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How I "Deal" With Cloth Diapers in Public

The most common question I've gotten asked since talking about how my swap to cloth diapers is how I deal with wearing cloth diapers in public, and honestly? I don’t really deal with it at all. If someone notices, they notice, and that's okay! It’s not like I’m actively trying to keep it a secret at this point in my life anyway, and I think anyone who has known me for any length of time knows that any idea of sacrificing comfort and absorbency for more subtlety just doesn’t really make sense to me.

When I switched to cloth, I knew they’d be bulkier and more noticeable than disposables, even with the boosted setups that I used to do, but I honestly made my peace with that pretty quickly. In fact, I think that’s part of why I like them so much, because I’ve never really prioritised subtlety anyway, so why not get more comfort and more absorbency instead. Yes, they're much more obvious, but that just means that I don’t need to worry about discretion, because it's pointless, so, I just wear what works for me and go about my day.

Switching to cloth diapers honestly feels like the natural conclusion to a journey I’ve been on for years. When I first started wearing diapers, as I'm sure we all did, I remember thinking the thin, medical-style ones were so bulky and noticeable. I’d wear them and constantly feel like everyone could tell, even though they were barely doing the job and definitely not as obvious as I thought.

I then eventually started trying thicker, more premium diapers, and at first, I felt the same way, they seemed so much bulkier than what I was used to, but they were also so much better at keeping me comfortable and secure, so I adapted. After that, I discovered boosters, and oh, that was a game changer which I've talked about fairly extensively.

When I finally decided to try cloth diapers, it was like entering a whole new world. At first, it felt overwhelming, it’s such a different experience to put on a diaper that thick and know there’s not really anything you can do to hide it, but then I realized that I’d been building up to this moment for years. Each step along the way, I got more comfortable with prioritizing my comfort and security over subtlety. Cloth was just the next logical step.

They’re thick, sure, but they’re also comfortable, reliable, and incredibly absorbent. They give me the peace of mind I need, and they feel like the ultimate solution to the gradual evolution of my diaper-wearing journey. It’s almost funny how something that would have felt impossible to wear back when I first started now feels completely normal.

The thing is right, people worry way too much about the idea of someone noticing their diapers. It’s like they imagine this world-shattering event where their entire life falls apart because someone realizes they’re padded, but in like a decade of doing this, I can honestly say that’s never happened to me. The worst thing that’s ever come of someone noticing is that they assume I need a bit more help or support than I actually do, and you know what? That doesn’t bother me.

Most people don’t even notice, and the ones who do rarely say anything. On the rare occasion someone does, it’s usually out of curiosity or concern, not judgment. If someone asked me about it, I’d just explain that I’m incontinent and leave it at that, like, if you don't treat it as a big deal, other people take their cues from you and assume it’s not a big deal. Even if someone did make negative assumptions about me from noticing my diapers, it still wouldn’t change how I feel about myself or how I live my life.

I think what helps is that everyone in my life who matters already knows. My partners, my friends, my family, my work, even my partner's friends, they all know, and they’re supportive, and strangers who might notice don’t exactly hold much power over me, so I’ve stopped caring what they think. Life’s too short to stress about how others might react, especially when they’re just passing by and will probably forget about it five minutes later.

So no, I don’t stress about wearing cloth diapers in public, or come up with strategies for how to be more discrete, or even give it much thought at all honestly. I’ve accepted that this is my normal, and I’ve stopped thinking about whether anyone might notice. If they do, that’s fine. It doesn’t change anything for me. If anything, cloth diapers have just made me more confident in embracing who I am and more sure of myself in living my life the way I want to.

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If you mess do you change immediately or are there times you don't? And whats the process like when out and about?

Messing definitely adds an extra layer of complexity to managing incontinence, and how I handle it really depends on the situation. There are definitely times where if I'm at home I'll change basically immediately, like when my body will, like clockwork, mess straight after eating breakfast, but there are also moments where I can’t, or I choose not to for various reasons, from practicality to comfort. It’s all about balance really and finding a way to navigate it that works for the situation I’m in.

For example, I remember one time I went to the zoo with one of my partners. We were having such a fun day wandering around, looking at all the animals, reading the little info plaques, and just enjoying the fresh air. I ended up filling my diaper while we were walking around which I hadn't really planned for, but I also didn’t feel like it was worth interrupting the day to deal with or to head off early or whatever, particularly because we'd had a fun day together planned for a couple of weeks at that point.

