can become unsexy fast. something about a loose hot coal is harder to control yourself under.

SECONDLY, remember how i specified dry? well, spit and piss freaks out there rejoice because simply pooling some liquid on a spot before putting out a cigarette will nulify a lot of the fire before it can reach the skin. this has the same dominating effect, and involves spitting on ur sub, which everyone loves. you can also pool spit into the end of your/their tongue and put it out there. This one rarely hurts if done right.

if you want a scar, then thats okay. just make sure you know the risks, and practice safe kink. wash the spot immediately afterwards. Make sure the doms hands have been recently sanitized/washed, and that its done in a somewhat clean enviroment. alleyways are fine if ur aftercare game is godly. bandage the wound up as soon as the act is over.

do not neglect this, especially as a dom. It is your fucking place to make sure you aren't doing legitimate, unwanted harm to your sub. failing to do that much, the bare minimum, is honestly fucking pathetic. dont be pathetic. take care of ur subs. take care of urself! nobody wants to find out that what they thought was a consensual kink act was actually awful for your partner.

love yall be safe!

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ROULETTE: BERLIN, Reel Queer, 2009

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It's difficult to concentrate on escaping when Ma'am keeps zapping the vibes⚡️🤷‍♀️😈

#Dommelife #sub

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You know when you're fucking a trans guy and he's leaking those thick nearly opaque white juices and you're suddenly absurdly proud of him because it looks quite a bit like semen? It's like yes good boy look at you cumming for me look at your cum

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Which begs the question, how do I sign up to be a nice Jewish soy boy bondage fashion model?

@delusionsofgender by @boundleatherzine

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feeling generous 💕 underwear made by osutinxxx

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Can packers expire? I hear some silicone expires so I’m curious.

autumn says:

takes off trans hat and puts on polymer scientist hat

after the silicone has polymerized, its not gonna expire. You can absolutely degrade it, but you're not gonna degrade it by general use/wear. Silicone polymers are extremely resistant against heat, and a lot of chemicals. Yeah they will probably degrade, but this is over the span of years of heavy use (I don't think just wearing a packer would constitute heavy use). The expiry that I think you might be thinking of is uncured silicone, which can "expire."

hope this helps. maybe other people who follow the account will have other experiences with them though.

edit: i really hope you aren't exposing (by exposing I mean like, dipping it in beakers of these solvents) your packers to the chemicals that I'm thinking of, that would be very weird, don't wear your packer after you submerge it in DCM or chloroform or like hot acid, that's not good for your skin.

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dog dyke 🦴

18+ | MINORS/CIS MEN DNI | I’M A DYKE

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izblakil

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Good morning Ma'am, would you like this cuffed and collared subby serving you tea and canapés on the lawn today?✨️😊

#Mistressandslave #Dommelife

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annoying thing about sex in the dark especially when you're topping is the fumbling around Tryna find the hole it makes me feel like an idiot ogre like "thog top. thog fuck boy hole." and the cute little boy I'm Tryna fuck is like "nope, not quite... a bit lower..." and thog gets embarassed that her cock can't instinctively sniff out the hole like a truffle hog. doubly so when it slips out but the cheeks feel so good that you start rutting mindlessly anyway without realising you're not even in like "thog like pussy, thog positively grunt, thog so close baby boy..." and then "babe... that's just my ass cheeks....." like ok guess thog kill self now

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the men in gay porn are either completely silent or they have manufactured, forced moans. so rarely is there any in between. Moan! Whimper! Beg! Talk to each other! I am pleading with you. I’m not the kind of man who can get off to just visual in a video alone. It’s knowing that the people in the video are enjoying themselves and feeling pleasure that stirs up excitement.

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I wish kinky sex ed wasn't so stigmatized even among left-leaning "sex positive" circles. Everyone's all "uwu I'm a sub I'll do anything you ask" okay mommy wants you to read The New Bottoming Book so you learn how to sub without hurting yourself since your sex ed up to this point is porn and your ex boyfriend Jared who liked to choke you incorrectly

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God to have some casual play would be nice