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why does no one talk about calculator in dcu online

like.. idk what it is about him but??? dcu online calculator is a straight up Daddy and there’s nothing you can do to convince me otherwise

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AI disturbance overlays for those who don't have Ibis paint premium. found them on tiktok

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making bracelets based off of your f/o >>

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How self shipping feels

Edit: pro.ship dni. Op is a minor

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hey btw there’s nothing wrong with shipping your ocs with canon characters. or shipping yourself with a canon character. even if you have a crush on the character. you are hurting literally no one. you can do whatever you want. cringe culture is dead

edit: proshippers this post is not for you. go away

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imagine your f/o helping you start early holiday/birthday shopping and helping you keep track of who’s gifts are for who and for which holiday/birthday

‼️ prosh1ppers/comsh1ppers dni ‼️

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Shout out to Selfshippers who are Aroace! You guys are genuinely amazing and shouldn't be told that you are not Aroace just because you ship yourself with fictional characters!

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imagine your f/o celebrating good news with you! you walk in the room and they only need to take one look at your face to know you're excited about something. you spill the details to them, and they light up like the sun, thrilled to hear about whatever's got you so giddy. maybe they offer a hug, or a high five, or even to take you out to a celebratory dinner! whatever it is, they're happy that you're happy, and they want to share your joy with you :]

proshippers/comshippers/any variants do not interact

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For those who don't like the fireworks / can't handle them

Your f/o would do whatever they can to help you

Weither it be bringing you noise cancelling headphones, your favorite drink / snack, a weighted blanket

They will hold you, if you like psychical touch, until it's all over or when you let go, if you don't like it, then they'll keep as close as you want them too until you need space

They will remind you constantly that it'll go away soon and that you're safe with them, just being there for you if you got triggered by a firework

They'll help distract your mind by doing your hobbies with you or watching a video you enjoy

Or if you just need to cry about the sad part of it all, they'll be more than willing to lend a shoulder for you

pr0ship, c0mship, pr0fic, neutrals dni. do not re-upload, credit for ib.

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Rant about the selfship community

I love selfshipping so much but the community has become so toxic

Like there is so much drama which isn’t good for me mentally

And I don’t want to always worry that I’m accidentally interacting with a pr0shipper

Not to mention the whole ass drama where pr0shippers decided to defend an actual p3do (who has publicly admitted to being one) and going out to harass mutuals of mine even tho they are “anti harassment”

But they’re like “it’s ok cause they’re not going after kids currently” like….No

Defending and romanticizing inc3st p3do r*pe etc etc in fiction is sick and if y’all had morals y’all would understand that

Also people are making everything a popularity contest to see how many likes and reblogs you can get

When it literally doesn’t matter

Not to mention the community slowly pushing out minors

Most of the selfship blogs I’ve come across are “minor dni” blogs or say they don’t want to interact with minors

Honestly the community has a whole is becoming more toxic

Lots of people are leaving due to the toxicity of the community

Why can’t we go back to when we just shipped ourselves with characters for fun?

This is what the selfshipping is supposed to be about

Not drama not popularity etc etc

Can we please go back to when the community was nice like that?

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self-shippers! just a quick reminder that your f/o doesn't care about your identity; in fact, they embrace your identity! it doesn't matter if you're straight, bi, gay, transgender- they don't care. they love you the same way as they've always been when they first fell in love with you! never forget that you're loved by your f/os in every way possible!

[proship etc etc go away please]

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Hey if you're someone who gets very noise sensitive when they're overwhelmed or stressed your f/os will be there. They'll make sure you're in a comfortable and silent space so you're able to unwind. If anyone even breathes a bit too loudly they are death staring them across the room. They would always be patient with you and do whatever they can to make you as comfortable as can be.

Pro.ship dni please and thank you. Op is a minor

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happy pride month!

happy pride month everyone !!! I hope everyone has a safe and happy pride month- whether you’re celebrating irl with friends and family or whether you’re celebrating with your f/o(s) !!!

❌ proshippers DNI ‼️

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+emojis

Happy Pride! 🏳️‍🌈

More flags coming soon!

Free to use, please @ me when you use them, I wanna seeeee

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Hello everyone, there's something that I'd like to share with everyone here, because I believe it will help a lot of people.

For us folks who engage in imaginary worlds, with canon characters or our own creations, who have deep conversation with their faves in their heads or need their comfort character's shoulder to cry on, there is an unavoidable phenomenon which I took the liberty of naming "Character burnout".

"Character Burnout" essentially means that you have no energy in order to visualise your character(s) in your mind or engage with them on your imagination. I've come to the conclusion that it can be a result of an actual burnout (mental) or it can be irrelevant to mental state and your mind is overwhelmed. Simply put, it is the way your mind kindly asks you for a small break to charge its batteries. After all, picturing an entirely different reality needs a lot of energy.

Now, the reason I'm saying all this, is not for the sake of just mentioning it. I understand that a lot of us are extremely attached to our comfort characters/ f/o(s) or whatever you prefer calling them, myself included, and this situation can be very stressful. Personally, I panic, thinking that I've lost interest to my favourite characters or "grew out of it" to the point I become unable to function at all, but, after a small amount of time I can connect with them again.

So, when you experience this, please don't jump into conclusions or let fear overcome you, the connection will come back again as enjoyable as ever, you just need to be patient and give your mind the time it deserves to recharge in order to take you places again. It may take days, or weeks, but the love we have for our characters is never gone.

If anyone wants to talk about this, please do speak your mind, and I'm open if someone wants to discuss it with me as well.

So um that's it, and and sorry for the long post!

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I'd do anything for them (found family f/os)