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secretbidentity · 5 years ago
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I am not trans but what I have learned, a person can be both trans and nb. This is because some define the term trans as being "something else than what they were defined as at birth". So as person that was defined as a boy or a girl at birth and who now identifies as non binary or something similar can call themselves trans because they now identify as their true self
idk if this is in reference to anything ive ever said on this blog bc its been years and i cant remember but i totally agree!!!
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secretbidentity · 5 years ago
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welcome!!!!!! this is long overdue. i’ve been promising myself i’d made this forever. so here it is - the ultimate masterpost of wlw (women loving women) books. not all characters are lesbians, some are bi or pan, though all books feature f/f relationships and/or themes. there are 150+ recommendations, so enjoy!
YOUNG ADULT CONTEMPORARY:
the miseducation of cameron post by emily m. danforth
keeping you a secret by julie anne peters
grl2grl by julie anne peters
lies my girlfriend told me by julie anne peters
far from xanadu by julie anne peters
rubyfruit jungle by rita mae brown
annie on my mind by nancy garden
kissing kate by lauren myracle
everything leads to you by nina lacour
dare truth or promise by paula boock
gravel queen by tea benduhn
her name in the sky by kelly quindlen
tell me again how a crush should feel by sara farizan
no one needs to know by amanda grace
my best friend, maybe by caela carter
dirty london by kelley york
ask the passengers by a.s. king
empress of the world by sara ryan
pages for you by sylvia brownrigg
waiting in the wings by melissa brayden
breathing underwater by lu vickers
hood by emma donoghue
between you & me by marisa calin
starting from here by lisa jenn bigelow
about a girl by sarah mccarry
the flywheel by erin gough
the necessary hunger by nina revoyr
the house you pass on the way by jacqueline woodson
about a girl by joanne horniman
gravity by leanne lieberman
another life altogether by elaine beale
great by sara benincasa
the gravity between us by kristen zimmer
taking flight by siera maley
the road to her by k.e. payne
the summer i wasn’t me by jessica verdi
unspeakabe by abbie rushton
beauty of the broken by tawni waters
read me like a book by liz kessler
starring kitty by keris stainton
holding back by mila kerr
cam girl by leah raeder
not otherwise specified by hannah moskowitz
an unstill life by kate larkindale
look both ways by alison cherry
a story of now by emily o’beirne
my summer of love by helen cross
marionette by t.b. markinson
the difference between you and me by madeleine george
the bermudez triangle by maureen johnson
girl walking backwards by bett williams
FANTASY/PARANORMAL/SCIENCE FICTION:
the dark wife by sarah diemer
twixt by sarah diemer
the witch sea by sarah diemer
sugar moon by sarah diemer
far by sarah diemer
carmilla by joseph sheridan le fanu
ash by malinda lo
huntress by malinda lo
adaption by malinda lo
the traitor baru cormorant by seth dickinson
karen memory by elizabeth bear
bleeding earth by kaitlin ward
lady knight by l.j. baker
the second sister by rae d. magdon
wild by meghan o’brien
santa olivia by jacqueline carey
everafter by nell stark
iron & velvet by alexis hall
silver kiss by naomi clark
with her body by nicola griffith
ammonite by nicole griffith
the windup girl by paolo bacigalupi
a harvest of ripe figs by shira glassman
seven by jennifer diemer
braided by elora bishop
crumbs by elora bishop
labyrinth by pearl north
the drowning girl by caitlin r. kiernan
the red tree by caitlin r. kiernan
the big lie by julie mayhew
the first twenty by jennifer lavoie
the girl in the road by monica byrne
every dark desire by fiona zedde
CRIME/MYSTERY/THRILLER:
black iris by leah raeder
dangerous girls by abigail haas
far from you by tess sharpe
slow river by nicola griffith
the blue place by nicola griffith
stay by nicola griffith
vanished by e.e. cooper
keepers of the cave by gerri hill
hunter’s way by gerri hill
child of doors by j.s. little
scars by cheryl rainfield
trust me, i’m trouble by mary elizabeth summer
out of order by casey lawrence
reconstructing amelia by kimberly mccreight
vicious little darlings by katherine easer
HISTORICAL:
the paying guests by sarah waters
tipping the velvet by sarah waters
affinity by sarah waters
the night watch by sarah waters
fingersmith by sarah waters
the price of salt by patricia highsmith (also known as carol)
wildthorn by jane eagland
silhouette of a sparrow by molly beth griffin
lies we tell ourselves by robin talley
patience & sarah by isabel miller
the hours by michael cunningham
the well of loneliness by radclyffe hall
mrs dalloway by virginia woolf
the world unseen by shamam sarif
map of ireland by stephanie grant
hild by nicole griffith
honey girl by lisa freeman
letters never sent by sandra moran
fall on your knees by ann-marie macdonald
the last nude by ellis avery
the teahouse fire by ellis avery
olivia by dorothy strachey
the friendly young ladies by mary renault
moon at nine by deborah ellis
the marriage recital by katharine grant
the crimson ribbon by katherine clements
the other typist by suzanne rindell
days of grace by catherine hall
desert of the heart by jane rule
ADULT FICTION:
sing you home by jodi picoult
and playing the role of herself by k.e. lane
i can’t think straight by shamim sarif
stone butch blues by leslie feinberg
curious wine by katherine v. forrest
the color purple by alice walker
jericho by ann mcman
oranges are not the only fruit by jeanette winterson
gut symmetries by jeanette winterson
why be happy when you could be normal? by jeanette winterson
written on the body by jeanette winterson
where we belong by catherine ryan hyde
at the water’s edge by harper bliss
behind the green curtain by riley lashea
96 hours by georgia beers
all that matters by susan x. meagher
give me a reason by lyn gardner
ice by lyn gardner
my last season with you by s.v.c. ricketts
taking the long way by lily r. mason
nightwood by djuna barnes
living at night by mariana romo-carmona
