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Even after 7 yrs, I still keep coming back to them, and they still teach me what it means to truly love someone ❤️

You would die for the people you love, but would you live for them? Would you change for the better for them? Would you truly accept them as they truly are and not try to change them? And would you still love them even after all that?

And not just for our lovers, but for our friends especially. Cause too often we forget our friends matter too.

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knew there was something sus about having long hairs. Men with long hairs are never straight.

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Celebrating my bi awakening while dungeons and dragons : honor among theives, was a bad idea.

The guy is gorgeous and the girl is built as af

Can they both destroy me please 🫠

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I'm so sick of people saying water doesn't taste. Water fuckin TASTES

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I'm so sick of people saying water doesn't taste. Water fuckin TASTES

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so judging by how astonished people are by it every time we explain it to anybody, it seems like my wife and I might really be onto something here

during the pandemic, we invented something we call "astronaut time."

when it's astronaut time, it's like we are two astronauts wearing the big helmets, moving around the station on totally separate tasks. one of us is outside the space station and one of us is inside the space station. our radios do not work and we have no way of communicating with each other. we might see each other through the lil porthole windows, but we ignore each other because we both have different things to do.

"astronaut time" is how we get total privacy when we live in the same apartment. I will pretend you don't exist. You will pretend I don't exist. we have a nonverbal, zero-contact signal for when astronaut time is over (usually "I'll draw a smiley-face on the whiteboard in the kitchen when I'm done"). No talking, stay out of each other's line of sight, we are actively avoiding each other, unless you are currently experiencing a medical emergency goodbye.

it has been. a godsend. imagine living with your partner and being able to close every single tab in your brain related to social interaction. no fear of being interrupted by a "hey, quick question--" or "sorry to bother you, but do you know where the scissors are?" or "did you want something to eat, too?" Once or twice a month, we look at each other lovingly, hold hands, and say "baby I think I need some astronaut time tonight," and the other person goes "okay cool. bye! have a nice night!" and nobody's feelings are hurt and we both go and have a lovely evening completely by ourselves.

like idk it's a small thing but it's made our lives so much nicer, so if you and your partner/roommate are both people who sometimes need total privacy in order to recharge, maybe try it

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chat I need lazy morning make outs that lead to soft sex with her right now or i’m gonna go absolutely insane

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Got reminded again of my old coworker who was a massive misogynist but also trans inclusive. Told me he believed trans women are indeed women because "only women would be stupid enough to want to be women"

I wonder what he's doing now

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Got reminded again of my old coworker who was a massive misogynist but also trans inclusive. Told me he believed trans women are indeed women because "only women would be stupid enough to want to be women"

I wonder what he's doing now

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All I want is to take care of her.

To be able to come over anytime she just needs someone there. To be able to hold her, and make her feel safe. To offer comfort and to let her know she’s so incredibly special.

I want to make her comfort food and get her favourite drink. I want to pack her bag in the evening so she can stay in bed a few minutes longer in the morning. I want to give her my shirt or hoodie to wear, so she knows I’m always with her. I want to give her comfort with the smallest gestures, a hug just because, holding her hand when she’s next to me.

I want her to know she’s not alone, and that I would do absolutely anything for her. I want to make the bad days a little easier, and the good days even better <3

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Imagine that day you walk through your home, walking past a chair with a jacket - not yours - draped over it, a pair of shoes not your size at the door, an extra set of house keys on the hook, a book you haven’t read with a random object in it to mark the page…all the reminders of the person you love in the home you’ve made together.

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This is the most sapphic shit I have ever seen

“I wanna nap in the warmth of your voice.” - my girlfriend out of nowhere today.