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truly never getting over the greatest loss streaming services caused: the disappearance of DVD special features. behind the scenes, bloopers, deleted scenes, commentaries, I will never forget you, I will never stop missing you.

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I thought it was good idea to watch all of Kelly & Stella’s crossover episodes. Kelly been on this bitch 84 years so I figured I’d start with Stella and 4x2 of Chicago Med … Kelly was two seconds away from crashing out and it’s just her lying in a hospital bed

S14 Kelly is going to make it everyone’s problem if anything happens to her and the baby 😭

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CHICAGO FIRE: 12x02 - Call Me McHolland

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CHICAGO FIRE 6.06 'Down is Better'

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I think Joe and Violet are really good picks. Especially if we’re just going with who’s ever in town otherwise I could see separate and wanting Casey to be godfather. But yet still have Violet’s godmother.

For the stellaride baby who do you think they would choose for the god mother or god father ?

Hmmm, I think it'll be either once the baby is born OR if Stella or Kelly has a close call that prompts them to decide they need to get it finalized.

I will say I hope we see the conversation of them asking!

UPDATE: LMAO not i misread the question and thought it said when not WHO. Omg I'm so sorry!!

I think they will ask Violet & Joe to be the godparents!

Who do you think anon? 😅🙂

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I don’t want Damon to be godfather and if that’s realistically, then the only realistic option for godmother is Katie. I just really don’t like Damon and I really need him to own up to what he did because he does not have a good moral compass as far as I can tell . But yeah if they’re gonna do people that are actually in town then it’s probably those two even though I think Joe would be a good godfather.

For the stellaride baby who do you think they would choose for the god mother or god father ?

i think realistically damon will be the godfather since he’s the baby’s uncle. and then violet is kinda the only realistic option for godmother

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the constitution demands trump be removed from power immediately

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Like I really just want to reply now but also I don't because if you're just going to assume I can't text back, which I guess maybe sh thinks I can't , I think what bothers m is "K cool,"I'm just taking it as passive aggressive.

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Am I overreacting?

omg so this was weird,

this old person I worked with texted me last night and said Hi how ar you. To be very clear the last time she texted me was in 2023. Which fine whatever. And I did feel weird so I was going to wait before I texted her back.

She texted me last night and said HI how are you and I didn't respond because I had just woken up, and I didn't know it was such a big deal Actually, I was going to respond today, I woke up late and then I had my therapy session, and then I forgot about it

Now she just sent m a text saying Ok, so you can't text back ,k cool

I am probably reading too much into this, but that makes me not want to text back. I feel like I can hear th passive aggressiveness

Have I had the time to text her back today, technically, but also she doesn't know what I'm doing today. After that, I feel like I was right in my gut to not text her back. I hate when people do that, you don't know what I m doing today.

Am i overreacting?

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Kelly Severide's Father Figures Over the Years

So first I'm going to talk about the father figures and why, and then I'm going to put them in order of Influence/Importance

Benny Severide: Benny Severide is an asshole but it is his father and Benny has given Kelly some good advice, well one good piece of advice from season 1 when Kelly taled about leaving Squad and going to Madrid with Renee. Benny had told him: There is no replacing Rescue Squad. But you already know that. That's why you came out here, so I could talk you out of going. Look, I know I wasn't there for you like I should have been or could have been. I've 3 wives removed from your mother, and I'm in no position to give you advice. But you're scared, Kelly, and you know why you're afraid of it, because you're not ready for this. DISAPPOINT ANYONE--HELL, DISAPPOINT EVERYONE, BUT DON'T EVER DISAPPOINT YOURSELF. Even though Benny was hiding from his ex-wife Beth in S2, he did want to spend time with Kelly. He was trying in his own crazy way to make up time with Kelly that he had lost. And as much as I hate Benny Severide, he does love Kelly. In his own twisted way, he loves his eldest son.

Wallace Boden: Boden has always looked out for Kelly. He is the one that we hear in S10 that found Kelly at headquarters after Grissom threw away his squad invitation and said "I thought you wanted to be on the Squad." In s1 with the addiction and concern about paralysis and him taking about moving to Madrid with Renee. Boden encourages him not to make a hasty decision and said with your experience and your dad's history with CFD I can get you into another department like OFI or anywhere you want to go. We can make that happen. Even when that Tara made accusation, Boden told Kelly he believed that Kelly did nothing the entire time but he had to be a chief and Kelly understood. I know it could have been due to being Chief but when Kelly came back after Shay's death, he tells Kelly we can get you grief counseling, and even though Boden didn't think his marriage to Brittany would last he did support him and told Kelly when he said he was in the pool of how long he'd be married and Kelly told him "I won't lt you down" And Boden wake "I hope that's true." Bodeen didn't want to demote Kelly and even when Kelly was demoted still invited him to officer meetings. In S6, after Stella and Otis in the house with gunshots, Boden tells Kelly "you have a big heart severide, this is not a weakness, it's a strength but duty must come first. In season 7 I know it's Benny that says it first but Kelly agrees to it. "Boden , he's the father you never had." Kelly agreed. IN S8, with his boat, when Kelly has to fix his boat after him and Steella got stranded int he ocean. Boden to Kelly: I know you'll fix it but I just wanted you to know that I know (if that's not dad behavior , I don't know what is." Boden giving advice about women to Kelly. "Never try to understand women Kelly. Talks about his wife and that everhying gets better once everyone is home. Then Kelly asks Stella to move in with him. When Kelly gets engaged to Stella he is genuinely happy for them. If anyone can remember any more and wants to add feel free. But I think I gave enough reeciepts on how Boden is his father figure.

