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We’ve reblogged a lot of posts with tips if you want to scroll down to see the suggestions!

I am want to include a character who age regresses to deal with a very traumatic situation between age 5-12 (she watched her parents and twin brother be killed and was kidnapped,raped and beaten for 7 years until she was rescued by her pack) she shifts into her wolf at 16. She found one of her mates in her pack

Started regressing at 16 when her mate suggested trying it as she needed a way to deal with her childhood trauma.

A year into regressing,one day one of the werewolf princes visits the pack to find his mate or mates and to their amazement it was them. 

The werewolf prince found out that she was a little so he made a playroom/nursery for her.

How do I establish rules,rewards and punishments? 

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I am want to include a character who age regresses to deal with a very traumatic situation between age 5-12 (she watched her parents and twin brother be killed and was kidnapped,raped and beaten for 7 years until she was rescued by her pack) she shifts into her wolf at 16. She found one of her mates in her pack

Started regressing at 16 when her mate suggested trying it as she needed a way to deal with her childhood trauma.

A year into regressing,one day one of the werewolf princes visits the pack to find his mate or mates and to their amazement it was them. 

The werewolf prince found out that she was a little so he made a playroom/nursery for her.

How do I establish rules,rewards and punishments? 

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I want a caregiver..... Is there anyone interested?

We’re not taking any more Littles but maybe someone who sees this post would be interested

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We’re not answering questions like this anymore, we’re not really qualified to suggest websites for dating. We can suggest matchmaking blogs tho

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I’m having trouble finding a mommy dom. I’ve tried websites and different apps

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I'm having trouble finding a mommy dom. I've tried websites and different apps

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I would say that if you’re not sure, you should talk to a therapist. I’m not sure myself.

Is it just me? Is it common?

So, I am new to all of this. Just recently looked up what some of these terms meant and have come to the realization that I have naturally just lived and personified traits everyday.

Is it normal for someone to live everyday at a regressed age or is it something I should just go talk to a therapist about? I am pretty sure I have been living as an Adult Teen since my teen years. There are some things that have changed over the years but I still end up dressing and acting like I would have then. I am confused and just trying to understand more about this. I don’t know if I am constantly in this state of mind or if I just naturally slip in and out of it.

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Is it just me? Is it common?

So, I am new to all of this. Just recently looked up what some of these terms meant and have come to the realization that I have naturally just lived and personified traits everyday.

Is it normal for someone to live everyday at a regressed age or is it something I should just go talk to a therapist about? I am pretty sure I have been living as an Adult Teen since my teen years. There are some things that have changed over the years but I still end up dressing and acting like I would have then. I am confused and just trying to understand more about this. I don't know if I am constantly in this state of mind or if I just naturally slip in and out of it.

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How to introduce a character who age regresses into a story with werewolves and mates.

Well, none of us are writers, so I’m not really sure how to make it so it incorporates werewolves, but maybe just summarize their circumstances and include whether it’s a public or private thing.

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For our first official post, we wanted to showcase tips for new daddies! Feel free to reblog if you find any of these helpful!

Tips for New Daddies

Always be aware of her little space triggers! Know what helps her get there and know what helps her stay there.

Know the right time and place to help her into her little space. You should take visuals, her voice changes, and her mood into account. A good daddy knows when little space is needed.

Take care of her. That should explain itself; run her a bath, color with her, cuddle her, pick out her favorites little shows/movies, etc. 

Have a set list of rules, punishments, and rewards. Always make sure you  use the right punishment for the crime. And make sure you always follow through with the punishment if she doesn’t straighten up. 

Aftercare is by far the most important thing. After a rough scene, or punishment, always make her feel safe. Cuddles, snacks, stuffies, and love are in order.

Do things for her. Fill up her sippy, go get her paci when she’s fussy. Even the smallest things have the biggest impact.

Band-aid boo boos immediately, no mater how big or small

Make sure she’s keeping up with her health; medicine, bathing, meals, etc.

Make sure her mental health is taken care of too. Most littles use their little space as an escape from the adult world.

In public places, be sure to still be her daddy. I’m not saying to go around and spank her in public. More like, if she breaks a rule, tap her on the butt or whisper in her ear to behave. There are plenty of punishments out there that are suitable for public use (i.e. hand on the shopping cart, holding on to daddy’s belt, etc)

If there are anymore beginner things you think a daddy should know, drop it below! Thanks for reading! 

-Charmander & Princess 👑

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How do you deal with breakups while in littlespace? Is it harder to go into littlespace after you lose your caregiver?

It depends on the little. For some, it can be harder. Some Littles might want to avoid little space after a breakup. If you’re dealing with a breakup I suggest surrounding yourself with people who care about you, and if you’re able to go into little space and it comforts you, use it. If it doesn’t, don’t force it.

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I just wondered if you had tips for new caregivers?

Always communicate and listen to your little, especially when they’re in little space! Make sure to help them and support them. Stick to rules! And most importantly be sure to love your little!

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Hello there💛 I was wondering, how do you find a good cg? I feel like it's easy when your a girl but I'm a gay guy (16 btw) and I feel like there's no caregivers for me

You can always try to ask friends to be a platonic caregiver. Or join a cgl match blog

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Little Space days while quarantined

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Hi! Kind of new to MDLB and I was wondering what phrases and names I could call my little to encourage him

Little boy, little prince, my prince, baby boy, Mommy’s Boy, I’m so proud of you, I love you, you’re a good boy, etc.

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My girlfriend (a switch) is unable to go into any headspace. I can't help her in person due to us being long distance. I'm trying everything I can to get her into little space,but nothing's working. What should we do? Should we try getting her to mommy space, or...? We just don't know what to do.

Do you know if there’s a specific reason she can’t get into any headspace? If there is, talking about it might help. Maybe she’s stressed, upset, etc. if not, it could just be one of those times that it doesn’t work. If she can’t get into little space, try with Mommy space and go from there.

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Hey I need y’all’s help please. I really want a cg but I have no idea where to find one. Could you recommend placed to find a cg.

Tumblr has some matchmaking blogs for that! We can’t recommend any because we don’t use any, but you can ask around before choosing one.

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My loving and supportive Cg saw me say that I love them, but didn't respond. Does she just want some alone time, or is this something more? Furthermore, how can you tell if your Cg wants time to themselves? We're long distance BTW.

Communication is key in any relationship. You should outright ask if your CG wants time alone. That’s really the only way to know for sure. Sometimes my little wants time alone, and because I worry about her, she makes sure to tell me that. My little and I are also long distance. -Mommy E