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in another universe, i'm pretty and easy enough to be loved by those i love

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I want you to remember:

The fascists hate you too and they just will pretend otherwise until after they've killed the rest of us, before they turn on you.

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This whole blog is just a conversation I am having with myself

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if you're subscribed to Microsoft word, you probably received an email recently saying they're upping their prices. Like, a lot. ($9.99/month instead of $6.99)

guess what though? you can log into your account, click Cancel Subscription, and get the option to continue your subscription at the same price WITHOUT their bullshit AI.

That's right, the new, higher price is actually a different subscription that includes AI that everyone is being opted into by force! What a cool and fun product that clearly everyone wants.

you can also choose to buy Word 2024 without AI for a single lump sum that will be yours in perpetuity, with no updates, for one computer.

Check your subscription if you need Word for work! Don't get duped into paying for something you might not even want

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bitches will hear a song and be like 'this makes me feel like i have a gaping hole in my chest' and then they put it on repeat. its me im bitches

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So everyone talks about praise kink right? But I think there's something to be said for a reassurance kink.

"That's it, you're doing it right, darling, don't worry."

Any guidance through even the simplest of tasks.

"I'm here, I'm not going anywhere."

Feeling weight, like a hand resting on a shoulder or thigh.

Making eye contact and getting a smile and nod back that says, you're doing great, keep going.

Being hushed or swayed while receiving back rubs.

Being fully surrounded by their body while they say, "it's okay now, I'm here, you're safe."

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Bumblebee on Lenten rose flower, Helleborus

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“what radicalised you?” basic empathy

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sun soaked ☀️

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this isn’t a tumblr account, this is a historical record of how insane I am

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PSA that executive dysfunction can also impair a person's ability to know/assess whether behavior is socially acceptable or not. It might take some of us longer to learn, especially for those of us who already struggle to read social cues. Some of us may (read: probably will) always struggle to some degree when it comes to our behavior.

I feel like this is a big thing that gets ignored in discussions about mental health/neurodivergency and stigma, and it's one of the most stigmatized symptoms (just think about how often we're outcast from social circles in every single setting).

You can't de-stigmatize mental health until you start being more accepting and compassionate towards weirdos who are accidentally awkward or rude.

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