Grissom- Mostly this is from what Kelly says. Kelly talks bout how thee reason h is a firefighter is because of Grissom and it meant a lot to him. Of course if I remember corrlety, Benny saved Grissom so Grissom felt like he oweed to Benny. I do think Grissom does care for Kelly in a way but Grissom is like Benny in the fact that h elikees to "leapfrog" to get what he wants. But I'm adding him in here because I dod think Grissom helped Kelly to an extent but then in S10 we find out why it had been so long and it's because Grissom tried to tank Severide going to Squad only Boden brought it up to him when Boden was Captain.

Van Meter: Again this is by what Kelly said. Kelly said in S11 I belive that everything hee knows aboutarson is because of Van Meter even thought his father had been in OFI. So he's on here.

Honestly, this is the information I have, and I could be missing things. But in no way is Pascal a father figure. I mean, maybe they're friends and maybe Pascal could be like an older brother/cousin thing to Kelly, but not a father figure

Now the Importance/Ranking for Kelly Severide's father figure IMHO where 1 is th best

Wallace Boden (This is a given and I will not take anything else into account)

Benny (He wasn't a great dad by any means, but I feel he had more influence even being absent or in and out of th house during formative years, also I don't have enough information with the other ones.)

Van Meter

Grissom

Pascal (Like I said, I don't think he is a Father Figure at all, but I'll put him hear since apparently Andreea thinks that.

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Kelly Severide's Father Figures Over the Years

So first I'm going to talk about the father figures and why, and then I'm going to put them in order of Influence/Importance

Benny Severide: Benny Severide is an asshole but it is his father and Benny has given Kelly some good advice, well one good piece of advice from season 1 when Kelly taled about leaving Squad and going to Madrid with Renee. Benny had told him: There is no replacing Rescue Squad. But you already know that. That's why you came out here, so I could talk you out of going. Look, I know I wasn't there for you like I should have been or could have been. I've 3 wives removed from your mother, and I'm in no position to give you advice. But you're scared, Kelly, and you know why you're afraid of it, because you're not ready for this. DISAPPOINT ANYONE--HELL, DISAPPOINT EVERYONE, BUT DON'T EVER DISAPPOINT YOURSELF. Even though Benny was hiding from his ex-wife Beth in S2, he did want to spend time with Kelly. He was trying in his own crazy way to make up time with Kelly that he had lost. And as much as I hate Benny Severide, he does love Kelly. In his own twisted way, he loves his eldest son.

Wallace Boden: Boden has always looked out for Kelly. He is the one that we hear in S10 that found Kelly at headquarters after Grissom threw away his squad invitation and said "I thought you wanted to be on the Squad." In s1 with the addiction and concern about paralysis and him taking about moving to Madrid with Renee. Boden encourages him not to make a hasty decision and said with your experience and your dad's history with CFD I can get you into another department like OFI or anywhere you want to go. We can make that happen. Even when that Tara made accusation, Boden told Kelly he believed that Kelly did nothing the entire time but he had to be a chief and Kelly understood. I know it could have been due to being Chief but when Kelly came back after Shay's death, he tells Kelly we can get you grief counseling, and even though Boden didn't think his marriage to Brittany would last he did support him and told Kelly when he said he was in the pool of how long he'd be married and Kelly told him "I won't lt you down" And Boden wake "I hope that's true." Bodeen didn't want to demote Kelly and even when Kelly was demoted still invited him to officer meetings. In S6, after Stella and Otis in the house with gunshots, Boden tells Kelly "you have a big heart severide, this is not a weakness, it's a strength but duty must come first. In season 7 I know it's Benny that says it first but Kelly agrees to it. "Boden , he's the father you never had." Kelly agreed. IN S8, with his boat, when Kelly has to fix his boat after him and Steella got stranded int he ocean. Boden to Kelly: I know you'll fix it but I just wanted you to know that I know (if that's not dad behavior , I don't know what is." Boden giving advice about women to Kelly. "Never try to understand women Kelly. Talks about his wife and that everhying gets better once everyone is home. Then Kelly asks Stella to move in with him. When Kelly gets engaged to Stella he is genuinely happy for them. If anyone can remember any more and wants to add feel free. But I think I gave enough reeciepts on how Boden is his father figure.

Grissom- Mostly this is from what Kelly says. Kelly talks bout how thee reason h is a firefighter is because of Grissom and it meant a lot to him. Of course if I remember corrlety, Benny saved Grissom so Grissom felt like he oweed to Benny. I do think Grissom does care for Kelly in a way but Grissom is like Benny in the fact that h elikees to "leapfrog" to get what he wants. But I'm adding him in here because I dod think Grissom helped Kelly to an extent but then in S10 we find out why it had been so long and it's because Grissom tried to tank Severide going to Squad only Boden brought it up to him when Boden was Captain.

Van Meter: Again this is by what Kelly said. Kelly said in S11 I belive that everything hee knows aboutarson is because of Van Meter even thought his father had been in OFI. So he's on here.

Honestly, this is the information I have, and I could be missing things. But in no way is Pascal a father figure. I mean, maybe they're friends and maybe Pascal could be like an older brother/cousin thing to Kelly, but not a father figure

Now the Importance/Ranking for Kelly Severide's father figure IMHO where 1 is th best

Wallace Boden (This is a given and I will not take anything else into account)

Benny (He wasn't a great dad by any means, but I feel he had more influence even being absent or in and out of th house during formative years, also I don't have enough information with the other ones.)

Van Meter

Grissom

Pascal (Like I said, I don't think he is a Father Figure at all, but I'll put him hear since apparently Andreea thinks that.

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Season 13:

Ep 1-3:

Ep 1: 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,

EP2: 1,2,

EP3: no smiles in this one :(

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Kelly Severide Season 1-5 smiles totaled:

Season 5:157

Season 4:100

Season 3:164

Season 2:113

Season 1: 103

So All together that is 637 smiles over 5 seasons.