The funny thing though? My partner didn’t even realize it. We kept walking, talking, and laughing, and it was like nothing had happened. My diaper was absorbent and secure enough to handle everything, and since my partner didn’t notice, it didn’t really feel like a big deal. We finished walking through the zoo, and then we even stopped for lunch at a little café nearby. It was nice, just sitting there enjoying a meal together, and the whole time, I didn’t feel the need to rush off and change. My partner kept chatting away the whole time, completely oblivious, which honestly made me feel more at ease.

When we got home later in the day, I finally cleaned up and changed, and while it wasn’t the most glamorous part of the experience, it was really no different than any other day. What stuck with me more than anything was how normal it all felt, like, even though I’d been messy for hours, it hadn’t disrupted the day or drawn any unwanted attention, and that's all I really care about to be honest.

As far as changing while out goes... I just don't, honestly, haha. I trust my diapers to do their job, and because I only ever wear the most heavy duty diapers I can, whether cloth more recently or disposables before that, that’s always been enough to get me through whatever situation I'm in until I’m back in a comfortable place where I can clean up properly. I know some might not like that, but people are honestly so in their own worlds that they never notice if I don't rush off to change instantly, like, nobody is on high alert looking for a girl in a messy diaper to be mad about, haha.

That day at the zoo is kind of a perfect example of how I tend to prioritize the experience over the logistics of perfect management I think. Even though I was messy, it didn’t stop me from enjoying the day, and knowing that my partner didn’t even notice made me pretty carefree about it. Overall, I’ve learned to be adaptable and to approach these situations with as much flexibility and acceptance as possible, like, it’s all part of managing incontinence, and the more I embrace it, the less it feels like a big deal.

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So I've Started Wearing Cloth Diapers Fulltime...

I know, I know, this is betrayal on an epic scale, not seen in the history of my blog! What will the disposables think? But it’s true! Not only have I been dabbling in cloth, but it’s become my main way of diapering. The shock! The horror! The drama! I'm sure that long time readers among you might be aghast at this revelation. Serah, I hear you say, on x blog on y date, you said you didn't have an interest in trying cloth, or outright said you wouldn't probably maybe (sounds like me once upon a time), so why the change?

Well, honestly? It all boils down to my infamous, and at this point, probably signature, laziness. Yep. Once again, my diapering habits have shifted because of my unending desire to make things easier for myself. You didn’t have to call me out like that, though, shush.

So here’s what happened right, I moved out of an apartment and into a house. In my old place, there was a magical garbage chute where I could toss my trash into an unending void and never think about it again, but now? Now, I actually have to haul my trash outside. Sure, I'm not going to get super hyperbolic about it and say it was the worst thing to ever happen to me, but listen, the inconvenience of lugging heavy bags full of boosted diapers out every other day made me start noticing the chore, which, as we all know, is the first step toward deciding it’s bad.

I started thinking of ways to cut back on all the used diaper weight that kept filling my garbage. How could I have fewer heavy garbage bags to drag out of my house without compromising on my heavy-duty, ultra-absorbent boosted diaper combos? Well, I'm sure you can see where this is going.

So, I started with just cloth boosters right, while still using my premium disposables, and I genuinely didn't anticipate it going further than that originally. I just thought like, cool, the cloth boosters work as well as the disposable ones, I'll just get a few more and use them as needed, save a few dollars over time, and avoid carrying heavy bags of used boosted diapers outside.

And the lighter garbage was great at first! Turns out, boosters add a ton of weight, so my trash had basically almost halved in heaviness overnight. Washing the boosters was so much more carefree than I expected too, like, I barely had to think about it, and because I’m doing laundry anyway as part of regular life, my brain sort of tunes out the extra load or two of washing every few days.

Then I kind of just... kept using them, over and over again. I even chose them over my stack of disposable boosters because of how comfy and soft they were, and of course, my mind started to wander more and I started to question like, why not go all the way? Why not try actual proper cloth diapering? Would it be so much harder than disposables? Could I make it work?

Spoiler alert (though, come on, it was in the title!): I could, and I did, but it was absolutely not without its challenges and adjustments! So then, what are some factors I've had to consider in my swap to wearing cloth diapers 24/7?

1. Researching Cloth Diaper Basics

When I first decided to give cloth diapers a real shot, I honestly had no idea what I was getting into. It’s a whole world with different types, materials, and care routines. I had to figure out what worked best for my needs, from the right diaper styles to how to wash and dry them properly. At first, it felt really overwhelming, because there’s so much information out there about cloth diapering to process and trial. At one point when my partners asked me how it was going, I felt maybe a little bit crazy talking about how many different absorbent materials there are and their unique properties and how I was layering them and how that was helping with wicking the moisture and so and and so forth, but luckily for me they're fairly used to my diaper-related rants at this stage and tend to just nod along politely, haha. After I got over that initial hurdle though of like, information overload, I found my groove, and it started to just become second nature.

