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hey everyone my blog got a bit too big 4 my tastes so i am moving to @originofl0ve!! pls follow me there if ur so inclined

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ty and rip, caterpillar king :’(

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i have too many followers and ive had this blog since i was a cringe anti kink  exclusionist discourser in 2018 i kinda wanna remake

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they should make grocery stores without the sensory overload

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the celebrity everyone tells me i look like is king princess and ik they mean well but thats not a compliment guhtijohwirtujogpra

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should i start mad men or twin peaks

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As a lesbian i will always relate more to trans women than cishet women. Made to feel disgusting and predatory in women's spaces? Check. Berated and mocked for our relation to sexuality and womanhood? Check. Hated for our "deviancy from the norm"? Check. Every single essay about womanhood by a trans woman--and especially, especially by trans wlw--has spoken more to me than anything written by a cis straight woman ever could. T*rfs can take that to the bank.

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hmm should i bleach my eyebrows

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Actual issues we should discuss about when it comes to pride:

events still being held during a pandemic

the presence of cops, politicians, and military branches in the parade and at other events (and how they prey on LGBT youth for recruitment at these events)

accessibility for disabled LGBT people

events being taken over by non-LGBT identities and corporations

some events and parades platforming TERFs or Drop The T groups

the omnipresence of alcohol at events (related to the corporate take over)

how many LGBT people cannot afford to go to ticketed pride events

the prevalence of the word queer at these events, considering it is still very triggering for many LGBT people

the complete sanitization and de-radicalization of pride so that no one associates it with its actual history and purpose

how pride is being used to sell shit and how pride month is officially just free advertising

how whitewashed the actual events are and i mean this literally–the focus is often on white celebrities performing shows and a white take on Stonewall’s history with very little support for groups of LGBT POC besides lip service like using the Philly Pride flag

The discourse we have every year instead:

is pride too horny?

it is too horny, you evil deviants

i saw a woman with no shirt on and a man in a leather harness i’m calling the cops

think about the children

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obsessed w my friend who runs the insta for the boba place they work at and does things like wish people a happy lesbian visibility week and repost my memes from the official shop account 

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should i start wellbutrin the same week i have to start a month of sobriety for work i feel like that would be fun 

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Sylvia Plath “Feeding blueberries to a Canadian deer” from: The Letters of Sylvia Plath Volume II: 1956–1963

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hey anyone whos successfully gotten an hrt prescription while nonbinary, did you have to dress / claim to be more gender conforming / binary trans for them to believe you? 

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actually nvmd my toxic trait is liking that you want me i want you baby dua lipa song 

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i never had the double helix structure revealed to me through dreams but i have dreamed about three separate exes and ran into them the next morning so who’s rly clairvoyant

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