choices by nancy toder
cassandra at the wedding by dorothy baker
landing by emma donoghue
stir-fry by emma donoghue
pitifully ugly by robin alexander
COMICS BOOKS/GRAPHIC NOVELS:
blue is the warmest colour by julie maroh
fun home by alison bechdel
dykes to watch out for by alison bechdel
honor girl by maggie trash
skim by mariko tamaki
potential by ariel shrag
strangers in paradise by terry moore
NON-FICTION:
odd girls and twilight lovers by lillian faderman
surpassing the love of men by lillian faderman
chloe plus olivia by lillian faderman
to believe in women by lillian faderman
sapphistries by leila j. rupp
inseparable by emma donoghue
passions between women by emma donoghue
dear john, i love jane by candace walsh
a woman like that by joan larkin
aimee & jaguar by erica fischer
the femme mystique by leslea newman
boots of leather, slippers of gold by elizabeth lapovsky kennedy
different daughters by marcia m. gallo
between women by sharon marcus
charity and sylvia by rachel hope cleves
lesbian culture: an anthology by julia penelope
alice + freda forever by alexis coe
behind the mask by matthew dennison
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secretbidentity · 5 years ago
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You completely spoiled me. Where else I'm gonna find another epic, beautiful and bittersweet F/F slow burn romance that is as well-done as the one in TPOTOT? And yes I love a F/F retelling of Pride&Prejudice in fantasy. ❤️
I love that so many people have compared it to Pride and Prejudice. It wasn’t actually a deliberate retelling, but I really like the interpretation!
And for more excellent F/F, may I recommend:
The Afterward by E. K. Johnston
The Circle by Sara B. Elfgren and Mats Strandberg (the wlw romance doesn’t fully kick off until the third book, but it’s one of the best I’ve ever read) 
The Deathless Girls by Kiran Millwood Hargrave 
Girls of Paper and Fire by Natasha Ngan
In the Vanishers’ Palace by Aliette de Bodard 
The Seafarer’s Kiss by Julia Ember
She Rises by Kate Worsley 
The True Queen by Zen Cho
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secretbidentity · 5 years ago
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wlw book recs
All Out: The No-Longer-Secret Stories of Queer Teens Throughout the Ages 
Amelia Westlake
Everything Leads to You
Fingersmith
Ghost Wife: A Memoir of Love and Defiance
Giant Days
Heavy Vinyl
Juliet Takes a Breath
Kissing the Witch
Leah on the Offbeat
Lies We Tell Ourselves
Long Red Hair
Lumberjanes
Not Your Sidekick
Our Own Private Universe
Petticoats and Promises
Princess Princess Ever After
Skim
Stray City
Summer of Salt
Tell Me Again How A Crush Should Feel
The Flywheel
The Last Summer of the Garrett Girls
The One Hundred Nights of Hero
The Paying Guests
The Pearl Thief
The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo
The Tea Dragon Society
The True Queen
Tipping the Velvet
Toil & Trouble: 15 Tales of Women & Witchcraft
Wayfarers
Wild Beauty
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secretbidentity · 6 years ago
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Pastel Pride Flags
A lot of LGBT+ flags are bright, eye strainy, and hurt to work with, and since i work with them all the time I decided to make some softer pastel versions.
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These are free to use, but please reblog if you do! If theres any you’d like but don’t see here, feel free to send an ask or message!
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secretbidentity · 6 years ago
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*:・゚✧*lgbt headers*:・゚✧*
➜ like/reblog if you save them or Credit to @gomzofthrones on twitter
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secretbidentity · 6 years ago
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Can’t believe my standards are so low a snail could jump over them and yet here I am still being single
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secretbidentity · 6 years ago
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Be yourself. Love who you want. Be free.
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Pansexual, Asexual, Aromantic aesthetics. Pride 2019.
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secretbidentity · 6 years ago
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LGBT+ Pride Switches!
My next set 😍These were super fun to make! 
Like them? Get them on Redbubble!
••please reblog from the original source. do not repost my artwork••
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secretbidentity · 6 years ago
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Bi characters + saying bi(sexual) [part 1 of 2
From left to right: Petra Solano (Jane the Virgin, 5x01), Rosa Diaz (Brooklyn Nine-Nine, 5x10), Michael Guerin (Roswell: New Mexico, 1x11), Grace Choi (Black Lightning, 1x04), Maya (Crazy Ex-Girlfriend, 1x14), Anna Taggaro (One Tree Hill, 2x15), Thirteen (House M.D., 6x17), Darryl Whitefeather (Crazy Ex-Girlfriend, 1x14), Miles Hollingsworth (Degrassi: Next Class, 4x03), Callie Torres (grey’s anatomy, 11x05)
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secretbidentity · 6 years ago
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secretbidentity · 6 years ago
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Sup, my name is Ally Hills
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The duality of Enbies( nonbinaries)💛⚪💜🖤
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secretbidentity · 6 years ago
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lgbt+ culture is being touch starved but so unused to human contact that you don’t know how to properly react to or initiate it
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secretbidentity · 6 years ago
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Do I look gay enough? Ft cut lip
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secretbidentity · 6 years ago
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I need a girl who will binge watch old shows with me & cuddle and just forget the world.
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Mall Emo
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