2. Embracing the Lack of Subtlety

This is probably the most obvious difference between cloth and disposables, because let’s be real here, cloth diapers are bulky, so bulky in fact that a lot of people only recommend wearing them at night. They’re quite a bit thicker than even the most absorbent disposables in fact (which is saying a lot when I was wearing boosted Trests). Now, I always knew cloth diapers were thicker than disposables, right, it’s just one of those things everyone mentions, but knowing it and living it are two very different things. Switching to heavy duty cloth diaper setups that would last me all day meant accepting a whole new level of thickness all over again, and don't even get me started on the fact that most of my clothes that fit with boosted premium disposables do not at all fit now that I'm in cloth, haha. I have so many pieces now that I can't get the buttons or zipper done up on because of the bulk of cloth diapers, which is wild to me because they could comfortably accommodate soaked and messy boosted Trests without issues! Honestly though, my grievances about clothes not fitting anymore aside, I don't stress over whether anyone notices my new bulkier cloth diapered state, even if they might make me waddle a bit, because, well, it’s just kind of obvious at this point that I wear diapers, and that’s okay! I think I've said it before, but I'd rather everyone know about my incontinence and diaper wearing than feel self conscious about who I am and tone things down.

3. Establishing a Washing Routine

Laundry was one of my biggest concerns before switching to cloth, because cloth diapering is a commitment. You’re not just tossing used diapers in the trash anymore, you’re storing them, washing them, drying them, and putting them back in rotation. If you’re not someone who enjoys, or can at least tolerate, a consistent laundry routine and a fair bit of planning, cloth diapering could quickly become overwhelming. For me, it blended into my life a lot more quickly than I thought it would, which really surprised me after years of thinking it would forever be the deal-breaker for me. I just throw in a load every two to three days, and it fits seamlessly into my regular routine because I'm already washing clothes anyway as part of regular household chores. Honestly, I’ve reached a point where I barely even think about it anymore, like, some washing loads are clothes and some are my cloth diapering supplies, and not to sound too much like an infamous game dev, but it just kind of works.

4. Messy Diapers

Okay this one, let’s not sugarcoat it, handling messes with cloth diapers requires more planning. Disposables make this super easy, like, you use it, you toss it, end of story. Cloth? Not so much. Depending on your setup, you might need to deal with rinsing, or using liners as an alternative to make cleanup easier. It’s definitely more effort, and it took me a while to figure out a system that worked for me, as someone who ends up in filled diapers almost every day. Disposable diapers are undeniably easier in the messy department, and I'm definitely not going to argue that whatsoever, but I’ve learned tricks to make cloth manageable for me even when it comes to messy diapers. Liners, for instance, have been a game changer for me for cleanup, they're a disposable or sometimes reusable incredibly thin piece of fabric that catches the mess inside the diaper so that it doesn't get on anything, that you can then just chuck out altogether with the mess or clean as appropriate. I use disposable bamboo liners myself, because yes, lazy, that's me, haha, but yeah, with liners it’s not as daunting as I initially feared, it’s kind of just part of the process. I just chuck out the liner with the baby wipes I used to clean myself up, nothing too drastic. Full respect to people who go all the way and have reusable liners and reusable wipes though, you're all champions!

5. Upfront Cost

We can be real about this, cloth diapers are expensive. When you’re looking at going 24/7, it’s not just about grabbing a couple of smaller things for occasional use, like I did initially with the cloth boosters, no, you need a whole stash ready to go. That means shelling out for enough to last you at least a few days between washes, plus wet bags for storing the used diapers / padding and liners if you’re using them. It’s a lot. I remember adding up the cost of everything I’d need, and I had a little moment of like, damn, is this going to be worth it? For me though, as someone who sees themselves in diapers forever, and who genuinely needs them every day, the long-term savings over disposables made it a no-brainer. Not everyone is in a place where they can justify the initial expense, though, and that’s totally valid! There's nothing wrong with sticking to disposables for a smaller cost in the short term if that's more viable than a big upfront investment!

6. Savings and Peace of Mind

One of the most rewarding aspects of switching to cloth has, of course, been the longer term financial savings. Yes, the upfront cost is significant, but I’ve gone from spending $10–$15 (Australian) a day on disposables to spending only the cost of laundry once my stash was built, and once you do the math of how quickly you'll make back the money that would have been spent on disposables, it puts you more at ease. Beyond the savings, there’s also the peace of mind right. No matter what happens in the future, I know I’ll always have a reliable diapering solution, and will never again have to think about going without (though funnily enough I have a multi month disposable diaper stash that is now sitting unused because of cloth, woops). That's an extremely comforting feeling for someone like me who sees my identity as so deeply intertwined with my diapers and my incontinence.

Final Thoughts

Honestly, if anyone is curious about trying cloth, I’d recommend starting with boosters just like I did. You still have the ease of use of your disposables and the effectiveness of your boosters, but now you just chuck the boosters in the wash, save some money, and have lighter diaper combos to throw out. Win win! At the end of the day though, you gotta do what suits your brain, just like all good full-time diapering habits <3

Switching to cloth diapers full-time has been a very surprising and ultimately rewarding journey for me. What started as a small effort to reduce trash weight has turned into a lifestyle change that I have genuinely really enjoyed. It’s not without its challenges, absolutely, but the benefits, both practical and personal, definitely outweigh the downsides for me so far.

If you’re curious about cloth, I encourage you to give it a try. Start small with boosters or part-time use and see how it feels for you. Everyone’s journey is different, but you might just find, like I did, that cloth diapers are worth the effort!

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Following up on the previous ask from another user, is a feel check to see how wet you are somewhat needed at this point? While one would assume you're a master in the subject after years of being diapered 24/7, I also imagine that much like losing control of your bladder, you become somewhat desensitized to the feeling of being wet or having a wet diaper weighing down on your waist or causing you to have a bit of a waddle. Also been reading since month 2, thanks for your diligence in recording.

Absolutely!

I really have no other way to keep track of the status of my diaper, because diapers just, as a rule, are warm, and most of the time, some level of wet, right? There's really not much of a tangible sensation difference between a lightly wet diaper and quite a heavily used one if you're experiencing those same feelings day after day, it seriously all kind of blends together.

I definitely don't feel the weight of them anymore either. I was completely soaked by the time I got home from work one day, in a boosted Trest I'd been wearing since that morning, and I handed it to one of my partners after I got changed, and they could not believe just how heavy it was, haha, but your brain is just so good at tuning those details out when they happen all the time! We seriously take for granted what our brain edits, and what we perceive as totally normal or not.

I have also found that I really can't remember with any kind of reliability when or if I've wet anymore (setting aside the passive leaking and dribbling of the stress incontince for a minute). If it only literally just happened, I'd be able to tell you, but 10 minutes ago? 20? Nah, haha. My brain just seems to toss out recollection of it after it's happened, which I guess makes sense, because it is effectively useless information right? Like, what benefit would it be to retain any longer term memory of a single instance of wetting?

Even right now as I type this, I know I did come home in a diaper so full that it leaked when I sat down, that was memorable enough, but... I could not tell you a single instance I could remember of how it got that way. I obviously have wet a lot throughout the day for it to reach that state, but any specific examples I could recall of that happening? I got nothing, haha. I think it's genuinely become such a nothing event that it's just not remotely important enough for my brain to file away for later recollection.

I think that has been one of my deeper reflections lately though honestly, just how much the way your brain works can change or adapt to wearing diapers fulltime. It's really interesting, but also a bit shocking sometimes because it can sneak up on you!

So yes, as my partners will attest from having watched me do it on many many many occasions while out and about, haha, a feel test of my diaper is really my only way to tell if I need a change soon or not.

If you've never tried it for yourself, I'd totally recommend it. You'd be surprised at how efficient it is!

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Do you mostly change on a schedule, or by trying to sense when a change is needed and do it then?

So, the only time I've ever changed on a schedule was when I was trialing wearing the super thick and absorbent diaper and booster combos for 24 hours, quite some time ago. To test if it was a feasible idea, during my tests and weeks of doing it, I wouldn't change until 24 hours had elapsed essentially.

How I check these days though whether I'm in need of a change or not, is I actually really like to touch the outside of my diaper when I get the chance. It's honestly way easier than trying to check by sight, because you can pretty subtly put a hand under your skirt or just feel your diaper through your jeans or whatever without having to properly strip down. Personally, I find that you can gain so much information from just running your fingers across the diaper, like whether any of the padding in the immediate vicinity of your fingers is wet, to what extent wetness has traveled across the diaper, how saturated any one point of the diaper is, how swollen the padding is, etc.

I've even taken to asking one of my partners for a second opinion lately and having them feel my diaper, and that's been pretty fun! I feel pretty confident in my diaper checking method actually because even they can tell, without much diaper experience, and just from touch, if they think I might need a change, and they're right the majority of the time!

Once upon a time my love of and often over-reliance on high absorbency diaper combos, as well as a healthy dose of laziness, meant that it wasn't uncommon that I only knew I needed to change when I was leaking and my clothes were getting damp, haha, but I've been making an effort to be more proactive with checking my diapers since my partners have been around!

Common courtesy and all that <3